婚姻中女人必学：发现对方出轨了最好的处理方式

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshishisha?hunyinshihuigezhonggeyangdewenti。dangfaxianlaogongchuguishi，nvhaixiangjinyiqiebanfajiejue，neiyangzenyangchulilaogongchuguini?shijishang，ruguonixiangyaojiejuenizhangfudemengpian，zhuyaokannishibushihaixiangjixuzheiyiduanhunyin。ruguonixiangyaojianchixiaqu，nibixuyaoxianxunzhaonizhangfuchuguideyuanyin。kanshibushiliangrenzhijianyouyixiewuhui。ruguoyinweiwujie，niyinggaiqinshenjiejuewujie。ziran，jiarushiqitawenti，niyinggaiyutatanyitan。jishizuihoufaxianzhangfushiyouyubuxihuanzijileer，erxihuanshanglebieren，zheishihoujiuyaoluoluodafangdezhuanguoshen，gaifangkaishoudeshihouyaoxuehuifangshou，yiduanmeiyouaidehunyinshihennanxiangbanyishengde，yinciburujinzaojiufangxia。

　　faxianlaogongchuguizuihaochulibanfa：

　　1.恢复自己的情绪

　　faxianlaogongyouwaiyuhou，yidingyaoxiankongzhuzishen，burangzijibianchenghanfu，neibanzhiyourangzijibiandegengben，yinciyaowendingzijidexinqing。tangruozhendewufayizhizouxiaqu，neiyangfangqi。

　　2.夫妻之间理智沟通

　　yaodongdeyubicizhijiangoutong，zaichuxianmaodunshi，bieyinyishidechongdongtiaoxuanrangzishenhouhuideshiqing，yiner，youjishigoutongzhiguanzhongyao，youqishidangliangrenchanshengmaodunhou。

　　3.商议婚姻的未来的走向

　　faxianlaogongyouwaiyuhou，zheishinanshengruoxinlihaicunzhe，tayidinghuijinirencuo，bingxianghehaoruchu，zheishijiubazheifenganqingzengjin，ziran，yejiushinihaiyaojixuzheiyiduanhunyindeqiantitiaojian。

　　zaijiehunguochengzhongliangrenzaibuduandishuxihelejiezhihou，huigengbuyouzizhudejiangduifangdangchengziji，yinweidongde，suoyiziranjuedezijixiangdeyidingshilingyifangdixiang，zaixuduoshiqingshangbicizhijianbuduandibicilejie，dangranhuijianglingyifangdangzuoziji。faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshizuichuhuiyinweizishendelijieerananqiexi，keshisuizheshijiandetuiyi，lingyifangyehuiduinigandaoyanjuan，yinweitazhihuijuedemieshita，zhuangzuolejieta，jiuhuizhujianzaochengmaodun。congduifangdejiaodulaikaolvnanti，bubijiangzijidexiangfakaoliangjibici，xuehuiyulingyifanggoutong，cainengrangnidefuqiganqinggengqiang。