2个层面下手，防止老公有外遇

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?yingduinanrenaiwaiyudebenxing，nvxinggairuhezuoqufangzhinanshiwaiyu?yigenvhai，yuanyinanshengzhongjiubuwaiyunenggoucongzhei2gecengmianxiashoufangzhi：

一、维持婚姻生活幸福快乐：

 ·shiduguanlifangfaqidaizhi——zaizhangqixingguanlianlibian，zuiguanjiandeguanjianjiushishuo“qidaiguanlifangfa”，yejiushishuomanyilv(tongsuhuaeryanjiushishuogaoxingbugaoxing)heyicundu(tongsuhuaeryanjiushishuozheiyiguanlianpingwenbupingwen)，zaimeiduanlianqingguanlianli，manyilvheyicunduyuegao，guanlianyuepingwen，yuehuijuedexingfukuaile。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?zaizhangqixingdexiangchuguanlianli，lingyifangchuxianbuganbulingrenmanyi，daduoshushiqidaiguanlifangfabushan，yinci，dajianduilingyifangdeyugu，erqieduiqizhixingshidangdeguanlifangfa，shimeiduanjizhiguanlianlibukehuoquedejieduan。

 ·bazhangfudanglianrenquqinpeierbingbushidanggongjizhe——jidenijiageta，weitashiyuehuaitai，youyuaita，bubiwuyuanwuguba“woweiniruheruhe”“wojiagewobujiushishuotuniduiwomenhaoma”

 zheileidechuanyangzishenjiechudeshiyongjiazhidehuaguazaizuibian，zheizhonghuajiushishuobidingdibazhangfudanggongjizhe，zhangciyiwangbianhuiranglingyifangdichunaizhiwaiyu。duizishendezhangfu，yaodangzuolianren(yejiushishuogaolengnanshen)dacongxintaizhuangtaiquqinpei、zhiai，zhenduizhangfuzuodehaodediqu，yaojuebukoumendizanmei，qujili，jianjiandizhengqueyindaota。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?julishuoming：rugaoqingshangdenvshengjianghuihuizaizhangfujiabanjiadianhuoshijiaojibukeyizaodianhuijiadeneishihoushuo：“zhangfu，bubitaichihuijia，wozaijiahendanxin，wobaoletangdengzhenie。”erbingbushibushihaodaidishuo：“taichibuyaozaihuijiale。”

 ·tigaoziji，weichishenmigan——fuqijianzuibihuilingyifangzaifazhanerduifangzhibubuqian，yaomeishimeiketigaoziji，bulunshirongmaohuanshibenzhide，yutagongtongfendou。chukaitigaoziji，keyiyunyongnanshiduooudetianwenxianxiang，genjujiaosebanyanyouxi，fangzhenmoniduoou，tahuiyouzhenihaoxiangyiqiyouzhehaojigebuyiyangdenvxingdejuede。

二、终究别让男生考虑：

·hunyinshenghuozhong，nvxingyingdangshidaojiao，wuweierzhi，yuqinguzong：

 1gecongmingdenvrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongyingdangdangdaojiao，wuweierzhi，nvxingzaihunyinshenghuozhizhong，zailianqingzhizhongyaoxuehaoyuqinguzong，yaoxuehaoweichixinxiangan，fangzhinanshengdekanni。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?nanshengxiainvxing，zuixiandiyitiao，buqujueyuzheiyinvxingshifouhaokan，huoxuhaokanyehenguanjian，zuixianqujueyuzheiyinvxingyoumuyouxinxiangan。

 nanshengzaiganqingcengmian，zheileibuliebennengfanying，gentazaishiyeshangshixiangtongde。xuduogezuoshengyishangdenanshengshineiyangde，tazhengle1000wan，talikeyaozhengliangqianwan。lirutahuishoule1geqiyetajiumeixingquaihaole，tayaoquhuishoulingyige1geqiye。nanrenzhengfunvrendoushineiyang，jiubixuyaotahuijuedenimeiyoubeitawanquanzhengfu2，zheiyinanshengyishengjiuhuiduiniweichiwuqiongwujinchongdong。

 wanhunzhihou，nvxinghaiyaoweichizishendedanduheshineikongjian，zuo“sanbu”nvxing。shenmeshi“sanbu”nvxingni?chengfujishen、zhuomobutou、qifubudingdenvxing，jiushizheiyinvxingzhongjiurangzheiyinanshengjuedetatianmanxinxiangan、shenmigan、moshenggan。

 weichizishendeairenshiyongjiazhi，yiqixuehaojiehunhoubanzhengkaiyanjing，fangzhizhangfuchugui，zuikekaodefangfa，jiushishuoweichizishendeairenshiyongjiazhi。

 jiehunhoukeyiweichizishendeairenshiyongjiazhi，bujin，nengjinidezhangfushizhongaizheni，yucitongshi，xianbuyongshuolilehun，queshuoyaoshizanyouyigetianzairenhuode，zhangfumeiyoule，digezhen，zhangfumeiyoule。nilikehaikeyixunzhao1gehaonanren。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?bubizongdianjizhe，jielehunwoyededuiwomenchengdanyisheng，zhishiweichizheizhongzaihunyinshenghuoxiaoshoushichangshangzhongjiuyoushiyongjiazhideqingkuang。

 zaixintaizhuangtaicengmian，yingdangshijiehunqianxiangmaozhuolaoshuneibanzhengdayanjing，jiehunhougenzhangfujiaowangni，yingdangxianglaohushizidakeshuineibanbanzhengkaiyanjing，qianwanbieyidaojiehunhoubianbianchengdaniang。

jiaruqianfangwanfang，zhangfuhuanshiwaiyule，gaibugaikuanrongni?

 jiaruzhenduizhangfudezuixingchedimeifarenshoudetiqianzhunbeiliyide，neimaxianjizijimouhaofazhanfangxiang，jinkenengweichipiqihao，rangnannvshuangfangduoyidianneijiu，zhengdeliyishizishenzhengdejiaodaquanyi，zhongjiuliyiduinvxingdesunhaigengda。zhenduifufulianggerenyouqinggan，shebudefenli，qienannvshuangfangjijifancuowu，zhongguijiazhong，bingxiangyaocihougailebuzaicifashengde，nenggoujitamengekaochaqi。

guanchaqinei，chukaixukantazhongguijiazhonghoudezhuyaobiaoxian，yeyaoxiaochengdajie，tahuizhenshiguanniandaobuzhengque：

1jiarunvxingmeiyouwojinjingjifazhanshiquande，yimeiguishuganweiyou，guidingbawojingjifazhanshiquan。

 2shouwozhejiazhongdejingjifazhanshiquande，nenggougenjutahuigaizheng1gefeichangnangaidebuliangxiguan，tahuiyincijieshouxianshi，jilaojingyanjiaoxun;queshimeiyoushenmebuliangxiguande，biantahuiweilenizuomouxietapingchangbuxiangyaozuodeshi(huoxubunengtaiguo)。

 shuobaileyigebazhangpaibuxiang，dangshilianggerenkeyiyuanmanjindaohunyinshenghuo，bulunshiweiganqing，huanshikanhaolingyifangdeyixieyoushi，biranquanshiganxinqingyuande，hunyinshenghuozhongchuxianliefeng，fancuowufangfuguanjianyiwu

 dangjijifancuowufangfancuowu，gaibianxianzhuangdeneishihou，duifanghaiyaofanshengzishen，shizishennaxiedifangcuxindayile，rangzhangfuyongyoulinshipaoxiajiazhongzhaoxundisanzheerdewennuandeniantou，zhaodaoyuangu，zuochugenggai。