母亲出轨，作为儿女该不该管？发现妈妈出轨孩子要怎么做呢

meiyigerendouxiangzishendebabamamahenxiangai，yijiarenhuanhuanxixi，faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？keshiyoudejiazhong，wulunshifouhuiweihaixiaohai，ganleyixieweifanjiazhongdeshier。mengjianchuguishishenmeyisi？nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyuzhaoni？weihehuimengjianzijichuguini？nvrenmengdaozijichuguibeifaxianlezenmebanni？

youdemama，youyuxiaohaidefuqinduiziyibutaihao，suihouneixinjiuganjuebupingheng，jiutiaoxuanpanbianjiazhong，sunhaizhangfuhexiaohai，yiyuchengchenhou，jiuchajuezijibudui，dachaodanaoqiuzhezhangfukuanrong。

xiabianyousange21suidehaizi，jiangchulezishenmamachuguidelijing，dantamenbuzhijiujingxubuxuyaoguan？

小罗/21岁

 womamachuguile，huoxudajiadouganjuehenhaoxiaoba，bingqiehaihendiulian，qishiwoneixinyehentongchu，woyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban？yebuzhidaohesheiqingtu。

faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？congwotinghuazhujian，wofumuyitiandaowandoushizaizhengchao，bingqiequanshiwodemamaxianzhaochaer，laoshishuowobabazheiyibutaihao，neiyigebutaihao，wobabazhinengrenpingwomamama，doubuhewomamachao。

danshi，rangworenweihaoqixindeshi，zaiduleputonggaozhongyihou，wofumubuzhengchaole，neishihouwohaiyiweitamen2gehehaola，xiangbudaobuzhengchaojiushiwomachuguile，heqitayenanrenzaiyiqi。

woweishenmelejiewomamawaiyu？shiyouyuyouyiciwofangxuehouhuijia，jieguojiandaowomamaheyigenanrendongshoudongjiao，neishihouwobianqiaoqiaodegenshangqu。

tamenliangrenjinledaxingshangchang，suihouneigerenpeizhewomagoumailepinpaibaoheshipin，maiwanyihou，wobiankandaowomamaheneigerenlaidaobinguankaifang。

wodangchuqueshihenxiangmawomama，shuotabuzhilianchi，danxiangxiangxiangtazhongjiushiwomenma，woruguoneiyangzuo，zhinenghuiletadezhimingdu，zhihoutahairuhedaizaizheiyiquanshijie，yinweiwohaipahewobabashuo，danyoulaobahuibawomamaganpao。

suoyiwoxianrujinweizheigeshierjuedeyouqifan，buqingchugaigaizenmeban？yebuzhidaogaizenmezuo。

小吴/21岁

womamaershimingku，taganggangchushengwobabamamajiuguoshi，womamahewobashixiangqinyuehuide，yikaishitabuxiaodewobabaqingxubuwending。

zhihouhunhou，wobabayitiandaowanhaochilanzuo，doubuchulaigongzuozhong，doumeiyoushouyi，yeyoubaolixingwei，wuyuanwugujiudawomama，jiuwomahuaileyuntayejuebufangguo，huoshiyaoduiwomamabaoda。

huoxujiushiwohaoyunqi，meiyoubeiwobabazuodiao，yeshunlidechushile，wobaobaochushenghou，jiazhonggongzuoyaliyuelaiyueda，wobabajiujiaowomamachulaidagongzhuanqian，suihoutazaijialimeirixiangyourizi，bingbushiyinjiubianshiduqian，doumeiyoudaiguowo。

wodemamazhengdaodeqian，meiyigeyuedouxuyaoshangjiaodaota，bujitamenbianhuidawomama，wo11suideqingkuangxia，wobabaneiyitianhezuijiu，suihoujiubawomamabaozouyidun，zhuazhewomamadetou，yizhiwangqiangbizhuang，wokandaomamatoudouliuxuele，jiushanglaizulan，xiangbudaoyinweiwogensuiyangji。

womamayizhidouhuodehenbiequ，zhihouwolijituixuequwaishengdagongzhuanqian，youyuwoshinanhaier，wobuyuanyizainianshule，wojuedenuligongzuo，suihoubangwomaxingfudeshenghuo，womamasongdaowozhouweilai，yaowomeixiangdaodeshi，wofaxianlewomamapanbianlewobaba。

neigerenyouqitengxiwomama，tingwenshigeerhunde，wohenkanzhongtamen2ge，suihouwodousuoshiwomamahewobabaliyi，youyuworenweiwobababianshibenrenzha，chukaihuidajiarenhedongxidouburongyi，ruguowomamamingquetichuliyi，wobabahaiganxiashou，wojueduibuhuiqiunifangguowoba。

youshiwoyebuqingxiwoneiyangzuo，wojiujingshiduihaishicuo？

小戴/21岁

zaiwo10suideqingkuangxia，wojiazhonglaoshiyouyigeshengshudenansheng，neigerenlailayihou，womamajiujiaowohedidiqulinjujiawan。

suihouguoqulelianggexiaoshi，neiyigeshengshunanshengjiulikaiwomenjia，neishihouwomamalaijiaowohedidibuyaoshuochulai，fouzehuijibaiwo。

womamahenxiong，tayaneryouxin，wozhinengzuoweishenmeyemeichansheng。

zhihou，woshanglezhongxueyihou，huoxushiwodongshile，jiumeijianguoneigerenle，danshiwomamalaoshizouchuqu，woyoushihouyetingjianlinjujiaderenshuosandaosi，shuowomamawaibianxuduorenle，daoxianzaiwohaimeiyouganhewobabashuo。

wochuzhongbiyehou，jiumeiyouzainianshule，laidaowaishenggongzuozhong，gongzuozhongleyiduanshijianhou，wodiditongdianhualaigenwoshuo，muqinqueshibuxihuanfuqinlemeiyou？

neishihou，wolijiyudidishuomamachuguile，tayouqifahuo，woneishihoujingshitabubigenfuqinshuo，keshiwobingbuanxinxiaodi，lijidangrixianglaozongxiujiahuijiale。

suihouwozhiyiwomama，wobuxianghuoletabingmeiyouwaiyu，quanshitarenluanshuode。mengjianchuguishishenmeyisi？nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyuzhaoni？weihehuimengjianzijichuguini？nvrenmengdaozijichuguibeifaxianlezenmebanni？

suihouwodiqueshishoubule，jiunalezhijiezhengjubangwomakan，womamaneishihoujianmolehaozhangshijian，suihoushuo：“nibabianshiyigebuqizuoyongderen，younayigenanshenghuixiangtaneiyang？wobuhuiwaiyucaiguai，jiranrujinnimendouzhidao，neimewomingrijiuhebaliyi，suihougenneigerenyuanzougaofei。”

di2tian，womamaqueshihewobabalilehun，shoushidongxilikaile，woruguolejiemuqinhuizou，wobuyingdangchuochuanta，fouzetayebuhuilikai，shifouwoqueshizuobudui。

jieyu：jiarumuqinchugui，ernvshiduoshaodouxuyaoguanyixia，jiaruwulun，neizhishirangzishendemamashenxianqizhong，ruguotishizishendemama，huoxuhainengrangmamazhongguijiazhong。

faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？keshishenweimama，buyinggaiwaiyu，waiyuzhongguibutaihao，jiaruganjuehunyinshenghuochengbuxiaqu，neihaikeyitiaoxuanli，qianwanbiesunhaidaoxiaohaiyujiating。