出轨男人​的心态在想什么?

 chuguinanren dexintaizaixiangshenme?zaoshouhunwailianyiqian，laopodetianshangshiqingliangguangliangde，zaoshouhunwailianyihou，turanjiuyuelaiyuenongwuzhuangkuoqiliangcangliang。chuguinanren，ranglaopoxinlituranzhijiantianmanlechengqianshangwandeyihuohegankai。

tayiqianduiwodeaiquanshijiadema?chuguinanrendexintaizaixiangshenme?

nandaoshuohunyinshenghuo7nianzhiyangdekunnanqueshiwufaduguoma?

tazenmehuiwaiyu1gemeiwohaokanmeiyougongzuozhonghaibiwonianlingdadeliyinvren?

ruguonigaizenmeban?wanliuhuanshiliyi?

jiaruliyi，lihunzenmeban?laogongchuguilezenmeban?

jiaruwanliu，xiangzheyouganjueexinxiangtu，nanyanzheikouqizhonggaizenmeban?

……

 yigeyigedeyilvxiangtengtiaoxiangtongzailaopodexinzhongsuorao，gengshiyingleliyudeneijuci：jianbuduan，lihailuan，shilichou，bieshitongchangweidaozaixinzhong。laogongchuguilezenmeban?

zaoshouwaiyu，ruhecainengbokaizhucengmiwushoudeyunkaijianyuemingni?jinridegaozijiuhedahuoeryikuaiertaolunzheiyihuatitaolun。

实情一：第三者儿抢男生通常是眼睛发红和妒忌的心态状态作怪

 zaoshouchuguidelaopohenyilv，weihedisanzheerfangzheneimaduochusededanshennanrenmeiquzhao，quefeidetoujimogouxiangtongyinyouyihunnanrenni?

wojuede，zheitongchangjiushishuodisanzheerdedujiheyanjingfahongxintaizhuangtai。

 rutongxiaopengyoujiaruyigerenchifantaruhechiyebuxiang，keshijiarulianggexiaohaiyikuaierchi，neimaxiaohaizijiugangkaishi“zhengshi”xiangtong，chidexinjihaixiangduochiduozhan，chizhewanlidehaikanjianguolide。

 disanzheeryeshixiangtongdexintaizhuangtai，kandaolaopohunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile，laogongweijiaqinfenchuangdang，xiaohaihuopokailang，tajiuyanjingfahongdebuhao，dujidebuhao，jinbuzhuhaiyaoquzhengquqiang。

 kandejiandisanzheerdexintaizhuangtaidoujiweibuchengshuqi，jiazhiquxiangyeshijixing，fangzhehuitongbudongyingyaozouxielu，haile1gejiazhongyexiangfanheilezishen。

keshinanshenggaobudongzheiyidadaoli，hairenweishizishenfengcaidani，suihoujiugangkaishi“qiaoweiba”le。

 yuanbengujiadebuhuijia，yuanbenduilaopoguanaitiexindegangkaishidashenghanjiaonaizhibilile，gangkaishibuqingchuzishenjiujingjijinjiliangle，naizhibazuoweibabazuoweilaogongdeyiwu、zerenyebeipaoxiangjiuxiaoyunwai。

实情二：出轨男人被发觉后，通常会愧疚和悔恨

chuguinanrenbeifajueyihou，zizhilikuitongchanghuikuijiu，suihouxianglaopohuihen。

 zhibuguoshilaopobeishangdehenshen，duinanshengdexinlaiganzaoyihuaweiwuyou，cikenanshengyuefazhuyaobiaoxianchuhuihenlaopofandaoyueganjuenanshengshixuqingjiayinaizhiganjuehenexinxiangtu，zaochengborandanuxintaijianghuishenhuabaofa。

zheishihoulaopohenanshengjiufeichangrongyichuxianwujiehefenqi：

 nanshengganjuezishenzaoyizhenchenggaicuole，laoporuhejiushishuojiuzhemeifang;erlaopodanyouzaidupengshangmeifaduanqineijianxinhejienananshengdezhiqian。

 erdanglaopoxintaijianjiandihuifu，jianjiandishizhequjianxinnanshengdeneishihou，nanshengquezaoyishiquxixin，naizhiyouyihuiguidaozaidisanzheerdeshiliuqunxia。

 zheijiuyaolaopohenanshengdeguanlianjianghuixianrujiangjunaizhiebian，zheigengshidisanzheerqidaijiandaode，disanzheerjiuhuicongzhongzuogengbannongshifei。

 yinci，hunwailianchanshenghou， laopoyaoduoyifenxinlai，nanshengyaoduoyifenchengxinhexixin ，zheibanliangrenqixinhelinenggoufujianxinlaixiubufensuideqinggan。

实情三：第三者儿激怒，刚好表明婚外恋将要寿终正寝

youyigesizichengyuchengweichuisizhengzha，wojuededisanzheerdejinutongchangjiushishuoguishuyuzheilei。

 xuduolaopojiandaodisanzheerzaiweixinpengyouquanxinlangweibo“sagouliang”，famouxieraowanzijingonglaopodeyuju，naizhishangmenfuwujinudeneishihou，jiufeichangchibuxiao。

 disanzheerjinu，youdelaopofeichangqinaohuihaijidisanzheer，youdelaopojiandaodisanzheerqiyanxiaozhangrenweiwanliumeiyouqidaile，gengweinanguoshiluo。

 wojuedeyaogaoqingchu，zheijinjindisanzheerde“jijiangfa”，mudijiushishuorenaolaopo，ranglaopohenanshengdachaodanaojihuamaoduntahaoyuwengdeli，zimeimenbubishangdangshoupian。

 bingqie，disanzheeryuefajinu，yuefabiaominghunwailianzaoyikuailaidao“shouzhongzhengqin”dehuanjiele，yincidisanzhecaihuigoujitiaoqiangzuozuizhongdechuisizhengzha。

 yuefazheiyineishihou，zimeimenyuefayaotairanziruobuledisanzheerdedang，disanzheerdemoulvemeifadechengdaziranzhiyouchuitousangqidetiaodiao。