拯救婚姻：感慨婚姻究竟是什么?

许多人感慨婚姻究竟是什么?有时会感觉婚姻令人很疲倦。两人由于相互之间吸引住而走入婚姻，在婚姻里又有很多人 由于太掌握而两人分离。好像这种都太矛盾了，两人为何不可以像之前一样因为了解而互相喜爱，互相照顾。

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 shijishanghunyinfeichangjiandan，nidelaogongyefeichangjiandan。zuoweinansheng，haowuyiwenjiumianbulejiaojiheyurengoutong，yaoshitakeyichulaideneishihouyunishuoyisheng，wanhuijiayunishuoyisheng，bujiuxingma?qishijiushishuozhongshi，qishijiushishuotaaizhenidezhuyaobiaoxianma?tayoutadeyali，nikeyijiyutaxuyoudeshipeihejili。

 guanzhuzishen，zuohunyinlide“hulihutu”xingfudenvrenhunyinlihaiyouyigezuijupohuailidebaoliqingxiang，neibianshiyuyanbaoli。richangshenghuoyouyigehenguangfandezhuangkuang：baxingfujiaojileluren，erbasunhaijiaojilezijiaren。zaihunyinrichangshenghuoxuduonvshiyizhiguanbutaihaozishendezui，xuduodemaodundoushiyizuizhongchuqude。

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 zaihunyinlizuoyige“hulihutu”denvxing，budanburongyishinizaihunyinyishizhuxinglibeidongjineng，haihuishinizaihunyinyishizhuxinglizhenxingfu。shuobailede“hulihutu”jiushishuoxiangyaoniduoyifenbaorongheqianrang，duolizailingyifangdeshijiaoqudulisikao，neiyangcaihuijinidehunyinyishizhuxingzhenxingfu。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?