拯救婚姻：挽救婚姻的6个妙招

离异牵涉过多的是和非，损害的是小孩，也有彼此的各种各样矛盾提温。那麼，当婚姻遭受危機该怎么办，下边穆木教师教你6个妙招挽救婚姻，统一行动吧：

1、防止请亲戚朋友干预

 youxuduorendaopengdaohunyinweijideneishihou，doushibuduanzhaoqinqipengyoushushuo，tingquyijianletamendejianyiyihou，jieguofandaoyulaiyuzao。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

 zheiyouyuzheileiqingtucujinzishenzhenduifuqiganqingyufayouchengjian，yibianyouyibiandishushuo，yibanrenjubeizhuguanpanduannengli，doushizaiyuyanshangpianzhongzishen，neiyangnideqinqipengyouhaowuyiwenhuipianxiangni，yincibangnizhengtaolingyifangfandaocushihuoshangjiayou。wanjiuhunyin：wanjiuhunyinde6gemiaozhao

2、不必盲目跟风仿效他人

youxierenyizhixiaicankaotarendefangfa，quebuqingchuzishendezhuangkuangbushihetarendefangshi。

 meiyigejiazhongdezhongleishibuyiyangde，meiyouyimoyiyangdemaodun，henjianghuiyouyizhongfangzhisihaierdebanfaquejinjinbuyiniyiren，yincizenyanglejiezijihunyinnaizhishilianqingneishihoude"meihaoshiguang"kanqilaihenbixu。

3、不必尝试冷暴力解决危機

 youdefufurenweilengbaolihuoshiliangdifenjujiunenggoujiaomiezhanzheng，rangshijiandanhuazheiyiqie，keshishijishangshijianbingbukeyidanhuahunyinweiji。zheileixiaochendelengbaolizongshijiajuweiji，tatongchangbizhengzhidepohuailiyeyaoda。

 lengbaolideshichangqianjingtongchangshishiluo，sheiyeburongyinizaiyiduanshijianneihaohaodisisuohunyindeweiji，fandaohuisichuliudang，lejiezijideshiyongjiazhi。wanjiuhunyin：wanjiuhunyinde6gemiaozhao

4、不必去担心谁错谁对

 zaoyuhunyinweijidefufuyizhixiaihuxiangmaiyuan，guijiuyulingyifangjiangmaodunehua，changshibayiwusuoyoutuidaolingyifangshoushang。shijishang，zheileizhaoxunshihefeidezuofabudanshitulaowugongde，bingqiehaihuijianghunyindemaodunkuodahua。hunyinzhongbenzhijiumeiyoushihefei。

 xuduoneishihoushiduiyuairendehulvegenwangdiao，caihuishihunyinzoudaozuihou。keshidanghunyinweijichuxiandeneishihou，renmenyoutaiguoduzhuzhonghunyinzhongdebuzhengque，guogaodeguidinglelingyifang，naizhixuduoneishihoubianweileyanke。

5、制订短期内的总体目标

 hunyinweijibingbushiyichaoyixibaofade，zheishiyinweimaodundeleijizaochengdejieguo。neiyangjiubixuzhidingduanqineishijizongtimubiao。

 bubizhidingyigechouxiangxingdezongtimubiaolaibaochihunyinxingfudecuojue。yaoduogoutongjiaoliu，chuangjianshijixingdetongde，jianghuibaochidezongtimubiao。yaoshiqidaigaijinhunyinweijideyifangzaiyigejudong，huoshishiyigexiaoyuyanshangzuochuyumaodunehuashifanguolaidezuofa，jiunenggouhuanjiehunyinweiji。wanjiuhunyin：wanjiuhunyinde6gemiaozhao

6、懂得找寻积极主动的解决方案

 jiazhongmianbuleyoumaodungenmaodun，keshiyaocongmaodunzhongxunzhaojijizhudongdemaodun，jijizhudongdemaodunshishenme?jijizhudongdemaodunjiushishuozuihoujieguomeiyouduibicidaozhijudadesunhai，jinjinyizhongmengliedemoheqifangfahegoutongjiaoliufangfa，maodunzhihoufandaochulilehenduonanti，youliyubicidezhangwo。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?