孩子发现母亲婚外暧昧，发现妈妈出轨怎么办

buguanniduochuse，buguanniduoxihuannidejiazhong，yidanwaiyu，faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？jiunanyizaifanhuizishenbenlaidejiatingshenghuozhong。jibianhuodejiazhongdekuanrong，yehuishinidejiatingchengyuanguanxiyuelaiyuenankan，zongganjuejiazaoyibingbushiyuanbendeganshoule。mengjianchuguishishenmeyisi？nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyuzhaoni？weihehuimengjianzijichuguini？nvrenmengdaozijichuguibeifaxianlezenmebanni？

jigeweigongxiangyigegaozhongxueshengfajuemamachuguidezhenshishijian，feichangzhidewomenquziwofansiyixia。

刘同学（自诉）

wodebabashiyimingjishugongren，yinweiqiyedeweilaifazhanyaoqiu，beipaiwangyidigongzuozhongzaoyikuaiyinianle。

tanbaishuowojiahuoshijiaoweitingmeihaode，fumujinguanpingchangyizhizhengzhi，keshidadeqingkuangdoumeiyou。

faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？fumufenliyiduanshijianli，dajiameiyitiandoushikaishipintonghua，wodouhetamenwanxiaodeshuo：“jianjuqueshinengzaochengmeile，wofaxianlenimenyulaiyuzhanle，jiubieshengxinhunzhenbushijiahuaa”。

keshijinqiwofaxianletamendexianliaojianshaole，muqinmeirichulaidepincifandaobianduole。woyiweitamenzhengchaole，dianjizheguojitianjiuhaole，jiumeizaihu。

zhizhiyouyicixiawuyongcan，hetongxuexianfandiandefannanyixiayan，jiuqiaoqiaopaodaoxuexiaowaichi，gangjincanguan，jiupengjianlewomama，tadedirenzuoxialaiyigehewomamanianjichabuduodemoshengrennansheng。

lianggerenshuoshuoxiaoxiaodebianchibianliao，buyouzizhudewolazhepenyoujiuzouchuqule，ziranmuqinyinweibeiduiyinweiwomeichajuewo。

youyumamashigejiatingfunv，yincifeichangshaoyouyixing，zheiwobisheidouqingxi。yixiawudekewohaibunaifan，wojingchangzaixiangmamadenanti。haoqixinbumanlewodexinli。

huidaojiawodangshenmeshiqingdoumeichansheng，haianshixingdewenmuqin：“nizenmehaihuazhuangle？xiawuchidesha”dengyixierichangshenghuoxingdenanti，muqindehuiyingyaowomudengkoudai，tadehuiyinghekanjianledechedibuyiyang。

yicichenmuqinchuqumaicai，toukanlemamadeshouji，wofaxianlemuqinyijiyigenandedeweixinliaotianjilushuzuiduo，doushibiaodaaiyidehua。

wohenshangxin，womingbaimamachuguile，tagufulewodefuqin，beichilezanmendejiazhong。woyebuzhidaoyingbuyinggaihewodebabashuo，wohaipawodebabananguo，yinweiwopasangshimuqin。gengdanxindajiadejiazhongcongciposan。

wohenta，taweiheneiyangzuo，wobuyuanyiyongyouseyanjingqukankanta，danshiyixiangqiwodefuqin，wobianqingbuzijindehenta。

zhihouwoxianglexuduo，zhizhiwobabahuijia，yinweiwomeihetashuodao，henyoukenengshiyouyuhaipashiquba！keshizheijianshiqingzaixinliliuyoulefeichangdadeheiying。

yincibunengbalihundangrenqing，liangrensuizhezhezhangqideshouhou，duoduoshaoshaodoushiduiqingganzaochengmabidexinlizhuangtai，shenzhishiqinggandaliangdebianchengleyizhongzhenqing。

danwomenbunengweiciweituociquwaiyu，nidelaogongjingshenchuguihuoshirentiwaiyubidinghuiduijiazhongdaozhihendadeyanlidaji。

对孩子成长不好

waiyu，weihaijiaodadebianshijiazhong。jiaruliyi，xiaohaihuibianweiliyijiating，ruguobuliyi，zaihuaweiwuyoudefuqiguanxiyanqian，xiaohaisuodedaodesunhaihenyoukenenggenggao。

weilegenghaodihaizichengzhang，qingbuyaozisidehuozhu，liangrentaileilenenggouqulvdujialvyoushifangyalishifangyali，neixinfashengnantile，nenggouzhaoxinlizhuanjiazixunzixun，fashengnantile，pingjingxialaihaohaoqugoutongjiaoliu，shidounenggouchulideliangrendenantide。

danshiyouyuhunneichugui，zaochengxiaohaizaoshousunhai，zheileisunshangshiwufawanhuide。

对爸爸妈妈导致损害

babamamaxinxinkukuyangyuwomenzhangda，tudeyeshirenmennengjiankangpingan，jiazhongxingfumeiman，jiaruyouyuhunwaiqingzhishiliyi，babamamayuanbenpingjingdeshenghuoyougensuilaoliuleqilai。niyouyuxinherenni？

nishitaruheduidaitadebabamama，nishitaruheduidainidebabamama，nirang2geqinjiamuzhongjianruhebicizhijianyingdui。nidewaiyuhuirangquanbujialideguanlianchuyuyigenankandejushi。

youyuhunneichugui，rangbabamamachuyubeitarenzhishouhuajiao，canhoutanxiaofengshengdeyigeziranhuanjingzhong，nirangtamendeyanmiandouhuaweiwuyou。

让自身左右左右为难

renzuidadededuishoubingbushitaren，zhishizishen。waiyuzaochenglihun，duizishendesunhaiyeshibuyaneryude。

xuduoqingkuangxiadajiawaiyubeichajuehou，doushihuizaoshouzishenlianrendechize，naizhiliyi，keshiniwaiyudemubiaobuyidingzainilihunzhihouyehuiliyisuihoujieshouni。nijuedelingyifanghenaizheni，keshishiqueyizhishinixinhan。mengjianchuguishishenmeyisi？nvrenmengjianzijichuguishishenmeyuzhaoni？weihehuimengjianzijichuguini？nvrenmengdaozijichuguibeifaxianlezenmebanni？

chuguinvren，zaianfadongchuanghou，xuduodoushihuihouhuimoji，xiangyaoqiulingyifangdekuanrong。keshixiaoguotongchangdouyiyang，huodedejinyouxiaohaizidebaoyuan，zhangfudelengdan，babamamadewukenaihe。

faxianmamachuguihaiziyaozenmezuoni？waiyushiyigejiazhongdehongxianhebiaozhun，yidanpengchujiangnanyizhongyuan。buguannichuncuideweilegenghaodixingyeba，huoshiweilegenghaodizhaoyifenqingganjiyu，douqingwojinshen！youyusuizhezhewaiyusuodaozhidedebuliangyingxiang，doujiangshidajiayishengmeifaqutianbude。