冷战开始的标志是什么？面对家庭冷暴力，教你4个方法解决

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一、区别好冷静期和家庭冷暴力

 lengjingqijiushishuoliangrendengdaizishendexintaixiaosan，yibiankeyilixingdejiejuekunnanerzuodetiqianzhunbei。youyuliangrenzaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiatongchanghuihenxingfen，zheigeshihoushenshangxianjisujiugangkaishidaixie，niyejiujinruleyigebeixintaitundiaodeqingkuang，erneigeshihoujiejuenantishihenbuhaode，yinciyougongzuojingyanderentongchanghuiyouyigelengjingqi。

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 1、yuyangoutongjiaoliufeichangshao：lingyifanghuiyouyizhuanglongzuoya，huanjuhuashuofeichangshaodehua，youyitaobiliangrenzhongjiandechupeng。tashijiatinglengbaolizuixianzhudeyeshizuizhongyaodefangshi。

2、bufashengguanxihuanjuhuashuofeichangshao：bufashengguanxi，jibianyouyeshifuyansaize。

 3、yuyandejingong：buyidingshimeihuacaisuanshijiatinglengbaoli，yixieyuyandejingongyeshi，pirushuotagangkaishixianqinia，shuonizheiyebushineiyebushi，batashuodeyiwushichu。

二、搞好充足的了解，给彼此一段独居的時间

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三、适度沟通交流，不必以冷攻冷

qianbiantidaorangairenduju，keshirenmenyebixushidudegoutongjiaoliu。

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四、小孩并不可以变成凑合的原因

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