夫妻婚后冷战，什么方法才能化解

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neiyangdeqingkuangdangnizaibulijidiaojiedehua，shouhairenyifangzaijingshenshizhihuoganqingbeilingnveyiduanshijianyihoutadeyouyuegan、guishugan、zizundoushibeibuzixin、naonujiqixiaochendexintaisuotunshi。naizhihuijiniderenshengjiazhiguanhejiazhiguannianchanshengwaiqu。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

yingduinizhangfuduinidejiatinglengbaoligerenxingwei，ninengxuanyongxialiezheijileifangshiqujiejue：

1、剖析他家庭冷暴力的根源

meiyoumomingqimiaodesunhai，tahuiduinijiatinglengbaoli，kendingshiyouyuangude，nirujinyaozuodejiushishuokeguandezaicizhengliyixiadajiadeganqingguanlian。

2、心态状态很重要

jiarulianggerenzaiyuyanshang，jianghuihuichanshengpianjidegerenxingwei，zheishiqingyidingyaobishangzuisanmiaozhong，zheiyihenzhongyao，renguozheisanmiaozhong，jiukeyihelidikongzhizhusunhailingyifangdeyuyan。

3、学好做一个达标的聆听者

liangrenzhangqiyishizhuxingzaiyiqi，zaiganqinghuoniantoushang，shiduoshaodoushiyixiezhuanbian，cikeniyaochudiaolaopodezhenshishenfen，renzhenquqingtingtadexinlihua，shitakeyiqingtuzishendetongchuyubumanyi，erqiejiyutajijizhudongdeganenhuikui，kuanweita。

4、撒娇的女人是命

taiguoqiangshidenvrenhuirangnanshengyouyizhongyuqiangzeqiang，yugangzegangdexintaizhuangtai。nvrenbinanshengduoyizhongchaobisha，jiushishuofadia。fadiarenrang，zailingyifangyanqianfangxiazijidejiaoao，jiushishuofeichanghaodetupodian。

yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？yaojilao，hunyinshenghuolimeiyoushengfu，xianjijibingbuyidingfushu。yongnvxingduyoudeyoudianxiangtachuanchuganqingyaoyue，shitaganshoudaoniduiwoduinideaihekuanrong。