女人有外遇怎样雅致地挽留

 yigenanrendezhiliangfanyingzaineihanhesixiangguannian。yigeyazhidenanshengrutongyipianhaiyang，bujudiandiandidi，youkuanrongheliu。yazhidenanshengwangwangzaoshounvxingdeqinlai，shiyouyuta“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，nvrenyouwaiyuyigexinruohaiyangdenansheng，nvrenweishenmehuichuguiyazhidilingrenkanqilaisatuoqianwan。dangqizichuguishi，tadewanliufangfayeshijianyieryouwanmei，nongsuoweiliangzi：yazhi!neimatagaizenyangyazhidiwanliuchuguidelaopo?

一、用创作来迁移恼怒

 pingchangrenjuede，yantanjuzhiyuhanyangzuinengxiyintaren。keshizhenduinvxingeryan，tongchangshineileiyouyuxinxinertouluchuqudecongrongdandinggengnengzhengfunvren。yazhidenanshenggaoqingchu，rennaonudeqingkuangxiazhilidengyuling。yinci ，dangqizichuguishi，tamenbingbushibuqinao，zhishixuehuileyijingzhidong。bazijidenaonudouqianyidaochuangzuodejiqingzhongqu，changshirangzishendenaonufama，zhileng。youyutamengaoqingchuzheigeshihouwulunshiyinjiu，jitarenqingtuhuanshichuqulvyou，doumeifadiaojiehaozishendexinlizhuangtai，erjinyouzishencaisuanshizishendejiushi。yinci ，tamengenjuchuangzuolaidiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，qifazishendeconghui，molianzishendeyanzhanxing，zishencaikeyizhendingziruodijiejuedangjindenanti。erchuangzuodequanguochengyeshirangzishenlizhidejieduan。youyuchuangzuo，zishenjianjiandiwangjilenaonu，yeshulilegousi，lingrenyuelaiyuewanshan，yazhi。lingwaiyeshulilezishengairuhequyingduizishendexifu。

gaizenyangyazhidiwanliuchuguidelaopo?-qizichuguigaizenmeban

二、尝试了解日常生活的心灵美

 dangdaideshehuifazhanjiezouganjikuai，huoxushuiyijuedejiyu，fujindeshenghuohuanjingdouzaoyifashenglezhuanbian。yinci zaineiyangdeshenghuozhuangtaixia，rengengyaomingbaixunsudiaojiezishendegongzuonengli。dangqizichugui，jiarunibuzhidaoruhequrichangshenghuo，zhiyoubiaomingnideminganhexinfuqizao。yazhidezuigaojingjiebianshiqujueyulejielerichangshenghuodexinlingmei。nvrenyouwaiyushuobailezhen，jiushijiushiduizishenqiuzhenwushi，bubihuozaimengli，yebubipiantaren。“shan”，dangranshishanliangdeyisile。zunzhongxifu，bianshizaihaohaoaizijiderichangshenghuo。bubidiaonanxifu，bubijifengxifu，bubiwuruxifu。youshihounideyidiandianzhenchengjiunengjiedeyigeshanguo，shiniderichangshenghuoyinereryuelaiyuexingfukuaile。shengrenshuo，“richangshenghuobenbuqueshaomei，quefadeshifajuemeilideshuangyan”。nanshenglejiedemeishiburongyiqianguazhezishendebeiju，ruoneiyangzhiyoujiniderichangshenghuogengweibeiju。

三、真实地从心里爱妻子

 nanshengqulexifu，shijishangquanshiqianshixiudedeyuanfen。buxiangxinchangshiwenyiwenyihundenvren，jigejiageizishendelaogongbuganjuehouhuimoji?bierenlixiangbeijingdequanshiweilegenghaodigennizaiyiqi。shubuzhijiehunhou，huoxujiushinibudongdezhenxita，bulijietadetihui，rangtajuededaogudanwunai，yinci caihuixunzhaowaijiqiuyuan，naizhihongxingchuqiang。nannengkeguinizijijiumeiyouyidiandeyiwuma?nanshengyidingyaogaoqingchu，nvxingjiajini，keshixinlingshenchuzuiqipandeyidingshiyigeaizhetadenansheng。nvrenweishenmehuichuguiganqingwangwangminzuliyiqinhai，shiyouyutashirenzuiganxinqingyuandetiaoxuan，tafanyingderenherenzhijiandezhongshiyuxinrengan。jiarunimeiyoujiejuehaohetadeguanlian，jiumoyuantazuocuoshi。yinci nanshengyidingyaozhongshinishenaizhedenagenvrendexuanze，lejietaxinlizhenshideqipan。ruguoniqudaodexifushizishenzhenshiaidenvxing，neimaniyibeiziyebuhuihouhui。neicikeqizichuguizenyangxiufuhunyinni?