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nishige“woliheng”ma？

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心态状态赔偿的必须

qianquerengetezhizhongshi(huoshirengezhangai)。

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 ★“woliheng”denansheng，meinaozi！zuiruanruowunengdenansheng，shizongshi“woliheng”denansheng，duiwaikaifangrenqueshifeichangfengchengquyuehetaohaodemoyang，lingrenkanguodouganjueexinxiangtu。shijishangneiyangdenansheng，yishizhuxingliyouxuduoneiyangdecunyou。neileizongshi“woliheng”denansheng，henrongyirerentaoyanqide！

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 youyizhongrenqianrenhougeyitaodenansheng“woliheng”。zheileinanshengzuishanyugaobiaolibuyideyitao，renqianyifujiaofa，renhouyifuyangzi。tamenchuwaiyizhiyifuhenjiqingyoushandemoyang，duisheidouhenrouhe，yequeshishizaijileirenmaiguanxi。keshiyixieqingkuangxiashouleqishenmede，mashanghuihuijialezhaoqinrendebubian。dianxingxingde“woliheng”，lingrenkanguonanyishihuai。

 youyizhonggongzuonenglibuzuyuwangtingdadenansheng“woliheng”!zheileinanshengyeshigegongzuonenglibuzu，yuwangdaotingdade，yaoxianggengqiangdefazhanqushi，yincichuwaiyixieqingkuangxiashouweiquleyezhiyouqiangren，buyaoxiangrenaobieren，wanyidaodayipakejiubujinrenyile。keshilaidaojiazhongduiqinren，quezishizhizhongshiyifushifenlengdexintai，naizhilianxingziyeshishuofajiufa，bingqiefadacaitefa！

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“窝里横”男生的典型性案例

1、“窝里横”案例一

 waichujiushishuoyitiaochong，huijialebianweiyitiaolong！womenjiazhangfujiuzheiyang。pingchangwaichu，jiansheiquanshiliuxupaimade，feichangshenshi，youqishijiandaobiedenvshi，buguankanqilainaxie，douyongzheyidexintai，wenrunruyu，henrerenxiai。kezaijialijiubuyiyang，xingziyaoduoshaoyouduoda，zaijialiwuyuanwugujiukaohoushuchu，dahandajiaode，wuyuanwugupokoudama。jihaizijiangtideqingkuangxia，xiaohaigaobudong，tajiumazanghua，youshiwoyema，dianxingxingde“woliheng”，zhenkeyirenqifeng！

2、“窝里横”案例二

 wolaogongyeshi“woliheng”，tashijiansheidoukanbushunyan，danpengdaoqiangdadianderenjiurensong。tazheilei“woliheng”nanrenxihuantiaozhewoguanie，bierenbulicaita，tajiujuedezishenqiangda，daonadoudiaozhatiande，yizhichangkuangbohu，meishierjiuchangchangjiaohanzhehetarendajiadouou。biaocengxianggeelangyiyangcizheya，shijishangjiushishuogenuofu，zhenshipengdaoshizaoyipaomeiyingle，mashanghuizaijialichongwonaopiqi，wobuhuilicainilejiugengweiweifenglinlinqiangda，woruguozhenhetafashengzhengzhi，tayejiulaolaoshishide。

3、“窝里横”案例三

 wolaogongchuwaifeichangruanruo，shouleqiyadoubuhaikouhaiji，bierendoushuowolaogongmeinaozi，ketazaijialidebenlingkehenda，chuwaishoulebiequ，huijialejiudawoheerzi，zheileinanshengdalaopo，haidaxiaohai，woxiangtayoushenmezuoyong？wodaizhuxiaohaizouniangjia，tahaizhuangzheshashimeichansheng，huijialezaicida，wotmqueshishougoulezheilei“woliheng”denansheng！

 jianjueliyi，yu“woliheng”denanshengjiaowang，shizhongburongyihuodenaxiebudeshanzhong，quandahuoerpengdao“woliheng”denanshengjiujianjuelihunba！

 zhishang，renmenjiandao“woliheng”denanshengzheibandebukanrumu，dan“woliheng”denanrenshizenyangchanshengdeni？niyidingyouxingquaihaolejie。xiabianrenmenyiqilaikan。

“窝里横”男人的心态剖析

nansheng‘“woliheng”’rengetezhidechansheng，dabufenshiheyounianshiqideqinshenjingli、babamamadexiuyangfangfaxiangguan。

 jianyixushu，“woliheng”rengetezhidechansheng，shiyouyuyounianshiqi，dangzishendebixuneishihouwufadedaokaolv，tamenbiangangkaishiyikujiaowanshuahuodezishendebixu，xuduofumuzaihaizikunaoshibujiyuqiadangdewenhuajiaoyu，yimeidehongwahuoyimeiderumaouda，zheizhongyouwudejiazhongxiuyangfangfa，rangxiaohaimanmanchanshengle“woliheng”derengetezhi。

