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 jiabaodedingyishishenme？shenmeshijiatingbaoli？jieding：jiabaotongchengjiatingbaoli，jiushizhichanshengzaijiatingzhuyaochengyuanzhongjiande，yiouda、kunfu、jujin、pohaihuoshiqitafangshiduijiatingzhuyaochengyuancongrenti、jingshenshizhi、xingdengcengmiankaizhansunhaihecanhaidegerenxingwei。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 jiabaolijigongxiaoyushouhairenrenti，shishouhairenrentishanghuojingshenshizhishangyoutongkugan，weihaiqishenxinjiankangherengezunyan。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？jiabaochanshengyuyouxueyuanguanxi、hunyinshenghuo、shouliuguanlianyishizhuxingzaiyiqidejiatingzhuyaochengyuanjian，rulaogongduilaopo、babamamaduiernv、chengnianrenernvduibabamamadeng，nvxingheshaonianertongshijiabaodeguanjianshouhairen，yixiezhonglaonian、nanshiheshangcanrenyehuibianchengjiabaodeshouhairen。jiabaohuidaozhishenwang、shoushang、qingweishang、rentitongtenghuojingshentongku。jiabaodedingyishishenme？shenmeshijiatingbaoli？，jiu“liyi”，suihoujiaporenwang，naizhixingtongmolu。

 neimazinvdewenhuajiaoyu?jiazhongdewanshan?jiqixiayirenlaopohuolaogongshibushigengqiang?yeyouduoshaoniannenggou neimefangzong?yeyouqinziguanxi，yiwu，zerenzheixiefangdaoshenmeweizhi……nenggou neimeshuo，tashiyizhonghenzisizilidegerenxingwei，jibukaolvdaobuliangyingxiang，zhikaolvdaobenrentihui。

 yinci，zheili，woquangaozheixiewuyuanwugujiuyi“liyi”laijiejue“jiatingbaoli”dechuangzuozhemen，shenyanzaishenyan（youyucuihuidejianghuibuzhishizishendexingfukuaile，yeyoudaliangderendexingfukuaile）。

 shijishang，rongheyiqianwosuomingquetichudenantijiqicengjingwosuojingliguohejianguode“jiatingbaoli”dezaoshou，dagaishangwomenkeyizuochuyidingdefenbianjimingquetichuyixiexiangduixinghelideduice。

zuixian，renmenyingdangqueliyidian：“jiatingbaoli”shiyizhongruanruowunengdefanying。

jianyilejiejiushishuo，burongyi、bumingbai、huobunengyonggengqiangdefangshiqujiejuekunnan，yinciruanruowuneng。

cizhi，womenyaoqingxizenmehuizaoshou“jiatingbaoli”（shimomingqimiaohuanshiyouyuangude，shijiyuanyinshishenme）?

qici，zaoshoule“jiatingbaoli”，gaizenmeban（shuipingbuyiyang，zenmechuli）？

yeyou，zenmehuiyou“jiatingbaoli”degerenxingwei（gerenxingweishenhoudeqianzaixingyaosu）?

ciwai，ruhefangzhizaoshou“jiatingbaoli”?

zuizhong，“jiatingbaoli”debuliangyingxiang（sunhaiheweihai）?

 shijishang，zheizhongnantizongdelaishuojiushishuojinjinweirao“shibaozhe”he“shouhairen”zhongjiankaizhande（“jiatingbaoli”guanjianyaosuderenweishiwu）。

ji“shibaozhe”ruhexiangde（yongyi）?“shouhairen”yougairuheyufang（duice）?（youdianerhaoxiangboyi）

youguan“shibaozhe”，qishiwoyizhibutailejie，lingyifangdaodixiangruhe?

woyecengtichuzhiyibabashifoufanganwo?shifouxiangkansiwo?huanshixiangjiangwozhishang?

