男人出轨了怎么办：女人怎么重新赢回爱情

 chuguixingweidefajue——congmimiduanxiaoxi、dianhuagoutongjiaoliu、hulianwanggoutongjiaoliu、rentihuoganqingguanliandaozhangqixingdedisanfangpingtaibushenxinjiankangguanlian，quanshizheizhongjiweipohuaixingdeqinshenjingli。nanren ☞chugui lezenmeban?nvrenzenmezhongxinyinghuiaiqing?

一、男人出轨了怎么办：女人怎么重新赢回爱情

 mengpianairenbingshuohuangzhegaitadaziranhuizaochengairendebuxinlaihecaiyi，liangzhixiangaiderenshinenggoufujianxinlaide。nanrenchuguilezenmeban?nvrenzenmezhongxinyinghuiaiqing?

 beipianzhedegerenxingweiduiqixiufudesulvheshuipingyoutingdadeweihai。neimananpengyouchuguiyihou，zenyangfujianxinlaixiufuguanlian?zheizheijigechangyongzhaoshiqueshihenguanjian。

 shubuzhi，henduonanrenailejietamendeairenqinshenjinglideqingganmengpianyihoudetihui，gengbuqingchugairuhezuonenggoufujianxinlai。xiabianzheizhongliuchengjiangxiezhuzheixiemengpiandanyongxinfujianxinlaihequanyutamendeguanlianderenzaiciyingdeganqing。

1、zhongxinganxiezaicichuangjiandajiadeguanlian。

 (1)xincunganxie。nidezhixiqinshuyijingqinfenpeizainishenbian，bingzainipanbianhouxiubunideguanlian。buguantamenshizaitainaonu，qingxubuwending，wuzuqingzhonghuobunengyucefenxi，tamendouzhuyaobiaoxianchuduinidexiai，erqiezaihenduozhuangkuangxia，zaitiaoxuanzaicijinizaicidedaoxinlaicengmianjubeitingdadepinxingyoudian。rangnidehezuofangzhongshihexiexiezheiyijuece。

 (2)nideairenrujinjianghuihuijiangnizuoweilurenduidai。ruguonifanshengzijidetiaoxuanshi，nijianghuihuiganjuezishenrutongyigeluren，congyewobuyinyiweihaodegerenxingwei，jiqinidemengpianhemimilaiyanzangtamen。

 (3)zheijianghuiyouliyukaolvdaocongtoukaishi，fangfozheishizheizhongxindeguanlian。biru，xunzhaoyaogongxiangdexindizhihuozhutihuodong。zhenduimouxiefufueryan，shengjihunyinshicijianghuishitamenguanliandedaibiaoxingzhongshe。zheileifangshinenggouxiezhuniyunideairenchulipanbian(jiqibiedenanti); henduofufuyehuibaoshuo，tamendeguanlianjiezheyuelaiyuegengkaixinhegengfengfu，danzheiburongyizaiyiyejianchansheng。

 (4)baozhengtahuotayunizhoubiandesuoyouren(jiqinren，penyou，pengyou，xiaohai)dounengjiandaonideairenduinilaijiangdaibiaozheishijie，erqie(zaici)jiushinixingmingzhongdiyiwei。yizhenxinshiyidefangfachongfenkendingnideairen，ruguoniyubierengoutongjiaoliushidangxinweihutamendezhimingdu。

 (5)changchanggaozhitamen，niaitamen，bingcongxinlijiangchutadeshijiyiyi，lingwaizaitamendeshuangyanlikanjiantamen。shuo“wohenaini”huiyoudaliangdeshijiyiyi。danbubimoshatamen; tamenyiranzaipengshangbingchangshiquanyu。

 jitashineikongjian，shijianlaizhiyu，ziwofansishijian，bashijianfangdaoyikuaier。nidezhixiqinshujianghuiburongyishuozheizhonghuahuirangni，danqingjilaotamenzhengzaichangshiquanyu。shuo“woxihuanni”jianghuihuirangtamenganjuezishenhenmingan。tamenjuedebeipanbian，zhengzaichangshichuangjianziwofangyujizhilaiweihuzishen。niwaiyu，jiniyiwuba“fangyuliqiang”jiangxiaqu; wulunbixuduojiu。

 (6)xiexiezaicijiyu - bulunshiqianqiheanshizaijianglailiangnian。jilaoshichangchanshengdeshierbudanhuituijinninyuairenxiezuoxiufudexinkugongzuo，bingqiehaijiangxiezhuninfangzhizaijianglaizaiduzuochubutaihaodetiaoxuan。

(7)qingbiewaiyu。di3cijiyubizaicijiyushaodeduo。

2、防止伤口撒盐。

 (1)qingjilao，zhishiyouyunideairenburongyimingquetichumengpian，zheibingbuyiweizhetamenchixusisuo。tamenjianghuimeiyoutanjita，youyutamenjuedewuruhenankan，youyuniduita/taganlenaxie，huoshixintengnihuifahuo。

