老婆出轨老公该怎么办好

 ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？laopochuguihouzhangfugaizenmeban?qizichuguiqueshihuirangneixinhenqinaobushufu，danzaizuojueceqian，qingmingjizheiyixieshi。nvrenchuguizenmeban？zijilaopochuguilezenmebanhao？

一、老婆出轨老公该怎么办好

不必急着做决策

 nvrenchuguizenmeban？zijilaopochuguilezenmebanhao？ruguonifajueairenpanbianleni，ninengganjueshifennaonuheshoushang，keshiqianwanbiejiushizheiyangfangchuquzhaogediqulilehun，huoshilijitichufenshou。

 weizijiyixieshijianheshineikongjian，pingjingxialai，suihouzaiqusisuodajiadeguanlian。youyudangrenchuyunaonuqingkuangxiadeneishihou，shimeiyousisuodegongzuonenglide。

 jiarunishiwaiyudeyifang，yepingjingxialaixiangyixiang，nizenmehuipanbianzheiyiduanguanlian。niduizheiyiduanguanliandejingzhundingweishisha，shichuzhewanxiahuanshiyongxinde?nigerenxingweishenhoudexintaihexuqiushisha?weizijichongzudeshijianlaichongfenkaolvzheizhongyaosu，qianwanbierangxintaibangnizuojuece。

担起义务

 shuobailededanqiyiwu，jiushizhibicibixujianfuqizaihunyinshenghuohuoairenguanlianzhongdeyiwu。jiarulingyibanyiweidizhizewaiyudeyifang，juedezishenmeiyouyidiannanti，neizongshibalingyifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan，naizhihuirangwaiyudeyifangganjuejiranzheiyangbubeilejie，zishenjiuyingdangwaiyu。

 huoxu，waiyudeyifangyaojizijidebuzhongshichengzhidizhiqian，kenqiuairendekuanrong，erlingyifangyebixusikaoyixiazishenzaizheiyiduanguanlianzhongrenwujiaose。zenyangnengrangxianghudeyaoqiuheganqinghuodekaolv。gongtongfendou，youhudongjiaoliu，caikanhaodeairenguanlian。

接纳自身的觉得

 hunyinguanxizhongdepanbianhuichanshengxuduofumianxinxidexintai。jiarunishibeimengpiandeyifang，niyidinghuichuxiannaonu、shoushang、xinhandengxintai。zheizhongxintaidechuxiandouhenyiqiezhengchang，yaojieshoutamen。

 weizijiyixieshijianquganshouhexiaohuaxishouzheizhongxintai，qianwanbiejizhebatamenyizhixialai。jiarunishiwaiyudeyifang，nihenjianghuijuedeshenshendidekuijiuhecankui。nijianghuishifenxiangyaozhidaoweihezishenhuizuochuzheizhongshiqing。yiyangdetiyi，jieshouzheizhongxintai，jianjiandijiejuetamen。

疏解心态

 nvrenchuguizenmeban？zijilaopochuguilezenmebanhao？bubibayiqiedouzangxinli，nenggoujiangnideqinshenjinglihetihuixiechulai。jiaruhaibunengdiaozhengqingxuxintai，nenggoukankandianyinghuoshiduyibenlingrendadongdeshu，suihoutongkuyichang。

 jizijizhaoxunyixienenggoushiyongnideziyuan，liruqinmiwujiande、nenggouxinlaidepenyou，xiangtamenqingtu，diaozhengqingxuxintai。jilao，waiyuzaoyichansheng，shenghuohaiyaojixuzhenduiwaiyudereneryan，xiangairenyichengxiangdainidetihuihexintaihenguanjian。

 huoxuneiyangdeyichengxiangdaiheqingtujinijuedehenjiannan，youyuninengbeicankui、zuiniebaonang。keshi，jiaruniyaoxiubudajiadeguanlian，yichengxiangdaiheduiwaikaifangzishendexinlijueduishitoudengdashi。

问和答

 wenyiqieniyaolejiedenanti，rangwaiyudeyifangjieshinideyihuo，yiyangdoushizaixiezhutasisuozishendegerenxingwei，jiqigerenxingweishenhoudeyuangu，jinguanzheiyiquanguochenghentongchuhejianxin。jiarunishiwaiyudeyifang，nikeyilejie，nideairenqidaizhangwoyixieguanjiandian。jiaruzheizhenduinieryanhaihenjiannan，xiangtayichengxiangdainidexintai，erqierangtajieshounibixushijian。