婚后冷战：遭遇家庭暴力怎么办？最狠的冷暴力是什么

 lengbaolijirihou，womenliangdoutingbuzhule，keshizheicengzhiquebutaihaochuopo。yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？juzhongguofuliandeyixiangdiaochafenxi，you70%zhishangzaoshouguozhixiqinshuduiqikaizhande“xinglengbaoli”，zaiqizhongfufubicizhixingxinglengbaolidezhanbiyeyouyuanxianyinvxingzhudaobianweirujindenanrennvrengezhanyiban。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

一、一句说着玩的使他丧失冲动

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？congtanlianaidaowanhun，ayizhishilaogongdegongzhu。yaoshinaonaozui，tabianhuipidianpidiandipushanglaihongzishengaoxing。wulunsheiduidaodishisheidecuo，yaoshilaidaochuangbian，cunfangtalaolaoshishijiaoxie。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

shubuzhi，aruhedouburongyixiangqi，yijushuozhewandejuranzhaolaizhengzhengdeliangyuede“wuxingxingqi”。

zaiyicitongxuemenhuiyihou，kanjianhenduotongxuemenhuofuhuogui，abumianyouxiejimo。

 huijialexianliaoshi，tasuiyijiangdao：“xiaoqizhangfushengfujule。nidousanshihaojile，huanshigefukezhang，zaibuzhuanzhengdingji，wohaimeiqudongliyunipapale。”

abenxiangweicigulilaogongqinfen，kelaogongquemianseyibian，ehenhenrengxiayiju“bupapajishile”，shuaimenjiujinlewofang。

agengmeiyouxiangqideshi，zheicilengbaolijuranyidajiushishuoliangyue，bingqie，haoxianghaikanbujianzuishenchu。

 meiridoudanjiantalengzhezhanglian，suiyibakoufanjiuchongzhediannaoshanglaidao，lianzhengyanyebuweizijiyige。youshibenlaikandaotazaichongzhedianshijixiao，agangzuoyiwang，tabian“pa”diguandiaodianshiji，juqizhangbaokanhuifang。

 doushuonanshengyuwanglebuyidingshiaizheni，keshichongzhenimeiyuwang，shifoubiaodazishendefengcaizaoyiyiguobaocunqi？erzheicibianweierdehunyinshenghuo，hainengbuduanduozhangshijianni？

【权威专家评价】

 juzhongguofuliandeyixiangdiaochafenxi，you70%zhishangzaoshouguozhixiqinshuduiqikaizhande“xinglengbaoli”，zaiqizhongfufubicizhixingxinglengbaolidezhanbiyeyouyuanxianyinvxingzhudaobianweirujindenanrennvrengezhanyiban。

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？henduolaoporenweizishenbawolefuqishenghuodezhudaoquan，nenggoujiecijihuiweixiehuoshichufalaogong，baochizishendexinyuan，danjieguotongchangbururenyi。

 “jinsheng”gen“xingshenghuo”benlaishiliangmashi，na“jinsheng”laiweibiliyoulaogong，yeshibuliyunanshidezizunxin。nvrenzirenweinengnaxingshenghuolaigulilaogong，jieguojuqishitouzalezishendejiao。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

二、性生活也必须有成才的時间

yheajiehunhoudeyishizhuxingjinguanbiaocenghemu，queyinzangweiji。

 ashiyijiashangshiqiyedezhonggaoceng，gongzuozhongyansurenzhen，keshitangzaichuangshangdezhuyaobiaoxianquexianggegangxuepadexiaopengyou，maoshoumaojiaode。jingchangxiazhetengdabantian，yemeirangbicilingrenmanyi。

gangkaishishideyjinjinzhouleyixiameishao，suihouanweizijitiangaoluyuan，yiqiedouhuihaode。

 danzhangciyiwang，zaiyicixingshizhongyjinbuzhuzhangkou“zhidianmijin”。xiangbudao，aimianzideaqueyinernaole，zhongtubaishoubuganle。

cicidexiaochaqujilianggerendeyishizhuxingmaixialeheiying。

 ydangranhaipaduozhangkoule，erayizhixiangyaozishendezhuyaobiaoxianlaishuaxi“quru”，zheicimeiyougoutongjiaoliude“anzhan”dangransuanbushangxinyoulingxi。manmandi，lianggerendexingshenghuoyuelaiyueyulaiyukuzao、fawei。

 zaizhihou，ychangchangtuishuoshentibushufu，ertayechangchangjiabanjiadian，lianggerenduobixingshenghuodexinyoulingxiruchuyizhe。jinjinxing，zaoyibeiwuqixianxianzhile。

