男人选择冷暴力时聪明女人如何反击？被家暴了应该怎么办？

 jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？lengbaolitichufenshouzaiquanbudeqingganwentizhizhong，jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？guishuyuzuifanzadeyige，yinweitarangliangrenhenxinyoulingxi，xinyoulingxidaobicizhijiandoubuyuanqugoutongjiaoliu，beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？gengbutanchengrencuowule。

 yinci lengbaolitichufenshouyeshizhuduoqingganxiongshouzhizhonggengweinanchulide，lingwaiyeshigengweiyihande。nanchulihenduorendounenglejie，keshiyihanzheiliangzihenyoukenenghuiranghenduorenmobuzhedanao。

 weishenmeshuoyihanni?youyuzaifeichangdashuipingshangzheileitichufenshouquanshibeicuopande，huanjuhuashuoshiyouyuwujiede，tamentongchangbingbushiqueshiruguobuaileertichufenshou，fanguolaizhishiyouyubicizhijiandehuxiangtuoxieercuoguole。

yinci dangyingduilengbaolifenshoushi，dajiajiujinggairuhepojie?

最先：要了解怎么会发生冷暴力

 yiqieshidouburongyimomingqimiao，baohanqinggan，jiulirulingyifangqueshifashenglelengbaolishi，bubixianquzhizehuoshifoudinglingyifanghuoshizheiyiduanqinggan。

 beijiabaoleyinggaizenmeban？youyuyidanniyongyouzhuguanyiduandegerenxingwei，neimayishihexintaiyejiubansuizhegerenxingweierpianyi，yincizhujianduicaiyilingyifangshifouqueshiruguobuaile，lingyifangshifouyouyilengmode。

eryidanzaochengzheileiniantou，neidaduoshujiuburongyizaizishendeshenshangsikao，neineiyangbianhuizaizhizededaoshangyuezouyuepian。

yineryingduilengbaolishi，jiarunihenyouzhenchengdeyaoxiangchuli，yidingyaomingbaisikao，congzishenhuoshiyitongguanlianzhongxunzhaoyuangu。

次之：向内分析，寻找实质缘故

 jiabaonanrendexinggetedianshishenme？jiaruniyizhizaidiyibuzhizhongfajueshizishendeyuangu，neimaxiamianjiuxuyaoshijinantishijifenxile。

 lirushiyouyunilengdanlelingyifang，lingyifangcaihuilengdanni。youliruyouyuniganleyixiebaoqianlingyifangdeshi，taouqicaihuilengdanni。

xiangzheizhongzhuangkuang，niyejiunenggoubazaiqizhongdefenqishijijinxingle。

kanyixiazishendaodishizaishenmesuoshishanghuoshishifoujileilexuduo suoshi，lingyifangrenbuzhule，yilengbaolidefangfabaofale。

最终：迅速行動，防止积累难题

qingganyoushirutongdebingyiyang，shijiantuodeyuezhangbingkuangyuezhong，youqishizheileilengbaolibingzhengde，youqizheiban。

 yinci zheileizhuangkuangxiaqianwanbiezaiquhelingyifangtuole，xianqudiaojie、biaotaifayan，baguanlianxianhuanjieyixia，biehaipadiuliannaxiede。

jiaruniqueshiyouyuqingmianerdanxindiuliandehua，neizhiyoubiaomingnibingmeiyouxiangxiangzhizhongdeaita。

 ruguonihuanjiewanguanlianyihou，jiukeyizaochenggoutongjiaoliule，eryidangoutongjiaoliuqilai，neimalejieyebianhuijingenercheng，ernantiyejiunengxunsudejiejuele。

 jiabaolihunxuyaoshenmezhengju？shijishanglengbaolibingbushishenmebukeyichulidenanti，tazhibuguofashengnantishibeilianglehenzhangqizhihoudejieguo。yinci alengbukongbu，padeshiyizhileng。