 huidashi，tashuotashi“lannifubushangqiang”，shi“wenhuajiaoyuwo”，youyu“budongshi、butinghua，butinghua，paniangchugengdadebuzhengque”。

 yinci，congzheiernenggou kandechu“jiatingbaoli”bingbushidanchunxingdeyibianxuanxietabenrendexintai。zhishitabumingbaigenggaochaodejiaoyufangshiwenhuajiaoyufangshideyuangu。

 duiyubabamamazhongjian，wocengjingqiaoqiaodewenguobaba，tadehuidashi，henqi，dangengyaoxianghaohaodidegoutongjiaoliu，yiqijiejuekunnan，lingyifangyoucuoqidailingyifangbubisibuchengren，zhishichengrencuowubinggai。

ziran，zheili，woyishidaozheikenengshiyigeziweiquannanti，jijianghuaquan，zhilingquan。

 congzheierhaikeyikandechu，tatashiwunaizhiju，zhaobuzhegengqiangdefangfaqubiaoshuzishendejianjie，qushuodonglingyifang，suihoujiushishuofuqiganqingzhongjiangoutongjiaoliucunzaidewenti。

wozaironghehulianwangshangdeyixienanti，suanchuneiyangdeyiju：

shijiu，congeryinqi“jiatingbaoli”。

yalida，jiangqinrenshizuo“xuanxiemubiao”。

haiyou，wochangshixunzhaobabamamaweishenmebulihunyuanyin，jichengshou“jiatingbaoli”，weihe？

妈妈的回答是：

 pahaizinianjidalebuyanglaofuwu，daoxindemubiaoneili，lingyifangxiaohaibubazijidangmama（houmazhenshishenfenwufadedaorenkeheyangyu）。

lingyifangmian，jingjifazhanshangzhichengdianbuleyigerenshenghuo。

qici，nianjibianda，xuduoshierzuobulai，meifazhengqian，yebukeyiguomeihaodeshenghuo，youqishibingkudeqingkuangxia。

yeyou，liquqinren，heqinrenpolie，hennanguo，youqishihexiaohaizhongjiandehunyinguanxi。

zheili，wojianyishuliyixia，huidajiushishuo：

 likaijia，jianghuilianjichushicunhuodoushigewenti；jishikeyicunhuo，yeyishizhuxingbutaihao，suichubufangbian；weihaizhimingdu；jiarenzhongjiandeguanlianchuxianjiedi，naizhiheqinrenguanlianliekai；jingjifazhanshang，gongzuofangmian，zhongduobubian，naizhiyiqueshizhiyehexinnengli。

neiyangtingzhe，shijishangbuhuishoudao“jiatingbaoli”，zuoweinvshizaoyishifeichangcanle。

yinci，zheixieshuozaoshou“jiatingbaoli”jiu“liyi”，dayueshihainianqingdeyuanyin。

 erzuoweibaba（shibaozhe），shijishangtadoubuqidaiqinrenguanxiehua，suihougezhonggeyangsunhai，bingqiequanshiqinren，shouxinshoubeiquanshirouya！

danshibuneiyang，tajiugengbuqingchuruhele？

 qici，youyudahuoerquanshineiyangmoheqineiyanghuilaide，fuqinmamadebabamuqinshineiyang，zuolinyoulideyedouneiyang，quanbucunzhuangdouneiyang，yinci，jishizhidaobudui，keyemeiyougengqiangdefangfa，huanjuhuashuoburongyiqitafangfa。

yinci，xuduoqingkuangxia，“jiatingbaoli”kenengshiwunaizhiju，erbushisheiqueshixiai“jiatingbaoli”zishen。

zonghexing“wo”deqinshenjingli，wojianyishulichuhaoduogejiaoweipubiandeyaosu。

diyi、zhaobuzhegengqiangdebiaodaxingshi。

dier、guannianbushangzishendegerenxingweisuodaozhidebuliangyingxiangjiyanzhonghouguo。

第三、环境要素。

disi、shouxuelixianding，jifengsurenqingdeweihai。

第五、醺酒。

diliu、yalitaida，gongzuonenglixiao，guxuanxiezaigengnuoruodenvshixiaohaideshenshang。

diqi、xixiuluoshenyingxiangli，juedeshouqinhaihetiaozhanguzuochudikang。

diba、chufafangshideyizhong。

ronghezhishangyaosu，shulichuyouguandetiyi：

 diyi、conglishijiaoxundeshijiaoshuo，“luowuhaiyaoaizou”，tongyang，wangwang“beiouda”shiyouyubenshenzhengtishili“shibaozhe”ruo。

gu，tishengbenshenzhengtishili，duanlian，jiqixuehaoshidudefangshengongjufangfa。

dier、baituobuhexieguanlian，bupinghengguanlian，chuangjianyouliangguanlian。

 zheileiguanliandeshenhou，renweizhejianghuaquan，hezhilingquan，jiuzishenlaijiangzaoyihuihuaile“hunyinshenghuo”deguanlianheweifanle“suiyi”debiaozhun。zaizheiliyidianshang，guanjianfanyingzaizhengzhishang。

