老婆出轨怎么办，怎么调整自己的心态？

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3、keguanxingdidianpingzhixiqinshudegerenxingwei。bukeyiyouyuyishiguocuoerfourentadeyoushiheguoququanbudenuli，zhidaocaiyitadeweiren;

4、zenyangshicuobaibianchengbicichengcaidetupokou。zongeryanzhi，niyeshinizishenshenghuodezhuzai，xiuluoshenzhedajiadehunyinzhizhouzuihoushiwanghechu。

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