冷战怎么高情商处理 聪明女人会用的几种方法

 lengzhanzenmegaoqingshangchuli？zheiduanguanxibukebimiandibansuizhezhengchao，zaizheigeshihou，youxierenxihuanlengzhan，youxierenxihuanyongdazhengchaolaijiejuewenti。suiranzheigewentiyijingjiejueleyiduanshijian，danhenzhangyiduanshijianyehuichanshenghenduobubiyaodemafan。yinci，zaizhengchaozhongyexuyaoyigecelve，nvhaijishideruanruoyoushihuijieshuyichangzhanzheng。congmingdenvrenhuixiangchujigejiejuefangan，niyinggaizhidao。

1.控制情绪，坦然面对

 dangyunanrenfashengchongtushi，congmingdenvrenbuhuizhudongyunanrenfashengchongtu。tamenkeyipingjingdiyizhizijidepiqi。zheiyangdenvrenzhidaochongdongshimogui，bunengjiejuerenhewenti。tamendediyifanyingbushizhenglunsheiduisheicuo，ershilengjingdisikao。suiranbunengshuoshilengkudebaoli，danzheiyeshiyizhonggenghaodechulifangshi，jibicipingjingdeshijian。yinci，zailengzhanqijian，dangnanrenbuzhudongxunzhaotamenshi，tamenbuhuikaolvshiqing。tamenningyuanbashijianhuazaitamenxiangzuodeshiqingshang，yebuyuankaolvnanrendecuowu。zheizhongnvhaihencongming。tamenzhidaoshijianhuijitamenxiangyaodedaan，erbuliangqingxushizuibulixingdejiejuefangan。

2.主动沟通，了解男人的真实意图

 dangnanrenhenvrenchaojiashi，tamenzhongdedaduoshurencaiqudewolengjingdefangshi，erbushizhengchao。dangran，henshaoyounanrenxihuanqufensheiduisheicuo。zainvxingkanlai，zheihuirangtamenmobuguanxin，danzheikenengzhendeshiyinweinanxingxiangyaobimianzhanzheng。yinci，zaizheigeshihou，qingshanggaodenvxinghuilengjingdiyutamengoutong，zheibujinkeyijishijiejuemaodun，haikeyirangnanrenjuedenvrendongdedayi，rangnanrengengaizijidenvren。suoyizaizhengchaoshi，buyaorenweizhudongjiechushituoxie。congmingdenvrenhuiliyonglengzhanqijiandelizhirangnanrengengaini。

3.找他的朋友作为突破口

 nanrenyeyoucuiruodeshihou。dangtamenhenvpengyouchaojiashi，tamenbuxihuangaosutamendeqinqitamenneixindebuman，dantamenhuihetamendepengyouliaotianhuohejiu。qingshanggaodenvxinghuitongguonanxingpengyoulejiezijideqingkuang。lengzhanzenmegaoqingshangchuli？jishiyigenvrenzaicirenshitadenanren，tayebuhuichaoguotadenanxingpengyou。tashifouzhendeainikendingshitadepengyouzuilejiede。yinci，yigecongmingdenvrenhuizhijiezhaodaotadepengyou。zhiyoudangtazhidaotazuijinzaizuoshenmeshi，tacainengzhidaotayinggaizuoshenme。nikeyitongguotadepengyoulejienidemaodun，shenzhijiejuenimenzhijiandemaodun。