精神出轨和身体出轨，哪个更严重？ 梦见妈妈出轨什么意思

 xuduomeinvbeiwenqi“laogonglaogongjingshenchuguiherentiwaiyu，nigengwufajienanayige”。jingshenchuguidenvrennengwanhuima？juedabufennvxingdedafushilaogongjingshenchugui。xiaoyueganjueerzhechanshengdesunhaishiyiyangde，tayuqitanvhaizizaiyiqihaiyierzaizaiersanshuowoaini，sheixinsheisha。mengjianmamachuguishenmeyisi？

前天睡过了头，夜里就睡不着了，因此，就在后台管理看留言板留言。刚看没两根，就看见一位阅读者給我的单选题：晚情姐，你可以接纳老公精神出轨或是人体外遇呢？

 wohuidao：zheigewentijiurutongwoyuanjienatarendawozuolianjiahuoshiyoulian，wonayigedoubukenengjiena，shijieshanghaolaogongduodeshi，hekujienawaigualiezao！

 jingshenchuguidenvrennengwanhuima？xunsu，nvhaijiuhuiyingle：neimejiuzhiyouguduyishengle，rujindeshehuifazhan，naliyounanrenaiwaiyua，yaobushilaogongjingshenchugui，yaobubianshirentiwaiyu。

sanguanbutong，meifagoutongjiaoliu。

dayueguoquleshijifenzhong，zheinvhaifalailaixixizhangzhangyigexinxi。

 tajiangtazhangfushiganshichangxiaoshoude，pingshichangchangyaojiaojiguke。zuowan，tayouchulaijiaojile，zaochenliudianduocaihuijia，deshenshangyeyouyigunonghoudexiangwei。

 taxunwentashifouwanxiaojiele，lingyifangbuzuosheng，jinjinhenxinfandijiaotabiefan。keshitajinbuzhuyouwenlejihui，lingyifangcaiyanfandigaozhita，bianshiquzhaolexiaomei，nilingrenmanyile？

 laowen，neishiyouyupaninanguo，niwengebutingdeyouyisima？taqinaodishuo，neiweiheyikaishiwendeqingkuangxiabuyongshuo，ganmayaomengpianta？lingyifangyudiaobukangdishuo：rujinbingbushizaoyiduinishuolemeiyou？

tajiangjiaruniyikaishijiugenwoshuo，wobuxiangneimananguo，keshiwenleneimehenduobiancaishuo，neibianshixiangmengpianwo。

 nanrenshuo：zheiyouqufenma？keguanshishigairuhehuoshiruhe，ganggangshuoherujinshuoyoushenmebutong？suihou，nvhaijiuhetachaoleyijia。

女孩告诉我：

 nijuedezuoweiyigexifu，rongxuzishendelaogongzhaoqingren，woyijinggouhaoladuiba？taweihechedibuqingchuxinhuaiganenni？weihehaixuyaomengpianwoni？

 yinweiwolejie，rujinzheizhongshidaihenluan，nanshengzhixuyihaiyoujihuijiuwaiyu，bingbushirentiwaiyu，bianshilaogongjingshenchugui，wonengjienatarentiwaiyu，keshiwobunengjienatahaichangshimengpianwo。dajiapingchangqingganbucuode，woyuexiangyuebushufu，qidainikeyikaijiechujiewo。

yemeiyouhuiying，keshizheiyixinxizhengzhengexinxiangtulewoyiwanshang。

 meiyoucuo，bianshiexinxiangtudejuede，woconglaidoubulejieyigenvrennenggouzheibangengxinwodedixian，erqiehaijuedezijizuodegouhaola，nanshengyingdangganxieta。

nimashiganjuetazhangfuyeyouyiliangjudaoshishihua，liru“ganggangshuoherujinshuoyouqufenma？keguanshishigairuhehuoshiruhe”。

ruguowoshitazhangfu，wozhixiangshuo，nidoujianchengzheizhongle，woweishenmehaixuyaoganxieni？

 zongzhinidoujuedenanshengbingbushilaogongjingshenchuguibianshirentiwaiyu，haixiabibilibishenmea！duinishuo，buyiweizhewogaoduzhongshinidetihui，zhishikongzibuhaipani！laowen，doubuyiweizhekongzijupani，zhishiyagenbuxianggennishuo。

 meiyoudaodedixiandenvxing，shimeibiyaobeizunjingde，keyishuojiaruzheinvhaibingbushiyouzheibanxialiudeniantou，kenengtazhangfuyehaipazheimechangkuang。

