到底媳妇出轨了我该怎么做

meimeidajiayitijitarenwaiyu，doushihuihendeziyaliezui。beinaonuchongjixingledanaodedajia，laopochuguiwogaizenmebanhuihuranyishikeguan，yigunaoerdejiangqingxuxuanxiedaowaiyudeyifang。keshishishang，laopochuguilezenmebanzheizaiqizhongdesheiduidaodishisheidecuo，youshihouqueshibuhaoshuodeqingxi。yingduixifuerdewaiyu，laogonghuijuedefangcundaluan。yishijianjuederichangshenghuo、gongzuozhongshishibushunxin，simianchuge。cikedajiadaodiyingdangzenmebanni?

产生一切事儿，必须客观的思索

jiaru，xintaiganledajiadezhurenjia，neimadajiabianhuishiqulizhi，beifumianqingxumengshangshuangyan，saizhuerduolimian，zishenjushu，yiqiexinxidoujiangzhongduan，cikedezishenbianhuizhanqizaineixindehuangdaodangzhong。fanguolai，ruguowomenkeyihexinzishendexintai，neimazaoyizhanyouleyibandeyoudian。cikedajiabixuxiang，xifuerdewaiyu，daodishizenmehuishini?youdaodishisheiyingdangchengdanguanjiandeyiwuni?jiujingshisheiduidaodishisheidecuoni……zheizhongnanti，doubixudajializhifeijinxinsiqingxi。zheijiurutongkaoshiyiqiandekaoshidagang，xianquelishijinantideyuangu，sisuoyixiazaiqizhongdeneirong，pouxizheizaiqizhongdenanti，laopochuguilezenmebanzuizhongdedaobijiaojingquedejieguo。jinyouneiyang，caikeyihuodeqiadangdehuida，jinercaiyongxiayibudeduice。huanjuhuashuo，jianglaijushimeiyibudefazhanqushi，douzaiyukeguandesisuo。

确立是不是再次这一段婚姻生活

shijishangni，xifuerdewaiyu，zuishaonenggoubiaomingyigenanti：liangrenzaiyixiecengmianmeifarongqiatongbu，huoshibicizaiyixiecengmianbunengmanzulingyifangdeyaoqiu。jiarushuo，liangren，yifangfazhandekuai，erlingyifangqueyuanditabuzou，neimaneiyangdexinlijulihuiladeyulaiyuzhang，gongtonghuatihuiyuelaiyuedi，qinggandepoyiyejinjinshijiandenanti。bulunshishenglixuehuanshixinlizhuangtai，dangyifangdeyaoqiuzhangqixingwufadedaokaolv，yebidinghuizaocheng waiyu。yinci dajiabixugenjupouxilaiqueli，xifuerdewaiyushiqitianxingxiangbei，huanshizhishangerzhongyuangu。jiarutaxiaidezhaohuarecao，zhanhuarecao，bukeyiananwenwendeguoshenghuo。neimakeyishuo，jibian keyiwanliuyejinjinduanzanxingde。daishiershengxiangyiwang，youhuixiangchuntiandexiaocao——runwuwusheng。yinci ，womenyaogenjuexingshijiansuotixianchuqudeshizhi，wenyiwenzishendexinli，juecezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoshibushiyingdangzaici。

要沟通交流，要沟通交流，它是头等大事

xifuerjiranzaoyichuguile，neimanijiuxuyaozuozuihuaidedasuan。shijishang，zaineiyangdexiankuangzhizhong，dajiachedinenggoutanchengxiangjiandekaizhangoutongjiaoliu。bicinenggoubaduixianghudexiwanghebumanyi，pingxinjingqidezhuyibiaoming。neiyangdezuofa，yinenggoulejiebicisuogan，xianghudeyaoqiuhexiwangdounenggouzhiyanbuhuidemingquetichulai，jiangdilecaiyihewandao。ernenggouzaicishenshiziji，renshiziji，quelixianghuzailingyifangxinzhongzhongdeyingxianglishiruhede。sankegenjuhuihua、yudiao、xiaobiaoqinglaifenbianbiciduizheishidefanyingshuiping。yibanlaijiang，fanyingshuipingyuemenglie，yebiaomingyiqianhuxianghuanshijiaoweixinrengande，danyuzhixiangsuideshitongyangjingyingguimodesunhai。sishinenggougenjujiaotanlaipanduanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodezuihoujieguozenyang。goutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，yaojiaoda deguanxinlingyifang，xixinlingting，neiyangdajiacainenggoudedao yaoxianglejiedejibenxinxi，jinerzuochuzuihoudejuece。

他人的建议要参照，但仍要坚持不懈做好自己

zheigeshihou，dajiahuimianbulezhaoxunjiarenmen、xueshengmen、xiaohuobanmen、geweipengyoudeyixietiyi。keyishuo，meiyigerendelijingdoubuyiyang，cengjidegaoainongdanyebuyiyang。zaidajiaxiangzheixierenqiuzhudeqingkuangxia，zhenduitamendetiyi，nenggoukaizhancanzhao，dangenjunaxiedefangfaqujiejuexifuchuguizheijianshiqing，yidingyaoxinliyouyigehengliang，jianchibuxiezuohaoziji。yixiehelixingdetiyizaimouzhongyiyishangshihelide，nenggouzhaodaozuiheshizishendefangshiheguanlijuece，rangjushixiangzhezuijijizhudongdefangweifazhanqushi。zhenduiyaoxiangdejieguo，jiuzaijiandingbuyilezishendexinliyihou，yiwangwuqianba。

xifuchuguile，dajiadexinliguranhuibushufuyizhenzi。youderen，henyoukenenghuimeifacongfumianxinxidexintaizhongjiejuechuqu，jiubixuzishendeyouxiaoshutong。jirannantizaoyizaocheng，jiuxuyaoyingyongdequmianduijiejue。genjulixingsikao，fenxiwenti，zhaodaoxifuchuguideyuangu。ranhouzaigenjugezhonggeyangfangfajiqifangshidegoutongjiaoliu，baozhengduofangweidezhangwonanti，laopochuguiwogaizenmebanzaiyijunantidetexingheshizhijueceshibushiwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan。lingtingzishendexiangsheng，zunxunzishendexinli，jianchibuxiezishensuozuosuogan，dajiazhongjiuhuihuizuochugengweiqiadangdetiaoxuan。