发现丈夫出轨该怎么办：丈夫出轨了妻子怎么做好

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一、发现丈夫出轨该怎么办：丈夫出轨了妻子怎么做好

zaijueceshibushixiangrangshierhelishi，shimeiyouqiadangdecankaodaande。shijijiayuanganqinglaoshibangnichulihunyinpolie：wojuedeninenggouzuodejiushishuoyunidezhangfugoutongjiaoliu，lingtingnizishen，bingjuecedajiadeguanlianshibushizuigaizhengjiu。

 dangnijueceyaobashiergaohao，neimajiudemeitianhuafeimeitiandeshijianjilaozishen。faxianzhangfuchuguigaizenmeban?zhangfuchuguileqizizenmezuohao?

1、给它時间

jibianninqueshitiqianzhunbeikuanrongnindezhixiqinshuhuorangshierhuifuguolai，ninyeyingdanglejie，zaicidedaoninyiqianzhixiqinshudexinlaiheaijianghuibixuhenzhangqi。

jibiandajiadouxinxinrangtahehaoruchu，danjuedeshangshierjianghuibixuhenzhangqi，youyuqianqueyigequanguocheng，zaidu“yiqiezhengchang”，erqiejiniduijiehunduixiangjuedezhongai。tashishifendazirande，dangnichangshiwangdiao，nijianghuihuipengdaobubian。

nijiangnanyishihuainideairen，huojuedeyelishierhuifuguolai。jianghuibixuhaoduogeyuenaizhiliangniannenggoufujiangaixinlai。niyewubimandian。nijianghuibixuxuduotiannenggoujuedeshufu，zaiduhehuobanyikuaiershuizaitongyizhangchuangbian，hetayikuaierchulaichiwancan，huoshixiaizuozuixihuanzuodeshi。

yincichongfenzhunbei。yixiezhunijinkuaizhangwonideguanliandenantidenanti。keshi，jinliangjianshaotichuwentijinjinweileshixiannideqiuzhiyu; cankaodaanjianghuizuihouhuisunhaiguoduo。

2、获得检测

tingqilaihaoganga，yaoshinilejienidezhixiqinshumengpianleni，niyingdangmashangkaizhanjiance。niyongyuanbuzhidaodisanfangpingtaijianghuiyounaxiebingzheng，niyongyuanbuzhidaozheishibushichuansongrangni。

jinguannidezhixiqinshujianghuihuizhenglunshuozheibingbushibixude，danzheijiushinibixuzuode，yibaozhengniyeshianquanxingde。genjuzheiyiquanguochengyejiangxiezhunidezhixiqinshuzhangwotahuotadegerenxingweideyanzhonghouguo。zaiyunitongshuidelingwaishuizaitarenshoushanghuijinichuzaifengxiandangzhong，renkezheiyidianerhenguanjian。

3、听你的直系亲属

jinguanninengjuedezaoshousunhai，shouzuwucuo，panbian，fahuo，yeyoubiedehenduoniyuanyisheqidexintai，guanjiandeshihaiyaozuozhelailingtingnidezhixiqinshu。nijianghuihuiganjuefangfotingjiantahuotajiushinizuibuyuanzuodeshier，dandangnixiangyaomouxieqingchudexinxineirong，bingjiangguanlianwangqiantuidong，neimaniwubitingjiantahuotadegushi。

ninengzhangwoniyongyuanbuzhidaonideairenyounaxiexindetihuihuocuobai。juedetabupeigaozhitadegushihuoduizheirenheyouqingganshibuhelide。jinguannijianghuimeiyoutiqianzhunbeihaoyingduizhixiqinshudeqinggan，danjiaruniyaojixuqianxing，niwubitahuibiaoshuzishen。

4、每日改进你的沟通交流

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suiranzainidezhixiqinshuzuoguozheizhongshierhou，zheikanshangqubudakeneng，danjiaruniyaorangshieryuelaiyuegengqiang，jinliangdigoutongjiaoliuyehenguanjian。ruguonigaohaoletiqianzhunbei，meiribixugoutongjiaoliu，baquanbudejizhongzhuyilifangdaoyimian，taolundajiadeguanlian。dangniganjueneiyangzuotinglei，zongshifanfujiujuede，neimaniyingdangdaliangditaolunrujinhejianglai，erbingbushiyiwang。

guanjiandejiushiniyunidezhixiqinshuxianghuzhijianchayanyizhangwonidetihui。rujinxianzaikaishitigaojingtibingzhiliyudajiadeguanlian。dangnimeiyoujiaoqiangdegoutongjiaoliu，neimameibanfaqianxing。

qinfenyong“wo”biaoshuzishendetihuilaibiaoshuzishendetihui，liru：“xiabanlehuijialehoubuwenhao，wojuedehenshangxin”，erbingbushiyingyong“ni”neiyangdechanshu，liru“nishizhongburongyibangwonixiabanlehuijialezhihouyounaxiejizhongzhuyili，“zheihuizaochengdaliangdechize。

5、决策是不是要试着挽回他

huoxu，ruguonigangkaishitaolunwaiyu，niwubizuochuyigezhongyaodejueding：nijuedenizuihounenggoukuanrongnidezhixiqinshu，bingzaicichuangjianshenxinjiankangdeguanlian，huoshinijuedezishenshizhongbutaikenengkuanrong?guanjiandeshiyaochengxinkandaizishen，bingkaolvdaonideguanlianshibushizuigaichucun。zuiguanjiandeshizaizuochuyiqiejueceyiqianhuashijianheshineikongjianlaizhenshitixianchunideniantou。

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