几招告诉你发现对方出轨了最好的处理方式有哪些

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshishishenme？yingduilingyifangchugui，zhenduixuduorenlaishuoshiyizhongfeichangtongkudejingli。chuyugezhongyuanyin，jieshuhunyin、kuanronghuoshichixubaochiguanxidengbutongchulifangshi。neiyang，dajiayinggairuhechulizheizhongqingkuangni？yixiashuyubutongjiaodujiangjiedetiyi。

　   1.冷静沉着

　　diyishijiantingjianlingyifangchugui，dabufenrendouhuiqingxuguoji，wufabaochilengjing。keshi，lengjingchenzheshijiejuewentidiyibu。zaipingjingxialaiyiqian，bubizuorenhefuwuchengnuohuozuochurenhexingwei。yingdangjizijiyixieshizhang，shenrusikaoheguancha，zheiyangcainenggenghaodiheduifanggoutongjiaoliu。

　　2.聆听另一方

　　yingduiduifangchugui，bijiaohaodechulifangshikenengshizuoxiaheduifangtanyitan。lingtingtadejieshishuomingyuangu，yeranghaizizhidaonideqingxuheyihan。duihaizidexingweijinliangbuyaofabuniantou，tinghouhouzaizuojueding。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，lingtingyulijieshihenzhongyaode，zheiyangcainenggenghaodichulishiqing。

　　3.保持冷静

　　jiaruniquedingweichiguanxi，neiyangbixurangzishenbaochilengjing。suiranzheiyiguochenghuihentongku，danshizheishizaiyiduanguanxizhongrenheyifangchuguishiyaonengchengshoude。keyirangzijiwanqiang，bierangzijigandaojiaolvhuoshiwang，bimianjinyibuweihaiguanxi。

　　4.重新思考关系

　　dangyifangchuguishi，bixuzhongxinshenshizijiyuzijideguanxi。chuguikenengshiyinweiduibicidebumanyihuoshizhuyaoshiyinweibiedeyinsuyinqide。ruguonixiangyaochixubaochiguanxi，neiyangwubigaoqingchulingyifangchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，jinxingyidingdegenggai。buran，chuguikenengzaicichuxian。

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshijiushizheixiele。zaizheiyangyigeqiantixia，bixutebieguanxinzijidexiangfayijixuyao。zhiyaoduifangchuguirangniganjuedaoshifennanshou，qianwanbuyaobipozijikuanrongtamenhuobaochiguanxi。weihuzijidexiangfayijixuyaozhiguanzhongyao。