发现对方出轨了最好的处理方式，四两拨千斤是最好的办法

　　faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshibiepinmingditanxunlingwaiyigenvrendaodishishei，qidaigentazhiwen。takeyiaishanglenilaogong，jiukeyichaoyingni。bingqie，tayaoyaodejiushinigentadachaodanaotechao，zheigejiuzuodaotayiyile。yinci，zuihaodefangshishihushita，biebatadangchengshibenrenzuidadeyigeqiangdi，siliangboqianjinshizuihaodebanfa。

　　1.回首过去。

　　laogongchuguihou，ruobingmeiyoutaidadeguoshi，zuoweinvrendeshouyaokaolvyinggaishizenyangzhengjiuzheiduanganqing。keyishizishenxiangqiwangridehaoshiguang，duozaojiuyipianwenxinhemudejiatingqingjing，zuihaoshishedingyigebixuyijiarenhuoshuangfanggongtongnulidefangxiang，yekeyiweiraozhehaizijiaoyujinxing。

　　2.造就令人着迷的自身。

　　nvxingshulichuziwofansi，buyaorangzijiyushehuituojie，nanrenshijinbudanziji，shuoweijiafangqi，keshisixiangyishishiwufabijiaoluohou，nvrenzuizhongyaodeshiyaobaochiqingjiepiaoliang，liuyitishengzishendehanyang，yidingyaoyouzijideshierqugan，jibianshijiatingfunv，nianshu、yundongjianshen、meironghufu，yeshiyiyangyebunengshao。

　　3.让家温馨

　　yongyige“jia”zijibaidisanzhe，nijiarugouwenxin、shushiyouganjingma？meiyicilaogonghuijiadoushiyoumeiweidefancai、zhunbeihaodereshuiyutaaikandezazhiqikanma？changchanggaibianyixiajiajujiaju，ruchuanglianbu，shafajin，chuangtaowenxinshufu，jianengrangnanrenxiexi，shuihao，chihao，bingleyouxierenzhaogu，nanrenrutongxiaohaitaileileduzieleleilezongshiyaohuiqude。rangtasheqiyigewenxinshushidejia，tahuiyouyubujuede。

　　4.和平分手

　　shizaibuxingfangkainanren，hepingfenshouzuiheshi，youkuyounaoshihennankande。taibananrendangyihuishi、henxiangcaozongnanrendenvren，wuxingzhizhongsuochanshengdesixinliefeidexintaihuidaijilingyifangjudagongzuoyali，rangtataodaolingyigeaiqingquan，zheiwangwangshinanrendebuchangshigerenxingwei。

       faxianduifangchuguilezuihaodechulifangshijiushifangkainanren，rentalaixiazheteng，erniyebiancongzhonghuodeshifang，haiyoujihuishenshizijidexinli。