冷战是什么意思？夫妻异地冷战一个月，应该如何解决

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？zixunzhetijidezheigewentibaokuole2gecengmian，yigeshilengbaoliyigeduoyuemeijianghua，yigeshilianggerenshiwaidi。yibanlaishuo，fuqilengzhandaibiaofuqiguanxichuleyidingdenanti，erfuqiguanxidenanti，yougenfufuwaidiyoutingdadeguanlian。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？jiaruyizhaozheiyiyinguoguanxicixudehua，bixuchuliwaididaozhidefuqiguanxinanti，zaishuochulihunlianwentizaochengdefuqilengzhan。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？huanjuhuashuo，yifangmianshifufuwaidiruheweihubaoyangfuqiguanxi，lingyifangmianshizenyangbaituolengbaoli。womenjiucongzheiliangcengmianlaitaolunyixiayinggaizenmeban。

夫妇外地怎样维护保养夫妻关系？

fufuwaidiqingkuangxia，fuqiguanxifeichangrongyichuxiannanti，yibanshiyouyuzheihaoduogeyuangu：

yinweihuxiangjiaowanghegoutongjiaoliudejiangdi，zaocheng lianggerenganqingshangyibuyilai；

zhangqixingdewaidiyishizhuxing，zaocheng bicirongruledujushenghuo，shenghuoshangxianghuzhijianyibuyikao；

waidiqingkuangxiafufubicishenglixueshangbunengmanzu，queshihunyinshenghuodejibenyaosu；

fenbiezaoyudefanzaziranhuanjinghuitouyingdaolingyifangdeshenshang，fufuxinlaizaoyumolian。

lejielezhishangyuangu，zaiwaidiqingkuangxuyaoweihubaoyanghaofuqiqinggan，yingdangzenyangbaituozheisigecengmiandenantini？

一、彼此创建平时的固定不动的联络标准，不断开感情上的依赖。

 bicijinliangdegenjutongxungongjuweichixianghuzhijiandegoutongjiaoliu，liruxianghuxinrenlingyifangdeshenghuozhuangtai、xintai，jiqijijizhudonghuodelingyifangdejianyizheixie。jibianshiwaidiqingkuang，rengranweichiganqingyushenghuoshangdexianghuyicun，shineikongjianshangshiwaidi，guannianshangbingmeiyoufenli。

二、把彼此团圆的机遇当做日常生活最关键的事。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？bicidingshizhixingtuanyuanjianghuihuihaofeishijianheqiancai，dantashifufuwaidiqingkuangxia，weihubaoyangxianghuguanliansuowubiyaonulidechengbenfei。babicituanyuandejiyudangzuoguanjiandeshi，erbushibeibiededeshierchongzou。changchangjucan，nenggou feichanghaodecujinganqingjiqikaolvbicideshenglixuyao。

三、独自一人的情况下为自己缓解压力。

 zaimeiyouhuanjudeshijianli，zaisuonanmianzaochengyidingdegongzuoyali，baohanganqinggongzuoyali、shenghuoyali、shenglixuegongzuoyalizheixie，keshiwomenkeyigenjubiededefangfakaizhanlinshidechanghai。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？liruqinpenghaoyoujianderenjijiaowanghechushixiezhu，shidudezhutihuodonghejianshenyundong，dounenggouranggezhonggeyanggongzuoyalihuodeshifangchulai。

四、夫妇彼此必须時刻警觉自身坚定信念。

 dangshifufuwangwangtiaoxuanwaidifangfa，yidingshiyibianmouleimeihaoyuanwangerzuochudelinshifangqi。yinci，biciyaoshimeiyouwangdiaozheiyixinyuan，bingchixudejinjinweiraozheiyixinyuanerqinfen，jiuburongyisangshixianghudezongtimubiao，jiuburongyisangshinulishenghuodequdongli。jibianrujinyouquehan，dandouhuimairuxingfushenghuo。

夫妇长期性冷暴力应当该怎么办？

 renmenjiangwanlewaidifufuzenyangweihubaoyanghaofuqiganqing，rujinjiukanlaiyixia，fuqijianchuxianlezhangqixinglengbaoliqingkuanghou，zenyangzuocaikeyibaituozheiyilengbaoli，shifuqiganqinghuodejianqing。

