发现对方出轨了最好的处理方式有哪些

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshiyounaxie？jiatingzhengchangdebukeyiyiqiliyi，zaicihuidaojiating，yihaiziweizhongxinzengjiajiatingningjilibicizhongshikandai，huzhuyouai。

　　1、双方都必须理智看待。

　　juededuifangwaiyu，zuixianbubigaohandachaodanaojiangshiqinggaoda，zuihaoshibicizixingjiejue，jihuidisanfangjierucanyuzhandoulishichuli，neiyangyoukenengchuxianyixiangbudaodebeidongqingkuangfasheng。neiyangzhinengjiejueyishishuangkuai，meiyouhaochu，naizhitarenlianminduifangshigeruoxiaole。

　　jieguoxianshifashenglingyifangfangshishangdaoqianrencuo，bicishibushizhenchengwufaqueding。xinlizhendekeyixuehuifangxiama？bixutaolun。buyaonao，baochilixing，shuangfangdouxuyaoyiduanshijianhuifuyixiaqingxu，guocuofangbixusisuo，shoudaofangbixuxinlizhuangtaixiufuyiduanshijian，yaoxiangduikeguanyiduanshijian。

　　2、最好是私底下整理一下有效证据

　　buguanzenyangzhunbeiquebazhengjushenchahao，gengyouli，danbuyaochangchangjiuzuoweitiguoquyuanyin，yiyuliubingbushichangjian，zuihaorangguocuofangxieyigechengnuoshuleibiededongxi。

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshijiushizheixiele。jinguanyoutong，haiyaoyoulangmanzhuyisecai，chengxianfenbiedutedemeili；bahunhouchuguizuoweiyigebugouchengshugerenxingweiduidai；zaicigouqiqingyi；zaiwanjiuliekaiguanlianyiqian，chuguizhehuozhebeichuguizhedouxuyaoshenzhongdisikaoyigewenti：lizhilizhidisikaonideyiwang、xianzaiyuweilai，zheiduanganqingdaodizhibuzhidewanjiu，daodizhibuzhideniyincierfuzhunuli；chuguizheyingdangzuodianshenme：zuixianyuhunwaiqingrenduanjueyiqiejiaowangbubiyiyibushe，cizhi，yaozhenxinduidailingyifangjubeiqianjiudexin，renshidaozijidecuowu，shigaibian、wanjiudediyibu，bixufazifeifu，yiwanjiuaiqingweizhongxindechengrencuowu；zaidusikaozhiqiandebudui，jinxingmibucuowumeiyouzaizhongxingfan。