异地恋女友出轨了能原谅吗，要不要选择原谅？

yiguolianliangrenbukeyizhangqixingzaiyiqi，yinciyoushihenyoukenenghuiganjuegudu，henyoukenenghuizaoyugezhonggeyangyinyou，ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？youbiaozhunyoudaodedixiandenengshouhaozishendedaodedixianweichiduiairendezhongshi，ershoubuleyinyouderenhenyoukenengbianhuitiaoxuanwaiyu。jiarunifajueyiguoliannvpengyouchuguile，yingbuyinggaiyuanliang？nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？

一、原则问题无法更改

zaichuduixiangquanguochengzhong，nvyoudeyouyixiexiaowentiwomendoushinenggourangbude，lirutayoudianerlan、lirutazhongjiuhaiziqi、buqinfen、manbujiangli、xinggeguaizhang……zheizhongquanshiwuguanjinyaodexiaowenti，zhihoujianjiandirangtagenggaijiukeyile。huanjuhuashuoliangrenzaiyiqiyihoufajuemoheqibushangzaitiaoxuantichufenshou，zheizhongdoumeiyoushenme。

ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？keshiqingganlideyixieyuanzewentijiubingbujiandanle。lirufajueyiguoliannvpengyouchugui，zheibujinjinshiwaiyudenanti，shenggaodaoweirencengmian，jiushizheigerenbuzhinixinlai。youyuwulunyiguoliannvyoushijijiwaiyuhuoshichuyubeidongwaiyu，zhixutaganlewaiyudetiaoxuan，neimejiubiaomingtazaizheixiefangmiandedaodedixianbiaozhunjidi，naizhiyagenmeiyou。nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？

二、异国恋外遇不易把控

bingqiewaiyuzheileishierjinyou0ciheyicici，waiyudezaicifashenggailvjiaoweida。erdajiarujinyeshiyiguolian，nvyoudeyijuyidongdoumeiyounideshiyefanchouyinei，neiyanggengfeichangrongyiweitawaiyushengchanzhizaobiaozhun，yegengfeichangrongyijifaniduitadebuxinren。

shexiangyixia，jiarunikuanronglewaiyudenvyou，dajiafuhexingleyiduanshijian，zhixuwaididetayouyicimeiyoulijihuiyingnidexinxi，meiyoujienindedianhua，niyejiuhuicaiyitashifouyouzaiheqitananshenglianluole。

三、导致情感畸型

nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？jiaruwaidinvpengyouchuguibeifajuehainengzaicixiangchu，jinguandajiabiaocengshangkanfangfoyiqiedoushuokaiguo，niyeyuanliangle，dajiahaoxiangyoufanhuidangshichuliandeganjuele。danshishishangdajiabicizaizheiliduanqingganlizaoyibupinghengle，beilvdexiaishuipinghuiyuanyuandigaoguowaiyude，tiaoxuankuanrongzhihouzheiyitianpingchengzongshigengweiwaixie，ninvyouyehuiganjuenilianwaiyudounengyuanliang，neiyitianyoumeiyoushenmeshierjiushinibukeyikuanrongdeni？congnikuanrongwaiyunvyoudeneiyikeqi，dajiaqingganjixingjiuzaoyidaozhile。

四、宽容非常容易提过去

waidinvpengyouchuguibeifajuezishenbianshiyizhonggehe，huoxunanhaizizuibianshuokuanrongle，xinliyehuijinbuzhuhuiquxiang，jiusuanshizhuangzuojitatieshangchuangkoutie，danzheiyibahenshijishangshizhongburongyihao，huiyouyuhoubiandecaiyitiguoqu，richangshenghuodeburuyi，yulaiyulan。

ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？yiguoliannvpengyouchuguishiyijianpengchudaodedixiandeshier，youqishidajiarengzaiwaididezhuangkuangxia，qingganzishenjiufeichangrongyifashengbianhua，yincihuoshitiyibukuanrong，tiaoxuantichufenshou。