情感生活里男人出轨的欲望从哪里来？

 henduorendoujuedeaiqingyuhunyindejiqingshiyoubaocunqide，guoquzaifenbugushendeqinggan，suizhishijiandebianhua，huiyuelaiyuepingdanrushui。erzheileipingdanrushui，huirangnanrenjinbuzhushenxianduiairendeyanfanqi、duihunyindepibeiqi，naizhizaochengwaiyudexiangfa。wojuedeqingganshenghuoli，nanrentaruwaiyudelumian，wufeixialiejidayuangu。

一、情感生活里出轨男人的冲动从哪儿来？

1、找寻恋情激情

 zheileinanrenjianghuidaduoshuganjuezishenhunyinlideganqingshenghuoshibeijude，yeshijianghuishiqitaxintaizhuangtai。tayebingfeiduiwaikaifangyulingyibanmeiyouyidianerqinggan，tayeshikedianjizheta，zaijiazhongyejingchangqueshiyintaerduiqizibunaifan。tahuiduizheiyinvshuo：“woyishengzhongzuiailiangnv，1gejiushini，lingwaijiushiwoma。”erbaqiziqingchuchuwai。zheigengshitayaodejuede，taqidaizaitapingwendeyishizhuxingqingkuangxia，xunzhaolianqingshidejiqing。

2、hunhouchuguilingyibandezhuiqiuwanmeinengkaolvtadexurong

 tayaojiageta，nanrenwangxingdeshi，zheiyinvxinghaizhenaita；danxindequeshi，huibeitachanshang。zheileiguanliandewanbi，daduoshudoushiyiqizimingquetichutahuiliyi，hunhouchuguilingyibanxiangjiagetadeneiyikekaishide。danshi，nanrenbuyuanxunsuliquhunhouchuguilingyiban，biancaiyongyuhuizhanshu，zhizhineinvrenaobuzhule，buguanbuguhongyandanulishiliquta。nantishinvxingdaduoshubukenrenkezishenaicuoleren，dangnanrenjijuwenrouhualingjiashaoliangeyulei，tayousuibiandiwangjileciqiandeshang，dianxingxingde“haolabahenwangjiletong”，hushileqingganshenghuolinanrenjinjinzaixiangyoubeizhuiqiuwanmei、beiaidexurong。

3、zhaoxunhunyinwaidejiqing

 dangnanrenzaihunneichuguibiaoshuganqingshi，neixinzhixiangzhanjuzheiyinvxing，taburongyiyouzhidixiangqiyaohetawanhun，taganjuezishenxifufeichanghao。ernvxingzaibiaoshuganqingshitongchangqidaidejiushishuomeiduanjizhidehunyin。erzhongbuyiyangdexintaizhuangtai，zuchenglenvrenhenanrenzaihunyinchuguishidejidaxintaizhuangtaichabie。nanrenzaiqinshenjinglilehunyindexinxianqihoubiangangkaishiannaibuzhuxiangwaiyu。danjiazhongduitaeryan，shigeanquanxingdehaigang。jinguanzaichixuzhuixunzhetasuoqidaidejiqing，danneixinshenchuqueshiwangshiyimumudanhuangsedezhutiqu。

4、chengshuqinanrenqizhitahuishenganyinyiweihao

 tamenshoushangyongyouchengshuqinanrenqizhi，beishouqizideshangxijingyang，zheileiqingkuangrangtamendezihaohexinxinxintaizhuangtaichixuzizhang，taburongyiquneileixiasanlandediqu，neibanjibuanquanxingyouxiaofeibule，zhao1geanquanxingyoubutaoqiandenvxing，zhiyingchuanzheijian“ganqing”waitao，fengfuduocaideganqingshenghuojiuhuodelefengfu，shenglixuenantiyouchulidedexinyingshou。

5、只恋情不想结婚

 qingganshenghuolitabuyuanyihunyin，jiuhuizhaotuociyuhunhouchuguilingyibantichufenshou。zheileineishihou，tazaoyihenhouhuimojiheneinvrenbaguanlianfazhanqushideguoshen，nongdezishensichubenbo。tazheishikaolvdaodeshicaiyongnaxiefangfaleduanzheileiguanlian，lingyifangdengbushangzoulesuanle，yexunvxinghaiganjuebaoqianta，wulunruheganwanbukeyiweihaitadegongzuojiatinggongzuo。zainvxingzuochujuecexiahenxinyaoliqutadeneishihou，tayouhuiliuzhehunzhuodeleishuotaxinyisui，gezhonggeyanggaobai，xinshidandan。

 tongchanglianaizhongdehunwailiandabufendounengzaochengneiyangdegongxiao，tahuirangzijimeifaweichiyiqiezhengchangyishizhuxingdexingzhuang，meifayiqiezhengchangdizhixinghunyinyiwu，jibianzaiduodezhimingyanyuanzaizheileishensikuangsuandelianqingqingkuangxiadoujianghuihuichuxianshulou。