出现女人有外遇了怎么面对

 zhiqiandahuoerdoushihuiganjuenanrenhuaxinhuipanbianjiazhong，danbansuizhenvshidiweidefazhan，nvxingchuguiyeyulaiyujingchangle。zaihunyinshenghuolizuoweinansheng，meishenmebizishendeqizichuguigengjubeihuimiexingle，nvrenyouwaiyuyinxifuchuguixingweiertongkubukandenanshengweishubushao，zheishihoushizaicibaochimianlinfensuidehunyinshenghuo，huanshixiahenxinwanquansheqi?panghuanghewukenaihezhuangjizhezhangfudexin：qizichuguiwogaizenmezuo?

zuixian，yaozhaodaoshizenmehuishizaochengqizichugui?shijishang，qizichuguiwufeisanzhonghenyoukeneng。

第一种，夫妻之间长期性夫妻两地分居

 xifuyingduifumuhaizidezhaoliaojiqiduijiazhongfanzashierjiejuedejuedepingdanwuweihegudanjimo，youqishizhangqixingmeiyouzhangfudeshouhouheshouhuogua，meifapaijiedegudushitayouqixiangyouzheyigeyixingnenggoutangulunjin。danchuzaigudanjimodenvrentongchangzhenduiyixingpengyoudidangyuejingdexinlizhuangtaigongzuonenglishihenmingande。zheileiwaiyuyingdangfenleiyuxinlizhuangtaishangdeyizhonghusiluanxiang。

第二种，被冷淡，极其受伤的女人

 dangyigenanrenyierzaizaiersandesunhaizishendexifu，birujiabao、zhangfuchuguizheixie，nvxingruozaitongchudexintailiwufadedaokeguandehuanjiegongzuoyali，zaizheileizhuangkuangxiatahuiyouyukaolvdaobutuoertiaoxuanlepanbian。yifangmianchuziyuduifudexinlizhuangtai，lingyifangmianyeshixunzhaofuweiyiweijieposuidexinling。zheishinvxingdewaiyuchedishiyouyubulizhixiazuochudeyizhongbuzhengquetiaoxuan，yinci shifeilixingxingweidewaiyu。

第三种，明显的爱慕虚荣

 meiyigenvxingxinlingshenchuduoduoshaoshaodoushihuicunyouaimuxurong，jiaruyigenanrenliannvxingzuijichudewuzhishenghuodoubukeyikaolv，chuguinvrenjiushizaowandeshi。huaxuewuzhitaiguopinfa，richangshenghuoguoduqiongkunliaodao，nvrenyouwaiyuzaijiashangnanshengdebubuduanjinqu，zhenduinvxingeryanshijudadeyanlidaji。zheigeshihounvxingyidanzaoshouwaibudeyinyou，dangranhuipengranxindongcongertaruwaiyudelumianyishang。

第四种，冲动过强，夫妻生活不和谐。

 yishucengshuoguo：“tongxiangnvxingneixindelulijingyindaonei。”aiqingchongdongshirenzhidangranzhiyu，dabufennvxingdounengzaiyiqiezhengchangzuoyongdenanshengneibianhuodekaolv。shubuzhibansuizhenvshidiweidetigao，nvshishejiaoquandexunmengfazhan，yixienvxingyouyubenshenzhangqixingwufadedaoxingmanzu，erbuganzhangqichengshoumeiyougaochaodieqiderenshengdaolu，neimazheileinvxingkenengzaichongdongdeposhixiatiaoxuanwaiyu。zhenduitalaijiang，fuqishenghuoxiangbizhongchengkeshoufudao，xiangbiweihubaoyangzizunheyanmiangengweiguanjian。zheileiwaiyuzaoyidapolezuorendedixian。

laopochuguilewogaizenmezuo-qizichuguigaizenmeban

 zonghexingzhishangsidian，keyikanchuqizichuguideshijixingyuangu。nanrenmenjinyouxiangaoqingchutawaiyudejutiqingkuangjimudi，caikeyizuochuzuihoudeguanlijuece。

次之，找到妻子出轨的真正缘故，开展剖析，对症治疗。

 jiaruniyaoyongyuanaizhenidexifu，erqiechengrencuowuxintaichengzhiyexiangwanjiuhunyin，tiyizaijitayicijihui，suihouzaicaiyongyixiaduice：

diyi，nixuyaobaozhengziwofansi，shibiyouyin。

 jixianghuyiduanshijianlaizhenglizheiyiduanqinggan，lizhidexiangyixiangdajiadehunyinshenghuoshibushiqueshizaoyilaidaowulukezoudechengdu?yaolejieyigefensuidehunyinshenghuohuijihaizideyishengliuyouheiying，renwuwanrenjinwuzuchi，guoergaizhishanmodayan。

 dier，jirantiaoxuanlekuanrong，jiububiyiweidekuanrong，biciyaoyouyigequelidegoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，tuidongtajijizhudonglejiezijizuochudecuosuochanshengdeyanzhonghouguo。

 yebuyaozaijinhoudehunhoushenghuozhonglengchaorefengbaoyuanta，jinbainianxiudetongchuandu，qiannianxiulaigongzhenmian，jilingyifangyifenbaoronghelejiecaikeyirangqinggangengchijiu，hunyinshenghuogengxingfu。

disan，bubiyouyulingyifangdewaiyuerxiaochenzishen，yaochuangjianzishendexinxin，gaodukendinggerenyoudian。

 erqiezaizhihouderichangshenghuoduoguanzhulejielingyifang，duoyulingyifangkaizhanlianghaodegoutong。laopochuguilezenmebanwomenwufagenggaidajiatiaoxuandelingyiban，keshidajiakeyigaibianxianzhuanglaijuecelingyifangnengzaizishenshenpangdaiduozhangshijian。nanshengyingdangbaozhenglejienvxingxuyaoshenme，nvxingyeyingdangbaozhengkanchuannanrenxuyaoshenme。