老公出轨了该怎么办：如何正确应对老公的出轨

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一、老公出轨了该怎么办：如何正确应对老公的出轨

1.认识自己，提升思考

 hunyinzhongcunyougeshigeyangdenanti，gezhonggeyangbukaixin，baohanlaogongdewaiyu。laogongchuguilegaizenmeban?ruhezhengqueyingduilaogongdechugui?

 yuanguzhibuguobushihemu，xingzibuduiwei，meiyougongtonghuati。dangchuguilaogongshi，zenyangyingduilaogongdewaiyu，wojuedecicinidexintaizhuangtaiyebeiyatale。danhenxianzhu，niyulingyifangzhongjiandenantiwubizaibixushuipingshangleijiqilai。shijishang，niyeshibeitongyujuede，niyijingzhanzhuannanmian，youyuwobuzhangwonidelaogong。

 shijishang，jiehunhoudenanshengdouwaiyule。tamenbingmeiyouchangshigenggaijiatingzhongzudexiankuang，jinjinyibianzhuiqiuwanmeixindecijixinghejingshenshizhixiangyou。tagenghenganxingqudeshizhaoyigenenggoutingta，guanzhuta，zanyangta，shangxitabingshiyongtadepenyou。

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2.完美的爱情缺阵，同床异梦

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 laogongchuguilegaizenmeban?ruhezhengqueyingduilaogongdechugui?niyingdangruhezuochedizaiyuni。ruguoniaita，jiuwuxuzaihuhezaihuzheizhong。nanshengjinjinquwan，tamentaileilejiuhuidaziranhuijiale。

 youshiyishizhuxingbixuyingyong，yongganquai，yingyongdiquhen，suihou，yingyongdiwangdiao，yingyongdiwangqianmairu。jibiantabuduancunyouzhidaibiaonijinjinziyaliezui，danzhongjiuhuiyougengkuailedeyitian。yiwangdeyishizhuxingbingyouquehan，taimeihaojiubingbushiyishizhuxingle!

3.真心实意真心，一见如故

 haowuyiwendeshi，laogongdewaiyudequesunhaileni，yingdangzaishehuidaodeshangshoudaoqianze。danruguoniaita，xubuxuyaoweitadeyiwangerkunaoni?

 jiarufuqijianhuxiangchaimo，buyongshuoxiezhu，jibianshizuishaodixiandeshiyongheweihaiyemeifabaozheng，haowuyiwenhuiweihaiqinggan，naizhixinrusihui。

 hunyinbixudeshilejie，baorong，hewusifengxian。duihunyinhuaiyouguoduodeqidai，zhibuguoshiyibiantishengzishendebubian。duoyuanxingshihunyinzhongdeyigequedian，huanjuhuashuo，tazaoyijinxing，guoduopilao，xixin，erqiehuibeichuansong，xiangxinxingfukuailezhongjiudoushibeibaituo。

4.感情上互相看待，客观并存

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 zaiyuzhangfujiaowangdequanguochengzhong，yibianweichishidangdekeguan，bixuxunzhaoshitayutajiaowangdequanguochengqingsongzizaidefangshi。yaoxuehaozhongshilaogongdebabamamahelaogongdepenyou，jitamenyigeshidangdeshineikongjian，bubiyitiandaowanweizhutazhuan。

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