女人婚外恋自己需要咋办

 zuoweiyimingzhengqilinrandexiaonanzihan，tangtangqichizhiqu，dajiadoutexiangyouyifanzuowei。laopochuguigongzuoshanghuodedefazhanqushi，yingzaoleyigemeimanxingfudejiazhong，jiaoyuchuyiweichusedeernv，zheizhongdounenggoushiwomenganshoudaowuqiongdemanzugan。nvrenhunwailianshubuzhi，womenzaiyingduishehuifazhanzheiyijingjichangshang，zheibanshenxianshizu，youdeqingkuangxiaquehenyoukenengzaoshouhouyuanqihuo。

 zhenduiqiziwaiyu，yinweidajiashouzhecongguzhijinjiusixiangdeweihai，juedehendiumianzi，naizhiganjuezhenshishiyizhongwuru，dezuilezizun，yizhiyudajiananyishihuailaopo。zheishinisuozuodejuece，shiguannidefazhanqushi、jiazhongyeyouernv。

一、静下心，看一下难题出在哪儿。

 fufudeqinggan，shiyouliangrenxianghuyunying。jiranxifuchuguile，neimadajiajiubukeyibafuqiganqinggeduankaikanlai。zuixian，womenyaoqueliyidian，bulunshinanshenghuanshichuguinvren，zheizaiqizhonghuichuxianyixiemeiyourongqiahaodeyaosu。neimadajiajiuxuxianzhaoyizhao，shizenmehuishizaochengqizichugui?nantichuzainaer?shinameiyourongqiahao?huiwangyixiaqianyiduanshijiandefuqixingshenghuo，shichangchangzhengchao?huanshiyouyugongzuozhonghushiletadetihui?shilaidaoqinianzhiyang?huanshijinqidenannvguanxibutaihemuzheixie，zhuduodeyuangubixudajiazuozhuyidepouxi。kenengzaigenjuyiduanshijiandesisuoyihouyongyoujieguo，zhenduibuyiyangyouyindewaiyu，chulidefangshidangranyebuyiyang。

 jiaruyingongzuozhonghushilelaopo，neimaninengduopeibanta，nvxingduilengdandechengshoushihendide;jiarudajiachangchangzhengchao，neimaxuehuifangxiayiyi，buxiangganbiaozhundenantinenggourenrangliangbu。jiarulaidaoqinianzhiyang，zenenggouyijutadeaihaoshengchanzhizaoyixielanmandeyuansu。ruguoshinannvguanxibutaihemu，neimanenggouhuanyixiexinxiandeziranhuanjing。zongeryanzhipengdaoxifuchugui，nvrenhunwailianxianbiezhejishuoliyi，yixieyuanguchedibianshimouleiyaosuzhishiweirongqiajishibale。yinci duizhengzhiliaoshijiejuekunnandezhongyao。

二、人和人之间不一样，慧眼识才是重要的阶段之一。

 yixiezhuangkuangxiaqiziwaiyu，tamenhuitianmankuijiu，juedezishenbaoqianlaogong。danrenherenzhijianfazhanziranhuanjingbuyiyang，yaoqiubianbuyiyang，kanqingyigerendeshizhicaikeyihuodegengmeimanhunyin。zhenduixialiejilei，dajialiyingjinshentiaoxuan：

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 1、tanliannanse。zheishijieshangbujinshinanrenxihuanrongmaodenvren，yiyangnvxingyehuiduirongmaojunxiudexiaohuozaochengzhiaizhiqing。yibanzhuangkuangxiadaojiehunhoudoushihuijinjinshangxibale，danbuqingchuyouxinlibutaichengshuderen，zaichongdongdeposhixiahuichuxianshentilixing。

 2、buganjimo。dajiameiyigerendoushiyouzishengerenaihao，zaisuipianshijianyehenyuanyiquzuohenganxingqudeshier，jinerdedao xinlidefengfu。shubuzhizheishijieshangyedouhuiyouyixierenhunhunee，banshisanfenzhongdeguanzhudu，haochilanzuo，duirenshengdaolumeishenmezhuiqiuwanmei。yinci zheigeshihoujiufeichangrongyixunzhaocijixingyimibuneixinkongxu，yuyixingjiaowangzhenmi。

 3、baijinzhuyi。xianrujinzheiyishehuifazhanqiancaidenengliangjianzhiguoduqiangjingle。“youqiannengshiguituimo”bianchengxianrujinweiyidexinyang，wulunbenrenshibushixinshan，yaoshizijinbugoubianzaishehuifazhanjubuweijian。zaineiyangdeqingkuangxia，renxingdeyoudianchongfenfahuidehanchanglinli。weilegenghaodikaolvbenshengaohuaxuewuzhideyaoqiu，kaolvaimuxurong，jiarulaogongmeifagonghuodaliangdezichan，xiangduidehunlianwentibianhuizaocheng。xianrujindehunyinshenghuoshiyijingjifazhanweijichuzaishangmiandajiande，yinci yidanhuijichuxiannanti，zehunyinshenghuonanyichucun。

 4、bubianshifei。youyixierenshizaibabamamadejiaoguanzhizhongzhangdalede，zaizheileishenghuohuanjingxia，tamenzaoyichanshengleyiziwoweizhongxindemingxianxingqing，zheigeshihoujiaruyongkeguanrangqibianbieshifeishiyijianjibenshangbutaikenengjinxingdeshier。zheileirentongchangmeishenmeqiadangdejiazhiguannian，yiqiejuedezishenbianshiduide，yinci waiyuyetongchangburongyiziwofansi，laopochuguimeishenmeyanegan，fandaohuijuedezheiyiquanshijiequanbuderendoubaoqianta。daozhizairichangshenghuozhizhongnanyiyougongtonghuati，yaoshiyijutanbeng，bianfashengzhengzhi，zhangciyiwangdaozhiwaiyu。