情场失意了妻子出轨后自己怎么解决

rujindeshehuifazhanhuaxuewuzhifuyu、jingshenkongxuzhezhong。zaihunyinshenghuoli，fuqizhijianruhexiangchujiaruliangrenzhongjianbukeyixianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliu，qinggangongming，shijianjiulebianhuichuxiandisanzhe。dangxifudewaiyu，qingchangshiyineimayidingshiyilaogongnaerkaolvbushangzishendemouyifangmiandeyaoqiu。neimadajiajiueryanyishuoqizichugui，laogongyinggaizenmeban?

最先，你需要思考下大家的难题

xuduo fufukanqilaigongchuyishi，qishitongchuangyimeng。youyuliangrenzhongjianmeiyouguoduodegoutongjiaoliu，hunyinshenghuokeyishuobianshidahuoguorizi。shijianjiule，nvdebianhuijuededaogudujimo，tebieshizaijiushinizaimeiyoujiaoqiangdezhengqiangongzuonenglishi，taruoyeyoufudechongdong，feichangrongyimishifangxiang。yinci xuduo qingkuangxianvxingjiranjiajinile，yebuhuidianjizhejiuyaoshoudaoyingxiang，zhishidajiazhongjianxuduo xiaoshier，xuduo xiaowentijinjinleijijiule。jiazhonglijiranfashengleneiyangdeshier，jiugengbubiquxianglingyifangbaoqianzishen，buzhengquedoushilingyifangde，yaolejiemeiyigechuguinvrenshenhoutongchangdoushiyouyigeruanruowunenghuoshibuchengqidezhangfu。jiaruninengkeguanxingdiduidaidajiazhongjiandenanti，niyejiuhuijiangdiduitadezenghen，jinerbaguanxindeguanjianqianyidaoruhejiejuedajiazhongjiandenantishang。

次之，假如不愿离异，就不必对所有人再谈及这事

qizichugui，jiarunibuyuanhetaliyi，tadoumeiyouyuniliyidehanyi，qingchangshiyineimajiububiduiwaikaifangchuanyangzheiyijianshier，youyurenxingedupi，nichuleshier，daliangdeshikanrenao，huoshangjiayoude。quanbudetarendexianyanxianyuduidajiaeryandoumeifachengdan。yiqiejiaren、penyoudeguanzhuguohoudoushihuibianchengduidajiadejueqingfengci。ninengguanqimenlaisidixiashangyichulizheiyijiannanti。jiaruxifushiyigeyaoyanmianderen，dangranhuidongshenmeshizhangwofencun。jiaruxifushiyigebumingshilideren，neimanigengyaojitatanyitanzheiyijianshierfazhanqushixialaidebuliangyingxiang。youyuzheishiyigeyuanzewentidenanti，nibuxiangrangtazhongpanqinli，lingwainiyebuyuanrangdajiazhongjianyuelaiyueyouyuanwufen，jitayicijihui，jiarutayebiaomingxiangyaohuiguozixin，neimajiuhuodayidianyuanliangyici，jinjinyaobachouhuajitashuoqianbian，xiayicizaicifasheng，juebuhuiqingrao。

再度，假如媳妇沒有有错就改之意，那离异就离异

jiaruxifumeiyouyoucuojiugaizhiyi，neimaniyejiulixinglihunba!zhongjiuyigefashengbianhuazhidenvxing，tadexinbuzainizheier，nicunzhetazhiyouliuchengzenghen。liangzhezhijianweiquqiuquan，bibushangguodeyouzizunyidian，rangtajingshenchuhu。youyuxuduo chuguinvren，tongchangyongyoudiyicibianhuiyoudierci、disanci。ruoshixiangyaonishikekanjian，dingzhuta，neimadajiadehunyinshenghuohaiyoushenmeyisini?jiranjiaowangneimaleihefan，bibushangyigerendaizaijiali，neiyangzishenyebuhuiweilingyifangdebuzhengquefuqian，hunyinshenghuoyuanbenbianshifengxianxing，jiranshuleqianle，neimajiuniqingwoyuan，zheibanduizishenyebaxuduo 。

qizichugui，zuoweilaogongninengcanzhaoshangmianzuofadaquan。ganwanbuneng“zhandoulixiangxiangerxing”，fuqizhijianruhexiangchu