冷战是什么意思？婚姻中的冷暴力也是不容忽视的

 shenmeshijiating“rebaoli”he“jiatinglengbaoli”？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？“rebaoli”zhengtieryanjiushishuoyibaolizishiqinhaiweitediandebaolifangshi，jutibiaoxianwei：baoda、rentisunhaideng。eryuzhixiangduixingyingde“jiatinglengbaoli”，shiyizhongxindeqianzaixingbaolifangshi，yilengdan、qingshidengweiguanjiantediandejingshenshizhilingnvefangfa。yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？zuixianzhudetedianjiushishuobuwenbuwenlingyifang、meiyouyuyanheganqingdegoutongjiaoliuhuozhejiangyuyangoutongjiaoliujiangzhizuishaochengdu，zhongzhihuofuyanleshifuqishenghuo，lanyuzuoyiqiejiatinglaodong。yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

youdezhuyaobiaoxianweizhisangmahuai，zaiyuyanshangkaizhanguyijingong，youyidihui、cizhonglingyifangdexurongxinhexinxin。

 youdezhuyaobiaoxianweibuwenbuwen、ailibuli，“jiangniliangshai”，yibuguanzhulingyifangyujiating，yibudanfufufuyujiatingdezeren、yiwu，youxinfangzhifuqijiandedujuhechupeng，jingchangmomingqimiaodi“xialuobuming”。

woxiangdaoyingpian《wuwenxidong》zhongzhangsuzhenduilaogongxuzhangbodeyiduankonggao：

“bierenzhijiandaodalenimani，ketamenmeijiandaonishiruhedadewo！”

“nibushiyongshoudadewo，shiyongnidexintai！”

“niduirenherenxinkuangshenyidiyoushan，weiyouyijianshizhizhibuli。”

“beizihuaidiao，niningkeyongzishendewanduoheshui，doubuyuanwoyongde。

rujinwoxiangjiangnidewanshuaile，ninengwoyongdema？nikendingbuhui！”

“nirangwoganjuewoshizheishijiezuibujinrenyideren。”

zuizhong，zhangsuzhenjuerandetiaojingzisha。

 shijishang，bujindianyingzhongxiangdajiaxuxurushengzhanxianchujiatinglengbaolidekongbu，taxiangyibasharenyuwuxingdedao，cuicanzheyigelinghun。

zaixianshishenghuozhong，meinvmenzaihunyinshenghuoheqingganzhongzaodaojiatinglengbaolidelizhengyehenpingshi。

qzhei2nianhunyinshenghuo，batacongyigeyanjingshencaiyiyidemeishaonvbianchengleliefengfamadenvxing。

zaiqbeiyunqijian，tazhangfudeyanyinlaihejiujingyilaihuanshinanjie。

qgenzhangfushuo：“dangnihuanshineiyangxialai，neirenmenjiubuyaohaizile。”

 lengzhanshishenmeyisi？tazhangfuquekuangzaodeshuo：“jiuniyaoneimeduo，tarenjiaderuhemeishier，xiaohaishengchulairuhejiuruhe，guanchouyanhejiupishi。”yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？

qbiequdeshuo：“zongyaoyaokaolvdaoxiaohaideyoushengya。”

 neiyangdeyiwenyida，suanzuofeichanghaodede，juedaduoshudeqingkuangxia，tazhangfudouhaoxiangkanbudaoqdecunyou，rangtayigerenzishuozihua。

tazhangfugongzuozhiyujiushishuoshoujikanshu，wanyouxi，buguandashixiaoshi，douburongyiheqgoutongjiaoliu。

2gezaiyiqideren，xinquelideyuezouyueyuan。

haozaikeyianweiqdeshi，chushidexiaohaishishenxinjiankangdexiaobaobao。

keshi，xiaohaidechushengqueyoubianchenglingyigedaohuoxian。

xiaohaiyaochinai，qrangzhangfubanggemang，tazhangfuzuozhediannaoqianmiankuiranbudong。

xiaohaiquanbudeshier，zhangfuquanshiyifubuwenbuwendeyangzi，fangfozheiyixiaohaigentayidianguanlianyemeiyou。

qmaiyuanzhangfuduijiazhongdeshierbufangzaixinshang，tazhangfulengbingbingdiulaiyiju：“nikeyineimexiang，yinweiwomeifa。”

