女人有外遇了怎么面对

 suhuashuodehao：luomadiguofeiyiriwangong!xifuchugui，qingnihaohaoxiangxiangnantichuzainaer?ruguoshinixifu，neimenizenyangyingduixifuchuguideni?jiarunizaoyiyibuaita，yaoshimeiyouxiaohai，niyouwufarongrenzheiyizhuangkuang，nvrenyouwaiyuneimejiujianjuelihunba!yifangzishenyibeizizuo“yuanfu”，weihaileliangrendezhangjiuxingfukuaile。

 keshi，jiaruyongyouxiaohai，huoshiniyaoshenaizheta，erzheyouqiyidehua，neimajiuniyaoshoulianxinggaoaodexingzi，pouxixifuchuguideyuangu，zhaodaofangfancuoshi，qinfenwanliulaopo、wanhuihunyin，rangtadaizhuxinhuijiale。

一、工作中日理万机，对老婆鄙夷寡欲。

 xuduo laogongyouyupingchangtaimang，zerenxintaiqianghuoshigongzuozhongyalida，yizhipijuanyujiaoji，wangjizijizuoweizhangfudezeren。wangjilexifushizishenwanlitiaoyiqulaide，wangjileguoqumeiridehuayanqiaoyu，duilaopoyezongshifanlaizhangkou，yilaishenshou，naizhiduilaopoguanzhuzishendehuadouganjueshixutaohebukanchengshou。zaiwaimiangongzuozhongtitieruwei，zaijialifanerzuoqileyemener，duilaopomeishenmetiexintengaiketan。erlaopozhangqixinghezhangfugoutongjiaoliubuchang，jingshenkongxu，xinliguduyayigan。jiaruchulaigongzuozhong，pengdaoguanzhuzishendechengshudenanren，jiufeichangrongyibeidadong，beiganxiangfenghenwan，feichangrongyihongxingchuqiang。zheiyiquanshijiejiujingshenmezuizhongyaoni?youxierenshuochengqiancai，youxierenshuochengfangwu，youxierenshuochengshenxinjiankang，youxierenshuodeshiqinggan。shijishangrenshengdaoluzuizhongyaodeshiruguoniqueshenmedeshihoushenmezuizhongyao。

 danglaopozailaogongneibiancongganqingshangbukeyihuodekaolvdeqingkuangxia，zaiwaimianpengdaoshihedeturangcengjiufeichangrongyizizhangchuwaiyunanti。yinci xifuchugui，zaiqizhongyigejudadeyuangubidingshiganqingshangbukeyihuodekaolv。nvrenyouwaiyuzuoweiyigelixianghuadelaogong，gangongzuozhongyizhizhuiqiuwanmeizhishanzhimei，meiyoucuo。keshiyebubihushiduibabamamadeaiyi。gongzuozhongriliwanjiyebukeyihushijiazhongdeyiwu，gengbukeyiduilaopobiyiguayu。youyuzheizhongquanshidianbaojiatingmaodundedaohuosuo。

二、结婚后对老婆欠缺了以前的赏析。

 zhenduinvxingeryan，xuanzeyigenaxiedenanshengrichangshenghuo，zaiyidingshuipingshang，juecelejianglaideshenghuopinzhihexingfukuailedu。yingguoshehuijingjixuechaojitiancaisamouersenyiqianduixingfukuaileganleyigejiedinghuaxuefangcheng：xingfukuailexiangdangyuxiaoyingchuyuchongdong。dangxiaoyingbuhuigaibiandezhuangkuangxia，chongdongyuxingfukuailefanbi。jichongdongyueda，xiaoyingyuedi，chongdongyuexiao，xiaoyingyuegao。zhenduiyigenvreneryan，jiarulaogongzishizhizhongkeyilejietadegexinghua，shangxitadeyoushi，jieshoutadequexian，erqierangtachangkuaidechongfenfahuizishendeqianli，neima，zheiyilaogongbudandangzuolelaogong，haidangzuolepenyou，zhixin，lianrenneiyangderenwujiaose，dangyigenanrenzailaopoxinliwukequdaiqingkuangxia，qitayiqieyigenanrendoushidisanzhechazubujinqude。erzheiyilaogongduizheiyilaopoeryanyebiranshicishengderen。

 dangnanrenzaijialiqizhudaodiweishi，yaoduojiandaonvrendeyoudian，ruguoyigenvrenqueshaozixinshi，qingxubianhuiyayigan，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，jiaruzaiyurenxiangchuzhong，huodebiedenanshengdehaowuyiwen，xunzhaogengzudezixinxinshi，jiuhenyoukenengsixukaowaile。nanshengduojiandaonvrendeyoudian，bianhuirangnvxingduoyixiezixinxin，neiyangdenvxingcaihenyoukenengzhudongdandangjiazhongdeyiwu，caihuijiazhongduilaogongdeqinggan。dangyigelaopojuededaolaogongdechongniyujiatingdexingfukuailedehua，jianxintashiyougongzuonenglididangwaibudeyinyoude。

