老婆出轨后我该不该选择原谅她

ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？xuduonanshengyouyuhaiaizhexifu，tiaoxuanleyuanliangwaiyudeshier，danxinlihuanshimeifaduiyuchedishihuai。zhangjiuyiwangfuqiganqingzhongjiangyoumingwushi。qizichuguizenmeban？faxianlaopochuguizenmeban？qietaolunyixiananshengdezisu。

一、老婆出轨后我该不该选择原谅她

网友难题：

妻子出轨怎么办？

教师解释：

xiubuhunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshi，wotiyinijiangnirujindeqingkuangyunixifushuo，pingxinjingqideyongxinhetatan，gaozhitadajiayiqinuli。gaozhitahaohaodizhuyaobiaoxian，hunyinshenghuodeweijihaimeiyouxiaochu，rangtabasuoyoudehuolihejiqingfangdaozheiyijiazhong，tazhuyaobiaoxianhaolanicaihuihaohaodiduita。

nihaiyaoxuezhelalongnilaopodexin，duoyixiehuayanqiaoyu，maixiexiaolipin，libaitianlingxiaohaiheqiziquwanyixiachigefan，xuezhezuogeyougediaoyoufengcaidenansheng。cihoushigenggaiyixiayishizhuxingqingkuang，jinliangbimianquyidigongzuozhong。

nizongzaitashenpang，niyeanxin，hunyinshenghuojinjinyizhongfalvshishi，fuqiguanxicaisuanshihunyinshenghuocunyoudezhenshishijiyiyi，zhongzhongzhizhongzengjinganqingba，qingganhaolabicidoushigengweixinlailingyifang。

ganqingzisu：xifuchuguiwotongchudekuanrongleta

qizichuguizenmeban？faxianlaopochuguizenmeban？wopingchangyichulaijiushishuoyitian，lianxiuxiriyefeichangshaojiali。neiyitian，shiwofenhetongshuwangzaijiazhongle，ganmangdadehuijialequ，quebeiyanxiadeyimujizhenjing，wozhenshibuxiangxinzishendeshuangyan，laopozhengheyigenanrenyisibuguadezaichuangshang，nanshengruhetaopaodewohaibuqingchu，wodengdeguannianxiufushi，laopomanlianyanleidezuozhewodeyanqian。

wodiyiciduilaoposhenchuleshou，queruheyeluobuchulai。zongsuanluoxialaishi，quechenchendedajinlezijidelianbu，wofengleyiyanghanzhezishen，laopojinbaowo：“biezheiyang，shiduibuqi，niruhechuliwodoukeyi，dawomawoliyiyexing，jiushishuobiesunhaizishen。”

wotingjianliyi，xiangbeigaoyadianjileyixia，wolenglengdekanjianlaopo：“niyaoliyi?!wonaerbaoqianni，nandaowoduiniyaobuzuhaome?xubuxuyaoneiyang?”laopotongchudechuiguatou：“bingbushide，wobingfeiqueshixiangliyi，jinjinganjuebaoqianni，henbuxiaxinkanzhenineiyangchaimozishen，jiarunikeyiqingyuanliangwo，woyidingxiangyaoyougejia，zaiyebunengchuxianzheizhongshiqingle。”

lijingjiridesixiangdouzheng，woxiangyaohuanshiyuanliang，laopojinguanhongxingchuqiang，zheiyuwodegongzuomang，manzubuleqizideqingganbixuxiangguan，nianqingdeqiziyitiandaowanjiali，zaisuonanmiangudanjimo，woyoumeiyoushijianshouhouta，zheidoushiwodezeren。

zailiao，wojiushiailaopode，yaoshimeiyouta，wodefendouyoumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyi?yinciwodasuanyuanliang，hetazaiciguoxialai。laopolejiewodeniantouhou，kuijiudetongku。

weilebimianxiangjinshierzaicichuxian，wocileyifenzuojianzhi，duochouxieshijianpeibanlaopo，gangkaishirenmendemeihaoshenghuo。danshierquejiushiwoxiangdezheimejiandan，wozaoyikuanronglelaopo，keyijiandaotahejiazhongdezheixiewupinwoyexiangfapiqi。

wonengxiangqizheixiewupinqiheneigerenyongyiguo，neizhangchuangtamenyeshuiyiguo，wonaizhihaihuixiangdaodaotamenpapadeqingjing，yixiangqizheizhongwoyeranranshengqiyiguwuminghuo，duilaopoxiabushangshou，woyeshanzishenbazhang。

yidaozheishihou，laopojiuhuaizhewoku。meifa，renmenyoumailaiyitaoxinfang，barujindefangwumaichu，jiajuyedouhuanweixinde，danzhinengleyiduanshijian，wohuanshicaiyilaoponeixinyouneigerendeshenying。laopoyijiandaowoneiyang，jiuyanleilianliande：“womingbaizishenbudui，nikeyiworuhezuo，cainengzuodaozhenzhengqingyuanliangwo，yibuneiyangsunhaizishen?”

shuoshuoxinlihua，woqueshihenailaopo，wobenzhijiubuyuansangshita，yincibutaikenenghetaliyi，danwoquemeifajiechuzishenneixindenagejie，meifazhenshidecongzheijianshideheiyingzhongzouchuqu。