一、彼此或是一方有积极缓解的意向

 fuqilengzhantongchanghuishishuangfangdoujuedeshangxinhenanshou，wangwangbukeyipobingzhilv，shiyouyubicizhaobuzhekongque（louti），huanjuhuashuoduixianghuguanlianqueshizixinxin，buyuanyizaiyinciqinfen。zheijiubixuzaiqizhongyifangbaituozheileixintaizhuangtai，qinfenshizishenbianchengganyupobingzhilvdeyifang。

 lengbaolideguanlianwangwangyulaiyuwufagaijin，jiushishuoyouyushuangfangdouyibingliangdexintailaikandai，zheizongshirangbingmianyulaiyuhou。eryaoshiyifangzhuyaobiaoxianchuwendu，jiukeyishipobingzhilvbianchengjianghui，zhishaohuirangjiediyulaiyuxiao，zhongjiuhuiyoupobingzhilvdeneiyike。

二、先处理造成此次冷暴力的实际的事

 jinguanfuqilengzhandezhijieyuanyinshifuqiguanxichulenanti，danmeiyicidelengbaolidoushiyouyigeshijideexingshijianeryinqi，liruyouyuxiaohaidemouyinantierzhengzhizaocheng lengbaoli，huozheyouyubicichuxianlexinlainanti（panbian？）。

 yinci，yongyoujijihuanjiedeyixiang，bingxiangxiaochulengbaoli，neimejiuxianchulidiaozheiyizaochengcicilengbaolideshijideshi。yaobushishijishiwuguanliderangbu，yaobujiushishuoxiaochudiaowujie，yaobuzhenchengbiaoshuqianjiu。buguanlingyifangshibushidafu，zuoweijijideyifang，yidingyaozuochuyigejijixintaidekaishi。

三、找寻相同点，开启感情冷冻缺口

 jiejueleshijinantiyihou，jiubixujianjiandihuanjiexianghudeganqing。neizheiyitupodianjiushishuobicichangyouxianghulianjiedexiangtongdian，liruxiaohai、babamamazheixie。youyushixiangtongdian，yinciyejiumeifataobi，zhiyouyingdui。zheijiujihuanjieganqingchushilejiyu。

 zaizheizhongxiangtongdianshang，zhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenduilingyifangdelejie，hewangtuhuanjieguanliandeyixiang，jiqiduibiciguanliandezixinxin。zheizhonghanyouwendudegerenxingweidoushiweihaidaolingyifang，jibiantabiaocengshanghuanshilengyanxiangduixing，xinliyehuiganshoudaonidechengxin。

四、全部的基本取决于自身的成才和细心

 1.renmenxianggaijinfuqilengzhandeguanlian，guanjiandebingbushiyanxiadenanti，zhishizishenduiyiwanggerenxingweidesikao，shishazaocheng lerujindejieguo。

 fuqilengzhantixiandejiushishuoyiwangfuqiguanxidebugou，renmenzhinenggenjuzhenshidesikaohefanshengzishendenanti，shizishenkeyihuodechengcai，caijianghuimairuquanxindeguanlian，erbushiyicuozaicuo。

2.bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan。

 huanjieguanlianbixuxixin，bunengpengdaokunnanmocazulijiusuibiansheqi。lengbaolibingbushiyitianchanshengde，guanliandehuanjieyebushilikejiunengxiufuruchujiande。yinci，jibianwomenzaibiaoshuzhenchengdeqingkuangxiazaigentoule，yebubiyinererqueshizixinxinjiyuqiucheng。yaoyou“runwuwusheng”detili。

 zongdelaishuo，fufuwaidihelengbaolishi2gewenti。zhenduineiweizixunzheeryan，zheilianggewentironghelaidaoyiqi，zheijiubixubeigaofangbazheijianshiqinggaoduzhongshiqilai，genjuzhishangtaolundeneirong，zhangwodaochuliwaidihelengbaolidefangshi，zaironghezishendejutiqingkuang，zuochuxiangduidefangfancuoshihexingdong。

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？wanhunduozhangshijian、meihua、jiaruheimingdanlianxidianhua、waidizheixie，zheizhongyebuyingbianchengzulanrenmenxingdongdeyuanyin。renmenyingduizaoyichuxiandenanti，jijizhudongdefanshengzijibingcongzheidangzhongdedaochengcai，yijutidexingdongzuochugaijin。zheiban，buguanjieguozenyang，womenshichuxinbufude。