youkaishilejiaozhangshijianfanweidejianmo。

 qshuo：“jiandaolinjudexiaofuqigesanchawudezhengchao，wohaijiqidexianmujidu，zhishaobierenyeyouhuashuo，chaowanhou，jiejuewentile，rengranhuanhuanxixideyiqiguangjiegouwumaishuiguo，waichuliuda。”

ertamentongyigewuyan，quegelequanbuzhongguotaipingyang。

 woguohunyinzixunyanjiusuodeshujuxinxixianshixinxi：“quanbunantihunyinshenghuozhong，wuhuahunyinshenghuozhanyoulvgaoda78%，juedabufenfufumeirijianghuadeshijiannaizhibushangshifenzhong。”

zhuzaitongyiwuyanxia，quebuyuankanxianghuyiyan。

zuozhetongyigefanzhuoqian，queyibianbabaimifanyibianshuashouji。

tangzaitongyizhangchuangbian，quezaiweixinlihebuyiyangderenshuozhewananhaomeng。

 yishuzuopindebaisemeigui，jiehunhoubianweilaogongzuizhongkuzaodefunv，zhengrizaiwuzilikongdunzhe，kailewuxiantongxinbuguoshixiangtingdaorendexiangsheng。

jiatinglengbaolideshanghaishijidade。

 jiatinglengbaolishouhairen：jingshenshizhizaodaosunhai，rengezunyanzaoshouwuru，zhangqixingzaitongchudegudizhongnanao，neiliyishibidingdetiaoxuan。

danyouxierenyouyuzhangqixingdejiatinglengbaoli，cushitamen，tongku、tongkuzheng、haipazaochengyurenxiangchuzuai，

gengyouxierenhuisangshicunhuodedanliang，rutong《wuwenxidong》dezhangsuzhen。

 ershengzhangfayuzaijiatinglengbaolizhongdexiaohai，tamenburongyiyoujijizhudongtaiyangdeyimian，tamendaduoshubuyuanyibaomingcanjiatuantihuodong，yupenyougoutongjiaoliushiyehuichuxiannanti，tarushehuiyebeidaoerchi，kunnanzhongzhong，youdenaizhihuitaruweifafanzuidelumian。

 jiatinglengbaolizhuanhuachengzhongdexiaohaiyehuibajiatingguanxide“jiatinglengbaoli”daidaozishendechengnianrenrichangshenghuozhongqu，chanshengyigeebiandexunhuanxitong。

 jiatinglengbaolishishouhaizhejingshenshizhizaodaosunhai、rengezunyanzaodaowuru，zhangqixingchuyutongchudenanaozhong，daozhishouhaizhexintaibuwen、tongku、tongkuzheng、wunai、haipadeng，bingzaochengtuisuo、guliwuyuan、yurenxiangchuzuai，yishizhuxinggongzuozhongzaoshouweihai，youdenaizhisangshicunhuodedanliang，maixiangsilu，wenshoutijidezhangsuzhenjiushimingli。

家中“家庭冷暴力”一般女士受害人广泛高过男士。

renmenbuyinggaihulvejiazhongzhongdelingyiguanjianrenwujiaose，jiushishuojiazhongzhongdeernv，youqishiweichengnianzinv。

 jiarujiazhongzhong“jiatinglengbaoli”gaofa，jingshenshizhishangdeyayiganzaijiaxintaizhuangtaishangdewaiqu，duiernvfazhanqushichanshengdefumianyingxiangshixianeryijiande。

zaijializaoshoujiatinglengbaolisunhaidexiaohai，kongjuxintaihuizhangqixingjinjinweiraozhetamen，xurongxinhexinxindouzaoshoulesunhai。

如何杀死家庭冷暴力呢？

 shasijiatinglengbaoli，bubidengzhetarengenggai，yaocongbenshengangkaishigenggai，zhinengbenshenyuelaiyuegengyoudongneng，caijianghuicongjiatinglengbaolideguanlianzhongbaituochuqu。

shasijiatinglengbaoli，neirenmencongjintiankaishihaiyaopaokaishouji，bazijijiefangchulai，daizhuxiaodeshuangyanqukanjianshenbianderen。

 shasijiatinglengbaoli，yaoduoduodexuexipeixunqingxukongzhilaiguanliziji，suzaozishenderenjijiaowangfangfa，bubiyaoqinrengoutongjiaoliu，shanyufaxianwenti，jiejuekunnan。

lengzhanshishenmeyisi？zheili，qidaimeiyigejiazhongdounenggoushifangchuyouhuodeqingxiang。