 gu，tiyicaifuziyou，juebunengfangqizishendegangwei，chediyikaomouyifang。qianwanbiesuibianbazhudongquanjiaodaotaren，wulunlingyifangdaodishishei。

disan、goutongjiaoliu、goutongjiaoliu，shutongxintai。

 xuduonantidezhongyao，qujueyugoutongjiaoliushangshibushiqiadang，goutongjiaoliujutifangfa，jiqixintaideshutongheshidudeguanaizheixie。

gu，xuexipeixunruhegengyouxiaogoutong，gengheshixianghudegoutongjiaoliufangfa，ciwaiduoyixieai、jili、xixinhekuanrongzheixie。

disi、gengqiangdexuanxiefangshi。

zaixuanxiecengmian，nenggou jiangbubiyaodeqiliyongyuduanlian，huozuoqitahenganxingqudeshier，huoqingjinghuoshouhou。

gu，nengkezhiziji，bingxunzhaoheshixianghudegengqiangdegenganquanxingdejutifangfa。lirumanpao、huhan、gechang，huoqingtu。

diwu、baochiqingxingdelejiedao“jiatingbaoli”deyanzhonghouguo，jikaolvdaobuliangyingxiang。

 zheiyidianzhiguanzhongyao，yangzhangbiduannenggou shuochengrendetianxing，henbixuranglingyifanglejiedao“quanyi”decunyouhejianghuihuihuaide“juyouquanyi”，jiqiyanzhonghouguo，jijianghuizhishang，huizhibuqudexintaichuangshang，naizhishenwang。

gu，pujihuahuoxuexipeixunyouguanfalvfagui，jiqikegumingxinziwofansijianghuidaozhidehuihuaihepohuaixing。

第六、给予帮助。

 shierchanshengshi，bubiduziyirenchengdan，qingtu，huoxuanyonghelifangshibaohuziji，jingbao，huoxunzhaobiedecishanjigou，qinren，penyoudengxiezhu。

 gu，xuehaocaiqucuoshifangshiweihubenshenanquanxinghequanyi，kekenqiuyouguanjigougongzuorenyuan，huocishanjigou，penyou、qinrenbangzhu。

diqi、dujuefengxianziranhuanjing。

 queshimeifa，“liyi”yeshiyizhonghelifangshi，youqishilingyifangsangshilizhidezhuangkuangxia。zheierdeziranhuanjing，jizhidadewenhuadetedian，wenhuayishuyishi，yezhijiatingfenwei，hewenmingxingweishuipingsuogoujianchuqudeqianjiaziranhuanjing。

 gu，dujueshixiade“weixie”，zheierdeziranhuanjingjizhiqinziguanxijiatingfenwei，yezhiluowudachengshi，huoluowuyishisuoshudiqu。zheiernenggou tiaoxuantiejinweishengchengshi，huodingjuzaiwenmingxingweiquntizhong。

diba、conghaizizhuaqi，jienagaodengzhiyejiaoyu。

 bukeyikeguanxinglejiedao“buwenmingxianxiang”he“weifagerenxingwei”，tingdashuipingshangjiwenhuashuizhun，xueli，jiqisuozaidi，gangweichangyouyidingdeguanlian。neima，conghaizizhuaqi，youxiaodaoda，quweihaiheganqidaliangderen，xianghuyingzaowenmingxingweipinpaixingxiangweishengchengshi。

gu，xuexipeixunxinzhuanyezhishi，bawohelifangshihekexingxingfenxifangshi，zixiaosuzaowenmingxingwei，suzaoqiadangde“sanguan”。

dijiu、yanjinshijiu，huobiedejianghuizaocheng“jiatingbaoli”debuliangxiguan。ziran，zheiyidianyinzhuangkuangerding。

dishi、xianghuyingzaoyouliangdejiatinghuanjing。

 jiatingfenweiwulunshiduixiaohaihuanshiduihunyinguanxidouqizhezhongtedagongxiao，zaizheiliyidianshangdanchunxingdekaobenrenshimeibanfabaochide。

yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？gu，xianghugongtongfendou，xianghuyouhaoheai。