我发现了妻子出轨应该怎么办

 xianrujin，yingduiqizichuguidezhuangkuang，laopochuguilaopochuguiyouerzhongjiaoweiliuxingdelunduan。laopochuguilezenmeban yizhongshiquanhebuquanli：yirifuqi100tianen，zuoweinanrenyaofanyingxionghuai。

 sheidouhaimeigezuocuoshideqingkuangxia，yaoshizuizhongjiuzhengle，liangrenzaicihaohaodiyiqiguoshenghuo;lingyizhongzeshiyicibuzhongjibaiciwuxu：dadaolifeichangjiandan，meiyoubutouhuandemao，renyeshiyouguanxinglide，yaoshiyouyici，bianhuiyoudierci。buyaoshuoshenmerenhuizuocuoshi，waiyushiyuanzexingwenti，zheijiaozhifafanfa，jueduimeiyoutanhehenyoukeneng。

 shijishangni，zhishangerzhongjiaofadoushiyoufenbiededadaoli，danfajueqizichuguidaodiyingdanggaizenmeban，nayangzuofagengheshizishenxianjieduandeqingkuang，yeyaolizhidexiangyixiang。

合适“劝和不劝离”的状况

 yiqieqingganchuxiannanti，doubukeyidanchunxingdezeguaiwaiyudeyifang，youyuzheizaiqizhongyehuichuxianxuduo dekuzhong。liangrenzaiyiqishijianjiaozhang，shenghuoguodepingdanwuqi，xianghudoushiqushengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxidegongzuonengli，neimapengdaoduiwaibuxinxianhecijixingderenhuoshishi，dangranfeichangrongyibeixiyinzhu.

 fufuchangchangzhengchao，santianyixiaochaowutianyidachao，nongdelingyifangdouxinshenbuan，cikechuxianyigetongqingdali，laopochuguinenggouxixinlingtingdenansheng，waiyuyeshifeichangrongyide。heshi“quanhebuquanli”zheileizhuangkuangde，yibanshiliangrenduoduoshaoshaodoushiyouyixienanti。yaoshidajiabaochichuxin，renzhenkandaixianghu，quchuyibufenduichulianqingrendezuofa，feichangrongyijiatingxingfu。

合适“一次不忠，几百次无需”的状况

 youyileinvhai，nianqingdeshihouguode“jijimangmang，wuqianwugua”，xuduo shiqingganzuo、ganxiang。dengwandeyixietaileile，ganjuegaiyouyigeguichudeqingkuangxia，lijijiu“zhaoyigelaoshibajiaonanshengjiale”。haowuyiwendeshi，zheileinvxingzhenduichuanyidabandengwaizaizhuangshi，huanshihenyinrenzhuyide。yinci tamenshenpangnanshengxuduo ，congbuqianqueyixingpengyou。jibian jiehunle，xinliyemianbuleyizhibuzhuxinlidezaodongbuan。haokaneryouzaodongbuandenvxing，xiangduixingyiqienanrendoushiyijianhaoshiqing，weiyouduizishendelaogongbuneimayouhao。yuneiyangdexifuyiqiguoshenghuohuishifenjianxin，jiarutazaoyichuguile，yaoxinliyoushu。

合适“反省自己，皈依相互”的状况

 zhayitingzheileijiaofashi“quanlibuquanhe”，shishishangyougengduofangmiandeyaosu。qizichuguideyuangubuqingchuyixieshilaogongzishendenanti：xiyan、shijiu、paojiubayechang、piaochang、duqianzheixie，jiaruzishendeshenshangdedequequeyouzheizhongnanti，jiuyingdanghaohaodixiangyixiangyixiegerenxingweizuodeshifoutaiguofenle。

 rutongjinqiremendianshiju《wodetiyulaoshi》zhongqiufengneiban：yinweizishendebuchengshu，laopochuguilezenmebanmeitianchulaireshier、dajiadouou、jinjuzi，rangwangxiaomitixindiaodan。zheileihuntianheididetihuizuihouzaocheng letamenbaniandeqingganhuiyuyidan，xiangyixiangshiduomededeyihan。yinci bubiyitingwenlaopochuguilejiujuedezishensuotuofeiren，youshiqueshiyingdanghaohaodifanshengziji。