拯救婚姻的办法，这六点很关键

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?我们都知道当两人领了证踏入了婚姻的圣殿时就刚开始了归属于两人的婚姻生活，在婚姻生活中将会大家会亲身经历各式各样的状况，大家从一开始的因为爱而完婚到后边必须为油盐酱醋而担忧，必须为养育小孩，赡养老人而努力奋斗。

 zhangciyiwangguishuyudajia2gedehunyinshenghuohuoxujiuhuiyouyuzheizhongnantiershanshuolelvdeng。danghunyinchuxianlejiedi，niyouyaoxiangwanjiu，zheishihounihaowuyiwenhenfannaogairuhezuocaihao，xiabianjiujidahuoergongxiang6gewanhuihunyindebanfa，yiqilailejieyixiaba。laogongjianjueyaolihunruhewanjiuhunyin?hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

一、思考观查，找到婚姻出現难题的因素

 congpingshideshiriliuyiguanchatadezhuanbian，fajuetazaixinshencengmianyoushenmechuxianyichang。sikaozijizainayifangmianranglingyifangchedishiquzixinxin，zhaodaodajiazhongjiandaodiyouyunaxienantierlaidaozheiyibu。ciwaizaizheiyiduanqinei，yingjinkenengbimianjifalingyifangduinidedichu，zaochengmeifawanhuihunyindebuliangyingxiang。

二、消除顾虑，提升相互的信赖感

 dangdaijiazhongdoubuyi，yuanbenshehuifazhanyalida，benrenjiaozaoganjiuduo，youyaodanfuqi2gejiazhongsiweilaonianrendefuyangyiwu，yeyouhaizijiaoyunianshu，quanshigongzuoyalia，renyebukeyiguangnulifendou，yaoburanjianzhibianchengshebei，douyaozhaoyizhongfangfalaihuanjieyali，jiarunikeyizhenshiyongxinquzhangwozheifenairen，jiuhuifajuetadeburongyi，gengqingbieyongbubidecaiyiqutishengtadegongzuoyali，tahuigengweimeifaqingchuxinlidefanmen。

 duoduodejili，duoduodehaowuyiwen，rangtanengzaijianxinyitianhou，zaijiazhong，zainishoushanglijihuanjieyali，weidiertiandegongzuozhongtianmanqudongli。wanhuihunyindebanfa，zheiliudianhenguanjian

三、更改念头，多想到另一方的优势

 yongshehuizhengnengliangjijizhudongdeyingduizhixiqinshu，rendoubingbushijizhide，rangzijiqinfenquhulvetarujindebutaihaozhuyaobiaoxian，duoxiangdaolingyifangdeyoushi，duinidehao，duixiaohaidehao，weijiazhongdejianxinnuli，xiangqizheizhong，youxinzhangchuxindeqingyi，jijiguanzhutadeyishizhuxing，gongzuozhonghuoxintaizhuangtaishangshibushiyougongzuoyali，yongxinquzhangwobangzhechuli，huoshikuanweiyexing。youshihoulianrenbixudebingbushinikeyibaozhengshiduoshao，tazhixiangyaonijiyigeguanzhudemuguang，duanlaiyibeiwendeshuibale。

四、懂得沟通交流，随时随地掌握恋人的日常动态

 wanhuihunyinshijishangdoushiyoufangfade。renzhongjiushigeren，bixusirenkongjian，jiehunle，yeqingjilingyifangdandudezhutihuodongshineikongjian。feichangshinanxing，xuduogongzuoyalitamenbuyuanranglianrenjiandaode，gengbixudanduxiaohuaxishou，yihoucaiyeshishencaiyiyiyitiaoxiaonanzihan。

 tajiarunengneiyang，nifandaozhenxingfu，haiyaozhenxiyongyouzheileifufen，dongdechayanguanse，duogentagoutongjiaoliu，jishizhangwotadexintaizhuangtaiheshenglixueqingkuang，jiyunanshengwennuandeweijieheguanzhu，tahuishizhonglibuleni。

 xiangfan，nanshengni，haiyaodongdeyongyantanjuzhilaitilianrenjiangongzuoyali，nvxingshilixingde，feichangrongyifaxiantaxinqingyumen，zheishihouyaoyongtianmanqingyideyanyuhezishi，xunsujiunengrangtafangqingchulai，liruqingbaoyige，qingwenyige，zuoxiajiawuhuozheixie，dounengrangtajuedenideqingyi，ganjueyiqiedenuliquanshizuigaide，youmeiyoushenmehuoyaofani，zaojiuzainiguolaishizaoyixile。wanhuihunyindebanfa，zheiliudianhenguanjian。hunyinjiatingzixunzenmeyang?

五、提升自身，从各个方面提高自己

 neihandegenggaibaokuozijixingge、shuohuabanfa、banshigexinghuadengdegenggai。lingyifangyinweijienabushangnishouhuanyingdexinggegennifenlile;tabuzhongaishuohuashiyanbujinyi，yuhuiweiwanlingrenzhuomobutouerxuanzetichufenshou.....yaoshishizaochengdajiahunyinchuxiannantideyinsu，yaoshishilingyifangguoquqidainikeyishaojiagenggaidecengmian，nibixuzhongshiqilai，jinliangrangzijiyibuhanyouzheizhong“qianjiaxishu”。

 waiguandegenggaiyeshifenguanjian。yexulingyifangyiqianjiuhenzhongainidewaiguan，buyaoqiuxiugai，huoxutashide，danshiganqingyaoqiulengzang，jilingyifangyigeyuyiqianjiaoweibuyiyangdeni，rangtaermuyixin，neimebingbushigengnengxiyinzhutadejizhongzhuyilima?yibianwanhuihunyin，tigaozishendoushihenguanjiande。

六、加上共同性，提升衣食住行的快乐

 jiadingtajuexinyaoyuniliyi，erqieyijingshichaonaodechengdule，neimanizheishihouhaiyaowuchangdifuyijiehuatachangshuodehua，fuyijiehuatadeyishi，jiashangdajiazhongjiandegongtongxing，rangtaganshoudaodajiashiyongyouyiyangyishide，bingfeiyiqiequanshidirende，zheiyidianshifenshiheyongzaidirendianhengaodefufushoushang。zaipingshiderichangshenghuolibaitianhaikeyiduoduodequlvxingjuhui，zhaodaoliangrenzhongjianxianghuhenganxingqudewupin。

 bainianlaoxiuweigongzhenmian，fufuyinyuanshangbeiziyichengzhongjiu，jinshinengxiangyuxiangyuxiangaizaoyibuyi，benyouyuganqingcaizaiyiqi，jinliangbuyaoshisan，ganjuebuxihuanjiufenli，ruguobuaiyuanxianjiubuhuiai。zhenzhengdeaiqingshizhongde，tajinjinshijianjiule，beichenshixiaoshimengshangle，bokaizarao，yongxincaxi，ganqinghuanshiyuanxiandemoyang，yiyangdelingrentianmeixingfukuaile。