确定出轨的男人后老婆的正确做法

 yingdui zhangfuchuguilihun shiqizimenzuibuyuanjiandaode，dankeguanshishibaifangzaiyanxiawoyewubiquyingdui，erbingbushiduobi。zhangfuchuguilihunlelaopodeqiadangzuofashishenme?

首先：操纵好自身的心态，让自身平静下来

 quedingchuguidenanrenle，qizimendoushichuxiannaonu、wuru、shibai、tongku、biequdengfuxingxintai。zaizheileiqingkuangzhongzuifeichangrongyisangshilizhi，haoxiangwuguanwenchongluancuan，lingrenshenxiangudi。shijishang，cikezuiguanjiandeshixianpingjingxialai，pouxiyixiaxiachuguidenanrendeyuangu，tamenliangrendeguanlianfazhanqushidaonagechengdule?

其次：欲擒故纵，以诚相待相对性

 danglianggerendouqidaizheixiehunyinshenghuozaicizouxialaishi，qingpingxinjingqizuozhelaitanyitan。yituiweibeng，xuexipeixunkuanronghekuanrong，sisuo“shinaxiedeyuangudaozhiaidenanrenpanbianzishen”，huoxuhuishizishendeyuangu。danzuoweiqizi，qidaibaochizheixiehunyinshenghuo，shimouxiejiaoweiyouxinbubiguowen，youyushierjiranzaoyichanshengle，zaizhuizesheideguoshiyiwushijiyiyile。

 zhiyaonideliburaoren，laoshuonilaogongdebingbushi，zongshitishengtade“fanzuigan”，zheileifanzuiganzaimeifabianruoshi，tafeichangrongyiyou“yibuzuo，erbuxiu，zongzhidahuoerdounaokaiguo，yinweiwomeiyoushenmehaobaocunde”xintaizhuangtai，dajiadeguanlianyehuiyuelaiyuejiduan。fanguolai，kuanrong、kuanrongherenshouzenengshitayou“neijiugan”，shenjuebaoqianni，henpazaisunhaini，jinerhuidaonishenbian。

接着：给他们時间和空间，交给相互1个思索室内空间

 ruguonidexintaishiyaoshitahuijiajiuyuanliangshi，qingjinkenengjitamendianshijianhekongjian，jiaojixianghu1gesisuoshineikongjian。tahuiguanniandaozishenzuobudui，yiqiyefanshengzijizaizheixiecengmianzuodebutaihao，caihuishitachuguiqitanvxing，suihouqinfendequgenggai，neiyangnenggoubimianzhihouzaichanshenggaileiexingshijian，bingtahuihaohaodiduizheiyijia，haohaodideduini。

最后：复建信赖感

 hunyinshenghuobenjiushishuochuangjianzaixinlaidejibenzhizhongde，yincizaicichuangjianniliangzhongjiandexinlaiganshiyouweizhongyaode。yaozenyangzuoni?zheihaiyaozaiyudajiafenbiedegongjianle。yeyouqingwanquanwangdiaolingyifangyiqianzuoguobaoqianzishendeshi，neiyangnenggouzaicichuangjianxinlaigan，zoudehenyuan。

第5步：让老公自身去解决他与第三者的关联

 zuipingwendeguanlianjiushishuosanjiaoguanxi。wangwangchugui，youyunigennanpengyoudeguanlianbujunhengle，weilefangzhigengebiandejieguochuxian，zheiyineishihou，nikeyigengxinlaita，jitamenshijiantahuiqujiejuetayudisanzhedeguanlian，erbingbushilijiganyu，yulingyifanglianluohuoshishijiaoshe。

最后：求教专业人员，切忌造成报复心态

 pengdaozheileishi，yixiesangshilixingdenvxing，yongdao yizhibaoyuandefangfaduifulaogong，tahuitihuidaoyiyangdetongchuhesunhai。neiyangzuobujinwanliubushanglaogongdexin，fandaohuishizheijianshiqingdejiduanshuipingshengji，nongqiaochengzhuo。zheishihouhebuqiujiaozhuanyerenyuan，rangtamenweilenizhaoxun1gehelidejiejuefangan。

第7步:用爱来影响他，他会回心迁移

 dangfajuezhangfuchuguishi，bubijiqiechufatahuoshishigentazhengzhi，zhishiyongailaiyingxiangta，tahuihehaoruchu。zuixianyaozuodeshibajiazhongqingxidejingranyouxu，zhaoliaohaotadebabamama，duoduodeguanzhuta，dangtazaiwaibianwankeyile，wanleizhezhihoutadaziranhuifaxianzishenyeyougejia，nagejiazhongyouguishuyudajiayiqiandekaixin，yeyoubabamamaxiaohaizaipanwangzhetahuijiale。zheimoyangtajiuhuijuededaozheiyijiadewennuan、shushi，shunlichengzhangyejiuhuixiangnengtong。