怎么对付有家暴的男人？总是在感情里遭遇冷暴力

 lengbaolishijishanglimeiyigerendouhenjin，jiabaolihun，dajiazaiqingganshangdouhenyoukenengmeishenmefajuedibianchenglengbaolideshouhairenhuoshishifangzhe。fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？jinqixiangguanlengbaolidewenzhangneirong，daduoshubalengbaolishuodeshifenbijiaoyanzhong，lirulengbaolishadiaoganqing，lengbaolihuicuihuiyigeren，lengbaolideganqingyouyoudu，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？kanshangqufangfozaoshoulelengbaolijiuxiangdangyuganqinggongbulesizui。

 zaiaipinshenglaikan，haizhenmeineimabijiaoyanzhong，shijishanglengbaolihelengbaolihuanshiyouchabiede，womenyaozuoganqingzhongdebaochiqingxingzhe，zuixianbubiyipiangaiquan，xianbianbiechunizijizaoshoudeshinayizhonglengbaoli，suihoudajiazaishuoduizhengzhiliao。

yinci jinriwoyegeziyijubuyiyangdezhuangkuanglaijidahuoerfenxiyixialengbaolidejileileixingjiqiqingxudiaojie。

第一种状况：不愿解决困难，仅仅表述心态，表层冷暴力，其实精神实质凌虐。

 neiyangdelengbaolizhuyaobiaoxianshijishanghenxianzhu，jugehendianxingxingdeshiqing，womenkeyicankaozhenrenxiujiemulizhaoliyingheneishihoudenanpengyouliuhaozhongjiandehudongjiaoliu：

 liangrenzhiyouyuyigegongzuozhongdejianyibuhe，zaochenglemaodun。jieguozhaoliyingyeshirenrang，youjijiquxuehuifangxiazishihongnanpengyou，jieerliansandehong，lingyifangjinjinlengdandehuifuge‘meiyou’。

zuizhongbeibiwunaidezhaoliyingbuguanbuguzaizuozongyijiemu，benkuitongkuleqilai，nanyouyiranshierbujian。

zuixiandajiapouxiyixia，lianggerenchanshengfenqidegenyuanshishenmeni?jinjinyijianwuguantongyangdejianyibale。

meiyoushifeiduicuo，liuhaojiuzheibandeliburaoren，cizhizaizhaoliyingjieerliansandetaojinhuyihou，yiranbuduanlengbaoli。

zheixianzhubianshibuyuanjiejuekunnan，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？nanshengjinjindanfangdeyonglengbaoliqucaozonglingyifang。

 womenyaolejie，lengbaoliwangwangyoupohuaili，zhongyaojiuqujueyunizaiyilingyifang。fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？tangruoniduitameiyouneimashendeqinggan，buhuizaiguanzhutadetihui，shijishanglengbaoliduinishimeiyoupohuailide。

 erdajiaqiahaoshibeilingyifangyunyonglezheiyifenqinggan，yinci zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxia，yingduilingyifangdelengbaoli，zuizhongyaodeshishuomingdajiadexintai，lirugaozhilingyifangshenmejiaonidedaodedixian：

 “zhongyumingbaiweihezheiyijiansuoshi，nixuyaoshengzheimedadeqi，ruguonijuedezheijianshiqingniyaofahuo，neiwojinishijian，dajiazheijitianxianbuyaoshuohuale，dengzhenixianghaolazaizhaowoliao。”

或是：

 “nizhengyekandianshijuzheishiwobufandui，danshiwomingtianyeyaozaoshanghuibaogongzuo。tangruonijintianyeyaoyizhikandianshiju，niyejiudaolinjuwuzishuijuejue。”

 dajiawuxuqufourenlingyifangdezuofa，jinjinkeguanxingdizhanxianzheijianshiqingduizishendeweihaijiqizishendexintai，zuihoujuedingquanjiaodaolingyifang，neiyangcaihuidedao zhudaoquan。

第二种状况，冷暴力是由于不清楚该怎么做。

 xiangshiwogexueshengmanman，tashiyigezhongxuejiaodaozhuren，2020nian27suile，yiqianjiaowangdehaoduogenanyouyebuchenggong，manmanyizhiganjuenanyoubugouaizishen，ernanyouquedouganjuemanmanguidingtaigao，yinciyizhishenxianyiyangdeguaiquanertanlianaibuchenggong。

manmanjinqiciciyeshiyouyunanyouyizhimilianwanyouxiergennanpengyoudachaoyijia。

 jiabaolihun，yuanbenyebushinaxiedashier，nanyouyouyuyouganjuemanmanguidinghengao，zishenruhezuodouburongyirangmanmanlingrenmanyi，yinci genbenyebuzuohuifule，yinci nanpengyoudefanyingrangtayouqifahuo。