“女人出轨”是背叛婚姻高昂的成本与代价吗？

guoqujiushidaizhongnanqingnvdeshiqi。jindaodangdairichangshenghuodedajia。nvrenchuguishiweihe？nvrenhenanrendoushuoshijundengde，wulunshizaishenmecengmianquanshiyiyangde，danshijishenghuozhongshishirucima！nanshengzhuinvshengnvhaijiuchanlandajiaogongxinji，nvshengzhuinanshengjiuchanlandajiaobuzizhong，chuguinanrenjiaofengliuyunshi，jiaozhaodisanzheshinanrenhejiushuodahuadetanlunhuati。mamachuguilezinvzenmebanni？

chuguinvrenjiaojian，jiaowuchi，gushihoushiyaojinzhulongde。zheihenyoukenengbianshiconggudaojinnanrendeziranyoudianba。jiuzheiyangde，yincidangnvxingnitiaoxuanhaohunyinshenghuodeneiyikeqingzunxunniyaodebiaozhun，bubichuguixingwei，chuguidedaijianifudanbuqi，meiyourenheyigerenhuilianminni、kuanrongni、eguojinyouzijilaipinwei。

①不可以获得老公的忍受

nvrenchuguishiweihe？nanshengnenggouroutichugui，jingshenshizhibuwaiyu，zhengsuowei“waibiancaiqipiaopiao，jiazhongwuxinghongqiyilibudao”。

youyunanshengkandaizheizhongshijiejuedeyincigenglixing、xuanzeyixie。huanjuhuashuoshigengpianxiangyuzijiyouyidecengmian。jiejuefangshiyibanshilengmo、bulibucaihuohuaqianxiaozai。ernvxingjiaruroutichuguile，jingshenshizhiyidingwaiyu，huanjuhuashuojingshenshizhixianwaiyu、roushencaiwaiyu，ruguoyigenvrenbahunwaiqingdangzuoleganqing，xingfudeposhi，caihuimaozhejudadefengxianxingwaiyu。

chuguinvren，huinongdejiazhongjifeigoutiao，erchuguinanren，jiazhongyoushihouhuoshiqingkongwanli。nanshengyaoshuoyishichongdong，zhimibuhui，bingsichanlandaqiuqunvxingdekuanrong。nanshengnenggoubaaihexingfendaohenqingxi，nvxingquebutaikeneng。nvxinghaipaduiqinrenshuogenghaipaduizishendelaogongshuo。dangnvrenheairenqingtouyiheshibianzaocheng“bulizhi”，nvxingnaizhixingchengleyilaizhiqing。nvxingxinshenjiebuzaijia，jiazhongyidingliekai。nanshengyouyubeidailedailvmao，weifanledaodedixianrenshoubushangtarenyideyanguang，yibandoushitiaoxuanliyi。

②对小孩损害

chuguinvrenbujinsunhailelaogong，duibaobaodeweihaiyeshitebiedade，meiyigehaizidouqiwangzishendefumunengpeizaishenbian，zaitamenxixinguanaixiajiankangkuailechengzhang，nvxingyishichongdongbaituoleanjingdejiazhong，xiaohaiziyaoyingduijiarendefenlichulai，sheiliquneixindoushebude。mamachuguilezinvzenmebanni？

youyixienvxingdanyoudaishangxiaohaizishenzhaobudaonanpengyou，shifenguoduandepaofuqiziheqingrenyiqishenghuo，zhidaobeilianrenpaoqi，youjiannangui，nvxingnayitianhuranjuewuyaoxiangkanlaixiaohai，henyoukenenghuizaoyuxiaohaidehuijue，huibeibaobaokanbushang，youyuxiaohaizineixinrenhedongxidougaoqingchu，niduizheixierendesunhai，tarenqishidemudang，nidangshidepaoxiadaozhidebuliangyingxiangzhiyouzijilaikang，jibianhouhuimojiyebuqizuoyong。

③爸爸妈妈的看不上

chuguinvrenpuchuyihou，budanzishendejiazhonghuijiaporenwang，haihuijixutuoleizigedebabamama，zheiduinianlaodebabamamaeryanshihouzhongdeyanlidaji，laoyibeizuizhuzhongdeshimingjie，suhuashuodehao：jiachoubukewaiyang，beilinjumenzhidaohuizaihoumianzhishouhuajiao，liangkouzidelianwangnaerfang？yingduizaoyishuailaobabamamazhiyoubuyanyidui，jiarendeguinv，pochuqudeshui。mamachuguilezinvzenmebanni？

babamamadejiahenyoukenengzaoyizhuangbuxiazijile。chuguinvrendanxinjiandaobabamamaxinhandemuguang，bujinmeiyoubianchengtamendezihao，fandaohairangtamendiuren，rutongzainvxingxiongkouhenhendidecileyidao，zheileiquehanhuisuizhenvrenyibeizi。

huizong：nvrenchuguishiweihe？hunyinshenghuoshishuangfangyitongyonglaishouweide。bushishuorongxunanrenchugui，bunengchuguinvren。zhishixiangduieryannvshichunanti，duiqizishendesunhaigenggao。