男人为什么会出轨？创建三道防护抵御第三者侵入

男人 为什么会出轨 ？家庭的第一个仇敌就是说第三者，这种人基本上不容易在乎外部的提出批评和另一方家庭的体会，只惦记着怎样牟取本身权益。若不愿见到幸福家庭被损坏，就得马上创建防护对策，抵御第三者的侵入。

第一道防护：不搞家庭内战

 nanrenweishenmehuichugui?nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?yigeguojia，honglaozaihaiheneizhanyueda，laobaixingjiuhuiyuepinkun，jiatingdoushizheiban。jiarufufuyitiandaowangaodeheyuanjiayiyang，bingbushiyouyuweihubaoyangfenbiedequanyierzaochengenyuanqingchou，jiushishuoweilingyifangdewaiyuerqijibaihuai，gesanchawuchaoshangyijia，neiyangzongshijianjiandihaofeinidejingzhengnengli。

 nanrenduijiatingdeyikao，haowuyiwenshizheiyijiatingyoutazaiwaibiantihuibushangwupin，yigejiatingxingfuerfuyu，zhurenjiawenroutitie，nanrenhaowuyiwenbushedeliquzheiyijia。fanguolai，fufuerrenzhengtiandadanaonao，jiazhonglingluanbukan，neiyangdejiananrenyikeyebuyuanjiuliu，tadaziranhuilijichongxiangnageyinyoutaxujiudedisanzhe。

第二道防护：家庭“年审”

 zheiertezhide“nianshen”，jiushishuozuoweizhurenjiadeni，yaodongdeyuzhangfujiuliuyisheng，hetalingjulideshuoshuoxinlihua，kanyixiatajinqiyiduanshijianyoumuyouxinsi，jinjinzhuazhubawotadexintaizhuangtai。zhinengchixurenshizijidenanren，caikeyilejietayuanyinaxie，zhibizhijibaizhanbudai，buranzongshirangdisanzhezuanlezuankongzi。

 zhengshizhinenggenjujiating“nianshen”，caikeyichixudiaojiezishendehaohuai，chixubawozhangfudexintaizhuangtai，caikeyirangzhangfutihuidaolaopodetongqingdali，ganqingshenghuocaikeyiyuelaiyueyuan。

第三道防护：诸多相互的朋友

 yaolejiechuwaikaopengyoudedadaoli，renmaiguanxishijishangjiushishuocaifu。zhinengyouzhezhuduoxianghudepengyou，caihuiyoudaliangjiyudoubaidisanzhe。wuluntalaidaonaerchangyounide“yanzhuang”，jinidenanrenwushibukebutishizishenbukeyiluanlai。

 huoxu，dajiadepengyouzongbukeyidangtiaobolijiandedashi，keshi，guangjirenmaiguanxikeyiweinintigongyouliangdeshejiaomeitiqizhi，duibiweishouweiweidedisanzhe，nihuoxujiushishuodahuoerxinzhongzhongdegongzhu，jibaidisanzhemeishangliang。nanrenyouhunwailianzenmeban?