【权威专家评价】

xing，suishiyizhongbennengxingwei，keshiyaogaohao，yebixuyigemoheqidequanguocheng。

 yiner，zaiwangzigongzhuzouzaiyiqiyihou，yeyaoqinshenjingliyiduanxianghuzhijianzhangwo、tanxunherongrudequanguocheng，caikeyizuodaoxingdehemu。

zaizheigequanguochengzhong，fuqijianyaoxianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliu，fangfahefangshi yeshibixuliuyide。

bulunshinanshihuanshinvshi，douduilingyifangdedianpingyouqizaihu，tahuotadeqinfenjiushishuoyibiankaolvzishenairen。

 yinerzaifuqixingshenghuozhong，yaoliuyiweihulingyifangdexingzizunxin，zheibudanshikaolvqigerenpingjiadebixu，yeshiweihubaoyangfuqiguanxiyishizhuxingdeguanjianqiantitiaojian。

三、性冷暴力，不战才算是真获胜

 zhangxiaoxianyiqianshuoguo，dangyigenvrenjuecewanbilengbaoli，shiyouyutaduizheiyiduanqingganzaochenglejinpogan，gengdongdezhenxiqinggan。nanshengyeshizheiban。

xinglengbaolizhonghaipadeshimiantian，bicimobukaiqingmian，yinciyuejiangyuesi。

yibanlaishuo，nanshizhenduixingyuwangdecaozongzongbibushangnvshi。

 yincizhenduilaopoeryan，biebeitadeyankejihezhele。jiarulaogongjinjinyouyuduqicaizhixingxingchengfadehua，laopodeyingduifangshifeichangrongyideduo。ruguoniqueshicaiyongjijishi，rentabailiangangyehuaweiraozhirou。

zailengbaoliqinei，“zhanshi”deyuangushijishangzaoyiyibuguanjian，bubikunhuozaiqizhong，guanjiandeshijiejuedexintai。

 bubijiqiebiaoshudangjindewujie，danshiranglingyifangjiandaozishenjijizhudongzhenzhidexintaizhuangtai，lirujijizhudongjiawulaodong，songxiaolipin，baochitahuotayizhiyaoxiangdexinyuandeng。

yingduixinglengbaoli，sheixianchechu，sheixianjiaoxie，sheicaisuanshizhenshidedayingjia。

 dangyouyumocaershengjiweilengbaolishi，hebujijitinghuo，zuixianbaituotanpanjiangju，lirudagedianhua、faleduanxiaoxi，zheibujinwushizizunxin，fandaoshihuodaheaixiqinggandezhuyaobiaoxian。

hunyinshenghuoshiyaoxuehao“huanweisikao”，jixuehaojiejinsuonengweilingyifangguanxin，erbushibizheta“jiaoxie”。

gongpingyichengxiangdai，zhongshixianghudejianjieheshenghuoxiguan，caikeyiqingchuwuhui。neishihou，buzhancaisuanshihuosheng。

TIPS：性冷暴力反击战

 1．tagenwowanxinglengbaoli，woyeliaobotadeweijue，genjuweibuzhuotadexin。neijiriwokeyishaoleyidazhuomeiwei，quanshitazuichande。wojuede，dengtachuixiansanchi，zongsuanjinbuzhuzuozheguohou，wojiuzhidaozishenchenggongle。

 2．laoniangbuchuma，haizhendangzishenshiliuxiahuile。neijiri，wokeyichuanshangzuixinggandeneiyi，zaitaqianhouzuoyouhuanglaihuangqu，bingzhuangzuoyibuxiaoxinyudaotaderenti。zongsuanzheitiaodaselangrenbuzhule

 3．xinglengbaolihoubujiu，woyehouhuile，benxiangchufataquelianzishenyedajinqule。neiyitian，wokeyianzhuangleyibujingsongdianyingkan，ertajiuzaipangbian。woyixiangdanqie，tashilejiede，guozhen，bansuizhewodahoudajiao、huazhiluanzhan，tazongsuankaolehuilai。keshiwoni，ziranshichenjizuanrutahuaizhonglaidao

 4．lengbaolijirihou，womenliangdoutingbuzhule，keshizheicengzhiquebutaihaochuopo。yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？womenzailianaishiyouyigewenqitaxiguanxing，yincineiyitianwozhuangqiangzuoshidibaozhuruzishuo：“wodaoxiaoshufangqushui，wenbieyixia！”danglianggerenchanmianzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，bennengfanyingdechongdongzaojiubaituolewuqudemiantian，naxielengbaoli，tongtongzhuangguizouba