婚姻咨询，保持婚姻坚持不懈这个方面最关键

1.婚姻维持靠相互的信任

 mianfei xiaoguozenmeyang?renshengdaolupengdaonanyizhixindeshierguoduo，hunyinshibixuliangrenbicizhijiandexinren，xinrenjiuhaosigoutongjiaoliudajiahunyindegongluqiaoliang，ruguomeiyounixinrennidehunyinhuimeibanfabaochi!

 minguoshiqiqianqixubeihonggenlaopojiangbiyuderonghedangshiyebeijuedeshihexiejiating，keshiwanmandeshenhouyiyangqianliubengteng，1938nianyiyue，xubeihongqianquouzhoubanxunhuanxitongyishuzhan，benlaiqidaicixingnenggouxiubuzhongjiandeganqing，keshizhengzhongjiandequekekebanban，huxiangcaiji。mianfeihunyinzixunxiaoguozenmeyang?hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?

 congjiangbiyudejixukanlai，zaizheiyiduanyuzishendedujialvyouzhonglaogongqueqingxizishendexueyuansunduoci，neishihouzongyoutaosexinwenxubeihongwaiyuzishendexueyuan，erxubeihonglejiejiangyouxuduozhuiqiuzhe，buquedingxingjiangduizishenshibushizhenxinshiyi，gengshiyouyuzhangqixingdexianghubuxinren，zuihouzaochengtamenhunyindeliekai!

 xubeihongzailiyibiaoshi：“womingbai，keyiqudaonineiyangdeyiweifuren，wogaikaolv，keshinizuoshiqueshibumianhuiguodukeke，wosuozuodezainikanlaiquanshiyibianyingduini，renmenzaoyimeiyoudangshizaiyiqideneileijuede，zheiyaowomeifayingdui”

2.相互理解很关键

 nanrennvrenronghezuiguanjiandeshiganqing，bicixianghulijiedeshuiping，lejieshencaikeyixianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，shangxi，jilijiqiqingtouyihe，fuqizhijianzuiguanjiandeshirenjiguanxi，jibianbukeyizuozhijidepenyou，yeyingdangshikeyibaozhengairendepenyouhuoshixianghuzhijianzhongshideairen，mendangyijitayebuguanjian!”

 gengshiyouyutamenduixianghudelejieyubaorong，cairangtamenjishinianruyiridexiangai，yigejiangdaodeyouganqingdehunyin，rutongyibaxialedemao，buguanduoshaodelangtoudouburongyitanta!

 yigenvrenshidepeijiajiushishuoyiketiexinwennuandexin，yigenanrenshidecailijiushishuoyishengdeguanzheyutengxi!hunyinwentixintaizixunzenmeyang?