婚姻咨询：在感情里通常这4个因素，决策了彼此快乐

免费 效果怎么样?在感情中，许多人会对爱的实际意义造成疑惑，“我需不需要爱?假如两人在一起那么痛楚，是不是我能孤单的过一生?”在感情里，通常这4个因素，决策了彼此可否长期幸福快乐。

 youhuoshi“woqueshiaitame?weihegentazaiyiqi，zishentihuibushangaiyubuai?”，naizhishi“wojiujingyingdangganshenme，caikeyiwanjiutadezhenxinshiyi?”mianfeihunyinzixunxiaoguozenmeyang?hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?

 zhenduizaiganqingzhongjianghuihuipengdaodezheizhongnanti，shijishangjianjiedeshuomingleyongyuandouzaisuoyourenxinlibiyaoxing，jukexueyanjiushuoming“dajiawangwangzheibangaoduzhongshizishendeganqingjiqiai，henjuedaduoshuyuanguyouyutanengbangrenmenduguoxintaidedichaoqi，zheizhongainenggoushiyouhao，haikeyishizhenqing。

 yigezhenshiwanshanderenweiyougenjuai，caikeyizhangqide，weichidandudehebiedegerenchuangjianxinderonghe，baituoganqingdegudan，keshicongmouleishijiaoeryan，zhenqingyuyouyinenggougongxiang，keshiganqingzhirongxuyirenxianyou!”

 yincizaiganqingzhong，zenyangbaozhengzhenshideai?youkexueyanjiushuoming，aiqingshiyizhongjijijiyudegerenxingwei，tabingfeizhihuaxuewuzhishangdenuli，zhishiyigerenshibushixiangyaojiangzishenzuiguanjiandewupinjiyuni，zheileiwupinnenggoushitadekaixin，tadegerenaihao，haikeyishitadezhuanyezhishi。zaiganqingli，tongchangzhei4geyinsu，juecelebicikefouzhangqixingfukuaile。

因此，真实的爱必须这四个关键的因素：

关爱

 ganqingzhongliangrenjiaowang，guanaizezhiguanzhongyao，erguanaidaibiaojijideguanzhunizhiaidetadeshenghuojiqiganqingzhuanbian，lirutagongzuozhongshoucuoshiyijujianyidejili，tadebingshidetiexinzhaoliao。

 tangruozaiganqingzhongtaduinideshenghuobuxieyigu，neiyiweizhetaduinibenzhizhaobudaoai，dangniqueshiaiyigeren，nihaowuyiwenhuijijidezhangwotadeshenghuo。

 lirujijidezhangwotajinqideqingganzhuangtai，tangruotazaishenghuozhongshoucuoshi，niqueshiaitahua，haowuyiwenhuidiyishijianzhangwotadezaoshou，erqiejibiankuanweita。

责任感

 erzhenduiganqingzhongzerenganshibibukeshaodeyinsu，tazaimouzhongyiyishanghenglianglingyifangshibushizuigainixinlaiyisheng，meirenxiangzishendelingyibanshiyigeqianquezerenganderen，zhenduigerenlaijiang，dangniduiyigerenyouzerengan，

 lirufenshouzhihou，youxuduorenyaoshuo：“xiwangzishennengkaixin，yeqidaitanengguodebiwokaixin”，erzheitingdashuipingjiushishuozerengandefanying，erzerengandoushiguanaideqiantitiaojian，dangnijuedexiangchuzhongniduitafuyouzeren，nidaziranhuiguanzhutadeshenghuo，youmuyoufangfarangtahuodebirujingaoxing。zaiganqingli，tongchangzhei4geyinsu，juecelebicikefouzhangqixingfukuaile。

重视

 zuixian，nikeyilejielianqingguanlianshiyizhongfenfanfuzaqiexingfudetianmeiguanlian，zheileiguanliandejiejuezhongzhanyoujibenxingyingxianglideshiweichizishenzhongshiyuzhongshilingyifang，zhinengzhongshixianghucaikeyihuandelianqingdechenjifazhanqushi，caikeyirangdajiadeshenghuoguodegaoxingerwugongzuoyaliyuyayigan。

 zailianqingzhongweichizhongshizishenyuzhongshilingyifang，haiyaojijizhudongdezhaoxunshenghuodekuaile，neiyangcaihuitahuitihuidaonidejiqing，tuidongtayefenfaxiangshang，erzheidoushizhongshilingyifangdoushizhongshishenghuoyuanbenwaimaodexingwei。

cizhi，nikeyibaozhengzhongshitadefengfuxing，ranglingyifangjuededaonenggouyizhaozishendeyixiang，suiyidezuoshihechengcai。

掌握

 zhenduirenshizijisuoaideduixiang，zuixiannikeyilizaitadebuweishanglaiguanchalingyifang，erbukeyijinjinchuziyuzishendezhuguanxingyixiang，zigaozidadechuaicelingyifang，zhangwoshiyaobaozhengyouqianrushen，zaizheiyiquanguochengzhong，nicaikeyiyulaiyuqingxilingyifangzhenshideshizhiheyaoqiu。

 zaijianjiandijiaowangzhong，buduanzhangwotadegerenxingwei，xihao，youdianhequediandeng，neiyangnicaikeyizaipengdaonantijibianchulidajiazhongjiandenanti。

 dangliangrenchuzaiyiduanzhenshideaideguanlian，genjuxianghudejiyuhegongxiang，nenggoufengfuduocaibicidexingming，bingzaizheiyiquanguochengzhongtihuidaozishendeshiyongjiazhihenengliang，nicaikeyiyouzheaiyubuai!hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?