怎么对付有家暴的男人？面对冷暴力这样反击

 xuduorendoushizailianaizhongjingliguolingyifangdelengbaoli，jiabaolihun，jitamenfayidaduanxinxi，taquehenduozhongtoubuhui，fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？zongsuanjiedaohuiying，quezhiyouyige“ng。”zaijialitazhuanxinzhizhiganzishendeshier，nigentajianghaoliangsanjutaliantouyebutai，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？duinideshengyushushiwudu。

jiarunidelingyibanyouneiyangdegerenxingweishi，niyejiubixuyishidaozishenhenyoukenengyijinglijinglengbaoli。

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lengbaolibudanhuiweihaiqinggan，haihuijixuduibeilengdandeyifangdexinlijiankangzaochengweihai。

 erlengbaolizaochengdeyigefeichangdadeyuangushi，lingyifangyaoxiangyunitichufenshou，keshitabingbuyuandangneiyigepaoxiatarendeqianguzuiren，yinci yongzheileifangshilaibinijijiliqu。

jiaruniyijinglijinglengbaoli，neimenilejieyingdangruhejiejue，bingzaiwuxingzhongwanliutama?

寻找缘故

zaibuyiyangderenshenshangchuxianlengbaolizhuangkuangdeyuangushibuyiyangde。

 jiarutayizhiquanshineiyang，fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？neitahenyoukenengzishenbianshi“neiqingxing”dexingqing，jinguantachuzailengbaolidefangshixia，danyoukenengliantazijiyemeiyoufaxianneiyangdezuofayounaxiebudangzhichu。

 neiyangdezhuangkuangjiuxiangyaoniduokuanrongyidian，bubipobujidaidiposhilingyifangmashangzuochugenggai，youyuzhangqipeiyangdexiguanxingbingbukeyizaiyiyezhijianyouyidingdezhuanbian。

jiarunibideyuejin，tafandaoyuefeichangrongyizaochengdichuxinlizhuangtai。

jiarutashiyouyilengbaoli，neimejiugengbixudajiayingyongfangfaquwanliu。

他冷的情况下你也冷

 keshibukeyixiangtayiyang，shenmehuadoubuyongshuo。nixuyaobiaoshuweihebuyuanlita，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？jiqiyaozenyangcaihuilita，qujiangli，bunaopiqi。

cikeninengzhibatadangzuoyigeyibanpengyou，jianshaoxiwangheganqingtouru，gengbubititichufenshou。

keshibubizuoyiqieqinglvzhijianqinmiwujiandeshi，chufeishitaxiangyaoyunigoutongjiaoliu。

zhidaotaxiangyaobiaoshushi，nijiuxuyaoganjinjiyukuaisujiehaohuatitaolun。

jiusuanshitazhuyaobiaoxianchulexiaochengoutongjiaoliu，naizhishibumanyi，niyebieshengqi，jianchibuxiegoutongjiaoliuxialai。

buguanneixinzairuheqifen，haiyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuziwofansheng，biaoshuduitaderentonglejie，zaixiangfanshitalejieni。

不必被另一方的个人行为操纵

zailijinglengbaolideqingkuangxia，haipadebianshibeilingyifangweihai，zishenxianbengkuile。

 yigetiaoxuanlengbaoliderenkendingshiganjuezheileifangshiduitashiyouxiaode，nidexintaijiarubeitashangxia，neibianshitazuixiangjiandaodejieguo。

yinci yidingyaobazijidexintaihexuqiuganqianyidaoqitaxuanxiefangshi，lirukuozhangjiaopengyouquan，youqishitigaofengcai。

jiaruniyiqianmeiridoujitamenzuowancan，neicongtaduiniyingyonglengbaolideqingkuangxiajiukeyizhongzhile。

 zaitazhiyinideqingkuangxiahuitayiju：“niyitiandoumeiliwo，womangqilaijiubazhufandeshijiwangjile，zhihouruguohuijiachifantizaoshuoyisheng。”

 neiyangtahuijialeaichidaofan，jiuwubiyaojijilianluoni，yidiandianshitayangchenghaoxiguan，nenggouxiezhunidayigehaokandegongjianzhan。

qingganbingbushiyaoweiqilianqiulaide，nidiaodishenzixiyindezheiyiduanqingganyehuishishangquede。

yidingyaogoutongjiaoliucaikeyijiejuekunnan，bubishoulengbaolideweihai，burannihenkenengbianchengzheiyiduantanlianailidekuiou。

 jiabaolihun，talengbaoli，niyejiuluoluodafangdejiejue，baichuyifusuishisuidijiezhaodemoyang，lingyifanghenkenengbianhuijijiliuxia。