夫妻婚后一直处于冷战状态，冷战怎么办？

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？zaiganqingdequanqiuzhong，bingmeiyouhebushihe，zhenduibuduizhifen。zaihunyinshenghuoli，yizhichuzailengbaolidefufu，yeyouzheijileijieguo！hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 zaiganqingdequanqiuzhong，bingmeiyouhebushihe，zhenduibuduizhifen。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？liangrentongyidezaiyiqi，bingmeiyouxiuchengzhengguodezheixieqinglv，yexushiganjuezishenduizheiyifenganqingyeyouyixieyouyu，youyexushijiaowangyihoucaifajuelingyifangbingbingbushiqueshiheshizishen。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，zairenmenyishizhuxingdezhoubianjianghuihuichangchangjiandaoyouhenduofufu，zaiwaimiandeqingkuangxiahenxiangaihentianmei。keshiyifanhuijiazhong，rutonghuanleyigemoyang。sheidoumeilishei。fenbiewanfenbiede。buqingchushiyouyushenmeshiqingrangliangrenyibuxiangzhiqianneibanqinmiwujian，jiushizheiyangyizhilengbaolizhe。

neimazaihunyinshenghuozhong，yizhichuzailengbaoliqingkuangdefufu，yeyouxialiezheizhongjieguo。

第一，两人中间的情感越来越愈来愈淡小敏和兵线两人完婚以前很相爱，无论干什么都在一起。可是时间长了之后两人渐渐地的越来越不喜欢说话，每日一下班回家，吃过饭以后就分别玩分别的。

 xuduo qingkuangxia，xiaomingenbingxianjianghua，tadouhenfuyanleshixiaomin。libaitiandeqingkuangxia，doubuzaiyiqiguangjiegouwu，kandianshiju。buqingchucongheshigangkaishide，liangrenjiushizheiyangshenxianlelengbaolizhizhong。womenlejieyibanlaishuo，yiqiezhengchangdejiazhongzhizhong，fuqijiandoushishahuadounenggoushuode，meirixiabanhuijiahuiyiqijiawulaodongyiqiliaodangridegongzuozhong，rushuiyiqianhuihuxiangshushuozishendexinlitihui。

 libaitiandeqingkuangxiahuiyiqizuoliangrendouxiaideshier，liruyishuchahua，zhufan，jiawulaodongzheixie。shijishang，wulunfuqijianjielehunduoshaonian，douyingdangweichiyuanxiandenagemoyang，bubiyouyuyixieyaosuerwangdiaochuzhong。wulunzaiyiqiduozhangshijianle，douyingdangyouyidingdeshijianyiqigoutongjiaoliu。

 dangfuqijianyuelaiyuelengmole，meishenmekeyishuodeqingkuangxia，zheigeshihoubuyaoshuoshiliangrenyiqiganshenmeshuoxieshenme，jiulianshuijuedoubuyuanyitangzaiyizhangchuangbian，yixiebijiaoyanzhongdehaihuijixufenlishui。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？yuanbenzaiwaimianhensuihe，yidanhuidaojiajiuyuelaiyuejianmole，zhengchaodoubuyuanchao。jiarushijianyizhang，bingmeiqujiejuedoubuzhaofangshiquchulineijianshier，neimazheigeshihoufuqijiandeqingganmashanghuijianjiandidebianqian，rutonglurenyiban。

第二、给孩子成长产生一定的危害

 renmenchangchanghuipengdaoneiyangdeshier，zairenmenyishizhuxingdezhoubian，xuduo jiazhongyizhizaizhengzhi，yixiehaichuxianlejiatingbaoli。zhenduimeiyouxiaohaidejiazhongeryan，jianghuimeishenme，keshiyongyouxiaohaidejiazhong，babamamachangchangneiyangdehuaxiaohaidexintaizhuangtaihuizaoshouyidingdeweihai。hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？

 xiaohaibingbushanyubiaoda，huifangzaixinshangbuyongshuo，yexutahaihuijixujuedezishendebabamamameirizhengchaohuoshishilengmodoushiyouyuzishendaozhide。neiyangdehuazhangqixialai，xiaohaizaijiaoshihuoshishitongxuemenyanqianhuijuedezishenhendijian，tamashanghuitiaoxuanbazijichedideguandiaodaozishenshezhidezheishijiezhizhong，yebuyuanyihetarenyouguoduodegoutongjiaoliuhebingji。

第三、会导致婚姻生活中第三者的出現

 liangrenzaiyiqibujinshirichangshenghuohexiexiangchu，lingwailiangrende“fuqixingshenghuo”yeshibixuhemude。doushuofuqixingshenghuoshiyizhongshiyongxiangliaoyeshiyizhongjinshucuihuaji，huirangliangrendeqinggantiwen，yuelaiyuegengweidetianmei。yidanfuqijianyoulengbaolidezhuangkuangchuxian，yejiushiyigeyebulicaiyige，neimayibanzaizheigeshihoumashanghuihenyanzhongdeweihaidaofuqijiandeqinggan。

 ziranfuqijianjiaruzhangqilengbaoli，mashanghuizaochenglingyifangdeyizhongxintaizhuangtai，huichulaizhaociwaiderenlaichulizishendeyaoqiu。ziranzheigeshihoudisanzhejiudangrandichuxianzainideqingganzhong。zheigeshihoudangdisanzhechuxianzaidajiazhengzhongjian，yibanhuishiliangrenzhongjiandeqingganjianjiandideebiansuihoulijilaidaowanmeideqingkuang，naizhiyixiebijiaoyanzhongdedaozuizhonghuitiaoxuanliyi。

 lingwaizaiganqingzhong，yeyouhunyinshenghuozhongbingmeiyouduiyucuokexun，bingqiedoumeiyoudadaolinenggouqubianbie，shubuzhidangliangrenlaidaoyiqiyihouzaisuonanmianchuxianzheixiexiaofenqihewujie。dangfenqihewujiechuxianshi，yidingyaolijidequjiejuehegoutongjiaoliu，bubizishenyigerenzangxinli，lingyifangjishizaizhangwoniyebingbukeyisuoyoucaidaonixinlideniantouhetihui，yinciniyouyiwendeqingkuangxiajiuyidingyaoganjinmingquetichulai。

 jiazhongshichongmanaidediqu，meishenmedadaolinenggouqujiang，xuduo qingkuangxiabubifangbuxiaqingmian，bixuzishenwanghoumiantuiyibu，yexudajiazhongjiandeqingganmashanghuihuodeshenghuayuelaiyuebuyiyangle。

 yidanrangwujiehefenqiyuelaiyueyuelaiyueda，neimadaozuizhongjiumeibanfalijidewanjiu，jishiwanjiuhuijiadajiadeqingganyizhiyeyouyicengjiedi，yagenhuibudaocongqiannagemoyang。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？fuqijianmeishenmeshengfudechabie，jishihuoshengyongyouqingmian，keshilaidaozuizhongdeneiyikeshiqujiazhonghezishendelianren，neimajiubuzhiheyinxiaoshidale。