拯救婚姻权威专家出新招：怎样拯救外遇的婚姻

幸福快乐的婚姻是相近的，悲剧的婚姻各有各的不幸。或外遇，或家庭主要成员分歧(婆媳之间极端)，或无共同话题这些，常有将会让婚姻越来越不身心健康。

 feichangshiwaiyu，huishanglelingyirendexin，xinlideheiyingjianghuiyibeizidounanyishihuai。danshixuduoshiershiburongderenmende，dangtadequechanshengshi，renmengaizenyangkandai，shigaiyizhima?neihunyinyizhideliuchengyouyoushenme?tiaoxuansheqishifeichangrongyide，keshibingbushisheidounengchengdanwanbiyiduanhunyinzhongtouzailaidebuliangyingxiangde。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

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1，犯错误方立即回头路

 hunyinyizhideqiantitiaojianshifancuowufangwubiguanniandaozishendebuzhengque，haixiangyaozhongguijiazhong。yibanbabamamahuohaizihewaibudeshehuiyulunshihuirangkeguanshishidaoxiangxingzheiyifangweide。

2，受害方强迫宽容

 yinlihundemocazulihequedian，yingduidebingdehunyin，xuduorenhaihuitiaoxuanzaici。zaiqianqi，zheileikuanrongshiqiangpode。shouhaifangdekuanrongshihunyinyizhidexianjuetiaojian。debingyaozhibiaozhihaiyaobiaobenjianzhi，hunyinyizhihaiyaodongfangshi，shouhaifangmeishenmedaodedixianderenrangshiburongyiranghunyinzhenshishenxinjiankangde。

3，说明观点

 kuanronglelingyifangbuyiweizhelingyifangdezuofashibeirentongde，shouhaifangjibukeyijiuchanbuxiudechizelingyifang，yebukeyizishibugaodebeilingyifangcaitadaodedixian。nikeyitanbaiciciwotiaoxuanlekuanrongni，jinjinxiangjixianghuyigejiyu，jiaruzaichanshengxiangjindeshierzaiyebuhuizaiyuanliang。

4，相互剖析缘故，互相监管改进的实行状况

 hunyinbingle，liangrenquanshiyouguoshide。liangrenpingxinjingqidetanyixiafenbiedenantidian(liuyibubitanlingyifangdeguoshi，feichangrongyizaochengercifenqi)，erqiemingquetichushihougaijindefangwei。

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5，婚姻转暖，黑影变浅

 lijingyiduanshiqideqinfen，nijiuhuifaxianyiwanglingyifangjiyunidetongkuzaoyifengqingyundanjinjinyoushihouhuicitengni。lingyifangyehuifajueshizaitaizuigaizhenxini，niyuelaiyuegengqiangle，dajiachuangjiandexingfushenghuorengranhaijianli。

6，找寻并肩作战的事儿

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7，比过去更关注另一方

 renmenchangchanghuihaolabahenwangjileteng，waiyudeyuangushishenglixuehexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiushiqukaolvshizaochengde，qingbiejilingyifangneiyangdejiyu，gengwuxuqumolianlingyifanggailedexinxin。

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8，另一方珍惜稀罕你

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9，信心，为自己而活

 nikeyicongxinlihewaizaicengmianwanshanziwo，jinizishendouaishangziji。ruguonidecunhuonantibuxuyifuyulingyifang，nidexinlifengfuchangchangxunzhaoyouyiyideshiqingquzuo，nibiannenggouxinxinqilai，chediwangjiguoqudeheiying。lingwai，ninengzuohuizhenzhengdezishen，buyouyiquyuelingyifang，jinidetaiyanghechusegexinghuaxiyinzhudaolingyifang。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?