应对始料未及的婚外情，妻子们该怎样恰当拯救婚姻生活?

老公坚决要离婚 如何挽救婚姻 ?在婚外情这次沒有硝烟弥漫的战事里怎样获得胜利，妻子又该怎样智勇双全的赶跑第三者，挽回家中。挽回家中人们必须胆量，什么是胆量，就是说遭受婚外情时，妻子反面应战，不惧怕哪些。

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qizimendewanhuisanzhimou：

第一性格好。

 disanzhezaizheiyiduanguanlianlibian，tazishen jiuzaiyigebuhaodeyingxiangli，tajigongjinli，yinweitadenianqingrongyan，yeyoujiushishuonanrenduizishendelianaideganjuezheiyiduanguanliancaihuizaici，dangnanrenyiguoreqingqi，fenqijiuhuixianchu，neiyangzishendeyingmianjiuhuichixudejianshao。

 zheishihoudisanzheyejiuhuiqunanrensagouliang，chixudejinuzhengshi，laiposhizhengshizishenliqu。yinciqizimendajiayaojinjibubiyuwang，yaoburanjiutaruledisanzhedexianjing。naizhuzhupiqihaiyaoxiangdandingcongrongyiyangdeguanjian。

第二知彼知己。

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第三发力用劲。

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