婚姻咨询:一些夫妇为何到老还能恩恩爱爱

免费 效果怎么样?前不久，跟一个的朋友闲聊，聊得了她近期的苦恼，前几日自身过生日，由于近几个月都会忙着照料刚出生的宝宝，原本都没有过多奢望，只期待丈夫能在那一天为自己说一声：老婆，祝你生日快乐。一些夫妇为何到老还能恩恩爱爱，诀窍就这里。

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penyouneishihouneixindefanmenxianeryijian，diertianmianbuleyouyixiexintai。

 yihouyouliejulehaojitiaotazhangfuzhiqianshenghuozhongde“zuixing”，tajuedeneiyangshenghuotinglei，taoyanneibanbuguanzhuzishendezhangfu，fanganyouyuyixieshenghuozhongdebushunxin，eryicicishenxianshiwangxiaochenqingxubuwendingdezishen。

是啥造成那样的生活现况呢?

 zhenduibujiudaxuebiyebujiubianchengjialiyedexiaofuqi，zaizhengzhishanghaowuyiwenzaoyuyidingdegongzuoyali，jianghuizheiyihuanjiehaibixukaoshangbiandebabamamakaizhanyidingdezhizhu。

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ciwaibujinbujiuwanhundexiaofuqishang，zhenduijiehunhouhenduoniandelaofuqi，chuxiandeqingganwentidabufenyehuiyouyuzheiyiyuangu。

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那麼要怎样才能改进呢?

shiwoyigezuogequdepenyou，woxihuantahenvyourujindejiaowangdefangfa：

liangrenquanshijiaoweiyouxiangfahejiaoweiqinfendezhonglei;

 zhenduifenbiedejianglai，changyouzishendeqingchudezhengtiguihua，lianggerenhuixianghuzhijiandechuzishenzhenduilingyifangzhengtiguihuadeguandianhetiyi;

gongxiangzuijinzishenxuexipeixunderichangdongtai，qianglietuijianzishenjinqijiandaodehaoshutuijian;

huoxu，dadanaonaodoushibukehuoquede

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我再讲一个故事：

dajiadoushushideyiduimingxingfuqi：dengchaohesunli。

youyicijialitawensunli，buranjinriwomenyiqiquchigexicantingba。

suihousunlihuiying：haoyahaoya，renmenyehaozhangshijianmeiyouchulaiyaochifan。

 suihou，tabulushengsedejiuyaohuanleyishenwanlifuchuqu，suihousunlijiandaojiuzhengzhule，shuo：ayoweiwocao，bujiuchigefanma，bixuma?

 suihoutazishenqueshuo：womeirizouxiu，meiricanjiazheiyizhutihuodongnagezhutihuodong，wohaishengfang，wojiangwogenwolaopochigefan，jiubukeyishengfangma?

suihousunliqueshuo：hao，nidengdai!yihouyehuanleyishenwanlifuchuqu。

nenggouxiangxianglaidaocanyinfuwuyuanjiandaozheilianggerendeyilianchijingdeliankong。

nannvzhijianjiaowangdexinyoulingxideqiantitiaojianshi：tongpin。

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yincichuangjianyigetongpinjiaowangfangshijiukanqilaifenwaiguanjianle，neimayaozenyangchuangjianni?

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yincia，renmenyaozaiyouxiandexingmingli，duoquganshouyixieyibeizijihumeiyouqinshenjingliguodeshier!nishuoni?

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