婚姻咨询：男人外遇后这4个阶段的意识转变

想象到实际的变化

 mianfei xiaoguozenmeyang?dangdajiaganqingcongreqinghuiguipingpingdandan，tahuijuededaoyishizhuxingdekuzao，zheishihoutahuizhaoxunqitadejingshenzhizhu，erzheishihoutaduiqinggandewuzhiyuwanghejiyuyibanquanshigenjuxiangxianglaijinxing。

 tajianghuiyoushijidexiangxianglingyiban，chongfenkaolvshijiyaosudegannao，youhuozuichuyinzishengerenxingweiduinizaochengdeneijiu。mianfeihunyinzixunxiaoguozenmeyang?hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?

 gengshizheileigujirangneifenqinggandeyouhuolifanbei，shiqudeshizhongzaizaodong，rendoushiyouyizhongzhizhe，gengshizheileizhizhetahuidabushangmudiburongyibashou，eryidanxiangxiangshixian，tamenhuizaochengjidamanzuganjiqiyuyuegan。

 zheishihoutahuihenxiangyouzishende“chengxiao”，duitarendetiyihuizaochengjudadichuyuyanfan，zheiyijieduantiyinijinliangbuyaoshizhetahuihuitoulu，nikeyizuodejiushishuojinghouxiayijieduantasuochengxianchuqudezhuanbian!

想象的毁灭

 renyizhizaishiqudeneishihoucainannengkegui，erhuodedeneishihouyouhuiganjuekuzao，dangshijigenzishendangshisuoyuanyouqifu，duguoyigezheiyiduantianmeiqi，laiyuanyugecengmiandeshehuiyulundoushitahuizaochengyihuo。

 dangyouyitiantafajueyiqiegongzuoyalirangzheirujinyiqieyuelaiyuefawei，jianjianditayehuiganjuedisanzhezhishizishendexinlideyizhongtouying。nanrenwaiyuhouzhei4gejieduandeyishizhuanbian，yuwanhuimiqiexiangguan。

 dangxingfudexiangxiangbeibaituoqingganyehuidaziranxiaotui，tamendeqingganrutongpaomosuliaoduijiqilaidemengjing，yiqiedeqiufengluoyedoushirangzheimengjinghuimie，yincizheishihoushiniwanhuidetupodian!

恋旧到回归的变化

 meigerenyoulianjiudexintaizhuangtai，nanrendoushi，jinguantamenfeichangshaozhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，keshitamenmeibanfafangqiyuanlaideqinggan，suizhishijiandebianhua，tagendisanzhezhongjiandefengxibeiwuxianbianda，ertadehuiguiyishijiugengjiamingxian。

 zheishihoujiushishuowanhuidezuijiashiji，nikeyishuomingzishendebiaozhunhedaodedixian，fanyingchuzishendebaorong，tahuitihuidaonidewennuan。

 ruguonidezhuyaobiaoxiangendisanzhechanshengbizhao，tahuilejiezheiyiduanqingganzhongkuiduiyuni，zheiyouliyutigaotahuiguidexinxin，erhuiguiyibanshiyigebuduandequanguocheng，tadexinhuiyouyidingdebodong，nikeyishouhoutagongtongduguozheiyijieduan!

经情感修补期

 dangtahuiguihoudajiayiranyaoduguoyigehenzhangdexiubuqi，tajiusuanhuiguideyixianghenqiang，keshiyibannanrendexiubuyishihegongzuonenglixiangduixingjichuboruo，zheishihouxiangyaonidebangzhuhezhengqueyindao。

 nvxingzaiqinggangoutongjiaoliucengmianyoudiannenggouzhengqueyindaotaxiangqiadangdelumianfazhanqushi，erchuzaixiubuqishi，zixinxinzhiguanzhongyao!dajiayaoquexinlingyifangshizishenduidetiaoxuan!nanrenwaiyuhouzhei4gejieduandeyishizhuanbian，yuwanhuimiqiexiangguan。

 bawonanrencongwaiyuzaidaohuiguidemeiyijieduansuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudexintaizhuangtai，bingzaimeiyijieduanzuochuqiadangdetiaoxuan，dajiadecaikeyixiangzhixiangxi!hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?