(2)fangzhijiguanliantishengfujiadegongzuoyali，youqiwaiyubeifajuehoudejigexingqinei。

 (3)fangzhijiangnidepenyouhuozhangfufangdaonideairenyanqian，huashijianyunixiyinzhudexingbiedepenyouhuopengyouxiangchu，pingjiabierendeyouhuoli，huozaipanbianhoudejigexingqineichanshengxindeguanlian。zheizhongjianghuihuishangkousayan。

 (4)mingzhiditiaoxuannidezuozhan。qingjilao，rujinweibishixuanzeyixiehuatitaolundeneishihou，feichangshizheixieyuyinsibaohuhezhanjuxiangguandehuatitaolun。dajiazaoyibianhualetamenduizheiyiguanlianhequanqiudeguishuganhexinlaigan，bingqiezheileiduiwaikaifanghelejiekeyifanhuizheiyidianer，erbingbushikangzhenghezhengzhi。

 (5)bubijinideairenhaiyoujihuisisuo“jiaruninengjingchangaoye，erqieyunimengpianwodenanrenyikuaierzuoquanbushier，neimanihaikeyiduiwomenzuoyiyangdeshier。”

3、对外开放。

 ninzhanxiandeyueduiwaikaifang，nindehezuofangjiangjuedechayannindezhutihuodongdejipo?ruguoniduziyigerenshi，nideairenjianghuihuicaiyinishibushizaitashuodediqu。ruguonibujialideneishihou，genjurangnilejieniyizhizaiganshenmeerqieyongxinxineironghuoxunsudianhuabeianlaihuanjietamendemeiyouanquangan。yaoyueniyiban duziyirenchulaidexiaohuobandiqu(jianshenhuisuo，hepenyouchulaideng)。jibiantamenmeiyoujienayaoyue，zheiyijianyihuigaozhitamennimeishenmenenggouyanzangde。

 qingjilao，nindeshoujishang，dianziyouxiang，shipinyuyindianziyoujiannaizhishouzhimingxidengneirongjianghuihuirangnindehezuofangtihuidaomimihehuanghuadelaiyuanyu。jiarunintiaoxuanzhiyuanliulanzheizhongneirong，nindehezuofangjianghuihuibizhiqianxunsugengqingqingsongsongdijianxinnin。(dangnibukeyineiyangzuo，neimanenggoutichuzhiyiniyanzangdeshisha。)

 nanrenchuguilezenmeban?nvrenzenmezhongxinyinghuiaiqing?jinguannideairenjianghuishizhongburongyitiaoxuanchayanzheizhongwupin，keshishitamennengyongdezheiyijianyikeguanshishizhenduizaicidedaotamendexinlaishiyigejidadeliucheng。zaiqizhongmouxieliuchengjianghuihuijuedeweibeilenindeyinsibaohu。qingjilao，yansurenzhendeguanlianyingdangshejidaozheileigangkaishi。

 chucizhiwai，jianchibuxiezishenmanbaoshiqingdezhipeiquan，zongshijiazhongniyizhizaibeimengpianshizaiairenshoushangzaochengdebuxinrengan。bubichangshiyubierenxiangchumimi。tajianghuihuisunhainideairen，lejietarenshizuigaizaizheiyimimishijian，gengcaogaodeshi，tahuituidongnibukeyibeixinlaidejuede。

4、ruguonideairenfujianxinlaishiyaoyouxixin。

 caiyihebuxinlaishizijibeimengpianbingshuohuangshidedaziranfanying - zhongjiu，zhijiezhengjushiyongzheizhongxinxin，jiwobuxinlai。xinlainenggoufujian，danjibianduixindishanliangeryanyeburongyixunsu。renke，zhiqian，bingshicizaiweilaiweichichengxin，danbubijixiwangyuneiyangzuodeyirangrenhehuifuguolai。yucefenxinideairenjianghuichuzaixintaidechuizhiguoshanchezhong。xintaizhuanbian，shuimianzhiliangheweikouzhongduan，shenxinjiankangjiangdi，jiqihurandeleishui，naonuhuodanqieshidazirande。tamenjinrijianghuihuibianhaoqilai，danmingrihuizaiduzaoshousunhai。dangtamenqinshenjinglizheiyiquanguochengshiyaoyouxixin。tashiyigequanguocheng，bixushijian。

 bubitedinghezuofangbixuhuaxiaodeshijian，doubuguidingtamenchushishikebiao。fanguolai，jinninenggou，binganshiyutamenmeiriqiandao，zhaodaotamendebuwei。zaizheiliyiduanshijianliniyuairendeguanlianweibishicongjintiankaishidezhuangkuang。suizhishijiandebianhua，airendecaiyihebuxinlaijianghuizuihouxiaotui。