 wangwangwaiyu，zhijieyuanyinshizaijialiquefaanquangan。wangwangbuwaiyu，shiyouyubuquefaanquangan。mingbaileneiyangdebenzhiluojixing，xiangxinniyehuilejieleqiziwaiyu。renfeishengxian，youshishihaodibuguoyique。keshi，ruguonidonglemeigerendoushihuizuocuoshideqingkuangxia，niyehuigaoqingchu，xifuchugui，laogongyeshiyouyiwuzai，zuoweizhangfuderenzenyangyingduixifuchuguishihunyinshenghuokefoujianchixiaqudeguanjiandian。jiranquleta，weihejiubukeyiyirujiwangdeshangxitani?jirannantichulai，bixudebianshiyingyongdi，jijidiquyingdui。zuoheliditianbuhewanliu，shengyuqianwandemaiyuanhedachaodanao。

zhangfugaizenyangyingduixifuchugui-qizichuguigaizenmeban

三、本身心理状态和情商智商能力建设不够。

 suhuashuodehao：“niaosuiluanfengfeitengyuan，renbanxiannengpinzigao”。yingduihunwailian，dajiayinggaizenmeban?xifuchugui，laogongyededuocongbenshencengmiankaolvdao。jiehunhouzishenyoumuyouhushitisheng benshendesuzhi，huoshiduizishenmeiyougaoxiedejingshenzhuiqiu。shifouzishendejingshenmianmaobukeyihelaopotongbufazhanqushi。ruguoshizheixiefangmiandeyuangudehua，laopoyebukeyizaiyiguoqudemuguangziwoxinshangle。haodeqingganhehaodehunyinbidingshiqingtouyihe，xianghuzhijianqianjiu，xianghuzhichengdian，tongbufazhanqushide。zuoweiyigechusedelaogong，yaoyouyigetaiyangyiyangdexinlizhuangtai，yaowenzhong，youyoumogaoxiao。bujinyouzhilijiejuegongzuozhongdenanti，youyouqingshangzhishangjiejuegezhonggeyangrenjijiaowang。wulunshijiehunqianhuanshijiehunhou，doububihushibenshendexinlizhuangtaiheqingshangzhishangnenglijianshe。

 yaorangzishenyouyigewenxindejiarichangshenghuo，zuolaogongdejiuxuyaosuzaozishenpojufengcaidegexinghua。zuixian，yaoyouyigezishenrentongde，erqiezhenxinshiyixiaideshier，bingqiezheiyishierkeyichanshengjingjifazhanshouyi。youyuzheiyishier，nenggoujinihuodexinxin，congrong。cizhi，zhenduicaifu、weiwang、quanlimeiyoutaiguodexingquaihao，bujiyuqiucheng，doubuyangaoshoudi，gengxiangyaozhuiqiuwanmeixinlidefengfuhekaolv。zuizhong，yaobazijidelaopozuoweizishenzheiyishengzuifeichangzhidezuiaideren，yutabaitouxielaoxiangsui，chongaiyoujia，shenghuoshangxianghufuchi，jingshenshizhishangtongbupianpianqiwu，xiangqinxiangyuan，gongchuangjianglai。yigenanrenzhenshidefengcai，bushinijilingyifangliuyouxingfudediyiyinxiang，zhishilingyifangrenshinixuduonianyihou，yiranxiaihenizaiyiqi。jiarulaogongkeyiranglaopodaxinlishangxini，chongbaini，neimataweishenmehuisuibianwaiyuni?

四、不明白另一方的情，就没法溫暖另一方的心。

 jiaruaishinuande，sheidouburongyixinsui。ruguoaishiqueshi，sheidouburongyixinhan。laopojiushinidangshitiaoxuandedeyongyishengquguanaidelianren，xianrujintachuguile，neimabidingshiduinisilexin，huoshinimeiyouyongzishendeqingganwennuantadexin，huoshijiushinimeiyouchusedaokeyishitashuxinzuonidelaopo。nvxingjihuquanshilixingde，zaiganqingdequanqiulishizhongshiqidaiai，xuyaoaide。keshidangtadebixubukeyikaolvdeqingkuangxia，tadeneixinbianhuizaoshouyayiganhesunhai。ziran，neiyangshuobingbushishuolejietadewaiyu，zhishishuozheijianshiqingwaiyudeyixieyuangu，zhangfumenzaiyudaoneiyangdeshier，zuixianyaoxiangdeshiqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrong。zaihunyinshenghuoli，shuobailedejiazhongdashierquanshichengqianshangwansuoshileijidaoyidingshuipinghoubaofade。laopochuguilezenmebanaiyizhineimadeyichujifa，wushengwuxiyoumeiyoudadaoli，chaoyueleshijian，chaoguoleshineikongjian。meiyoujigerenkeyijiangdeqingxi，daodegaoqingchu。