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shierzaoyiyiwangsannianle，diyinianwoxintaishifenxiaochen，zongzhibianshirenshengdaolushiqufendoudeyiyi，ganshenmedoumeishenmereqing。tianshangyipianandan。zheijinianjianjiandixiufulexie，hetadejiediyeshaolexuduo。danshijinqiyouyouyixieqingxubuwending，shiwangxiaochen，mozhangyouzaifushiwo。

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nvrenmengjianzijichuguileshishenmeyuzhaoni？zaizheiligaojiezhuweihunhouxingfukuailedefufu，jiayidingyaoyongxihaohaoyunying，youjishiyidingyaoduogoutongjiaoliu，bicizhijianduoguanhuaicaikeyiburongyichanshengfengxi，lingrenyoushijiankezuan。