 “woliheng”denansheng，bumingbaiyongqiadangdeanquantongdaoheyouxiaogoutonghequyujiazhonggongzuorenyuanjiaowang，congeryongnaopiqihebaoliquxuanxiezishendexintai。

 zheiyangderenshijishangzuibeiai，youyu“woliheng”nanrenbazuibukanrumudeyimianzhanxianjizuiqinjinderen，yincitamenzhongjiuhuizoutouwulu，sangshizuixihuantaderen，yigerenguduyisheng。

yingdui“woliheng”renmenzuixianyaofansheng，suihouzuochujiejue！yixia。

“窝里横”男生解决对策

1、确认自身是不是为“窝里横”男生

 zhengshiziji，renkenanti，tashidiyibu，yeshizuizhongyaodeyibu。daishangrengemianjushirenmenrongrushehuifazhandeyizhongzhuanyejineng。zheilei“woliheng”gerenxingweijinguanrangzishenhuodeshifangchulai，danhuijishenpangdejiarenchanshengjidadekunraoyusunhai。yaoxiangjiangdi“woliheng”，zuixianyaoyishidaozishenyou“woliheng”gerenxingwei，binglejiedao“woliheng”zuilijideyuangushixinlizishenbuzuqiangjingjiqiquefaanquangan。

 dangninengmingquezishenwei“woliheng”denansheng，qingsuzaoyouhuanyishi，youyuniyizhijiangzuichouedeyimianxuanxiejizuiqinjinderen，feichangrongyizaocheng dajiadeguanlianzhuanbianjiroujiangying，xuduoqingkuangxiaganqingdeliefengshiwufaquanyude，yidingyaozhenxiyongyounidejiaren。

 suzaoyouhuanyishi。ruguonibazuichouedeyimianchengxianjishenaideren，ruguonibazuibujinrenyideqingxuxuanxiezaishenaiderendeshenshang，ruguonibalingyifangdeaihekuanrongzuoweisiyihuihuodezichan，quebuzhidao，aijiuxiangxushuicaolideshui，dangtachixuxiangliushi，quemeiyoushuiziyuanyinru，neimaaidebuxiugangshuicaoxunsubianhuikuifa。neigeshihou，nikeyiyingduide，kenengshilianrendejuejuebuhuitouhejiarendedujue。jiusuandajiadeguanlianyiranbaochizhe，danyebuguoshibaikongqianchuang，guanliandeliefenghuiyuelaiyueda，zuihouwufaquanyu。neiyangdeguanlian，citenglelingyifang，yebuhuirangniyiqiezirun。

 changshiqudiaozhengzishenjiatingfenweirendeqingxu，youxiaodebiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu，zheibudanshiduinideqinrenhao，yeshijinizishenderenshengdaoluchengdan。xuehaoyouxiaobiaoshuheshutongxintai，quanyunidebenzhiwaishang，genggaibuzhengquedeluojisiweihexingweimoshi，bixushitiyixunzhaojishuzhuanyexinlizixunshidexiezhu。

 yaoyongyuzaijialiwaijiangdiyixiezishenyayigan，xuehaoyongshidudefangfaqubiaoshuyuweihubaoyangzishendetihuiyuyaoqiu。zuizhong，yujiashijianchuangjian“jiexianguannian”，jiwulunwomenyuqinrenzhongjianduomedeqinmiwujian，keshirenmenhuanshixianghudandudegeren，bukeyiguidinglingyifanglaikuanrongzishenquanbuxintai。

2、当你的爱人、儿女、爸爸妈妈是“窝里横”

 rutongqianbiyouzhengfanmian，yige“woliheng”wangwangnengcunyoubingbaochi，zaiguanlianzhongbidinglingwaicunyouyige“jieshouzhe”。dangnijiushizheigejieshouzhe，neimanizuixianbixujinxingzishidebianhua——congpugongjienadaojijihuijue。zhinengneiyang，caikeyizhongduanciqianyichanshengdebingtaiguanxifangshi。jijihuijuetamende“woliheng”gerenxingwei，youpugongbianchengjiji，genggaiyu“woliheng”zhongjiandebingtaiguanxi。

 helingyifangpieqingjiexian，buzuoguanlianzhonghaowuyuanze、meiyoudixiandedelaoshiren。yu“woliheng”zheduanjuelaiwang，bubiguoduorennaizheileixintainiuqugerenxingwei，tawangwangnengduini“woliheng”，shiyouyuhuodelenidemorenhefangren，jianjueduankaierzheguanlian，shibaohuzijideguanjianduice。

 lengbaolihunyinhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？jutishuolai，jiushishuobuguoduonuli、buguoduofangqi、buguoduorenshou、buguoduorenrang、buguoduokuanrong。zhidanfuniderenwujiaosefanchouneiyaodanfudeyibufen，buyuejie，lingwaiguoduanbuyunxulingyifangyuejie，ranglingyifangquelilejienizijidedaodedixianzainaer、weibeidaodedixiandebuliangyingxiangshisha。