大多数男生无论是外遇或是婚外情，或多或少或是害怕这般名正言顺的。

 zheiyixinxi，yeshilingwochijingde，youyutajiang“dajiapingchangqingganyeshibucuode”，zhangfujingchangwanxiaojie，caitanidezizun，zheijiaoqingganfeichanghaoma？

ziran，henyoukenengzaitayanzhong，zunyanshishenmedoubuqingchu，laogongzhaoqingrenzongbichanshenghunwailianhao。

 woweiyiqidaidebianshitabunengyouguinv，buranwozhenshibuganxiangxiang，yigemeiruotianxiandeguinvzaineiyangdemamayangyuxia，sanguanhuiduomedejixing。

 zhenduixuduomeizhieryan，huoxutamenyouyujingjifazhanwufadandu，meifabaozhengsatuodiliqu，huoxuyouyuqingxushangdeyikao，libuleneiyigesunhaizishendenansheng，youhuoshiyouyuxiaohaideyuangu，xinlihaizaiyizheyixiewupin。

 danshi，wuluntamenzaigerenxingweishangzenyanglieshi，zhishaotamenneixinshilejieshishifeifeide，lejiechuguinanrenshiduizishendewuru，lejiewulunruhewaiyubianshicuowude。erbushijuede，zheiyishijieshangnanshengdouhuiwaiyu，bingbushirentiwaiyubianshilaogongjingshenchugui。

shijishangneimegaosuwodenvhaiyuanyuandibujinzheiyi，youqishizheixiezaoshouwaiyudezhongniannvren，gengxihuanneimeshuo。

jinri，wobianxiangshuoshuozheigewenti：

 jirannirenweiquanbunanshengdouhuiwaiyu，neimenihaibushufugepiya！zheiquanshipushigerenxingweile，zhixujialerendenvxing，zhangfudoushihuiwaiyu，neimenihaibibilibishenme？

 ziran，niyebukeyiquzulantawaiyuawanxiaojie，youyuzainidesiweili，zheiyeshimeiyigelaogongdoushihuijijianshi，niweiheyaoduozoutazuoweinanshengdequanlini？

niyinggaikaixina，nidenanrenhebiedenanshengmeiyoubuyiyang，buransheidouwaiyu，jiutabuwaiyu，nimeirenweitayichanglemeiyou？

ziran，nigengbuyinggaililehun，zongzhi，quantiandidenanshengdouhuiwaiyu，youbushitayige。

 nilihunzhihou，yaobucongciyihouzhunbeiyigerenguo；yaobushi，buguannizhaonayigenansheng，tadouyiranhuizaiciwaiyude，neiyouhekuhuanlaogongni？zheiyiwulunruhe，zhishaoshinidezhengshizhangfu，zhishaoshinixiaohaideqinshengfumufuqin，shifou？

 duiyushuorongxulaogongjingshenchugui，huoshirentiwaiyu，wonenghenchengdanzerendishuo：wulunshiyinajizhongfangshichuguinanren，huoxuwaiyufangshigebuxiangtong，danyouyidianshihaowuyiwende，neibianshiniyizhizaitaxinzhongdebuwei，kenengyeshinizishenxugaole，nidetihuia，nideqingxua，duitaeryan，doumeineimaguanjian。

zaochenwoxunwenlaoxiansheng：nijuedelaogongjingshenchuguiherentiwaiyunayigegengbijiaoyanzhong？

zheihundanxiangyebuxiangdishuo：waiyubianshiwaiyu，haifennaxielaogongjingshenchugui，rentiwaiyu？

 laogongjingshenchuguile，zhixuyihaiyoujihui，rentiyehuigensuiwaiyu；rentichuguile，chuzhechuzhe，ruguopengdaozishenxihuandeleixing，jingshenshizhiyixiazijiugensuichuguile。

wojuedeweitajujuchuoxindeyujudianyiwangezan。

 dan，zaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduonvshengdoubalaogongjingshenchuguiherentiwaiyuyousuochayi，erqiejuedelaogongjingshenchuguibirentiwaiyubijiaoyanzhong。

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 danruolejiezhangfuhunwailianle，erqieheqingrenyouqingganle，tongchangbianhuihuomaosanzhang，lingtamennanguodebingbushizhangfuchuguizheijianshiqing，zhishilaogongaishangtaren。mengjianmamachuguishenmeyisi？

yinci，zhenduixuduonvxinglaijiang，tamennenggoukuanrongrentiwaiyu，danwufajienalaogongjingshenchugui。

 youyutamenbukeyijienalaogongaishangqitarendekeguanshishi，danshiquebingmeiyouxiangguo，tarentichuguile，huoxumeimishangtaren，danshijishangzaoyibuainile，ruoaini，henxinshininanguoma？

 wocongweikandaoguonayigenanrenshiyiyibianwaiyuyibianrangxifunanguodefangfa，quaiyigenvrende。ruoniyitongyangdefangfaquduita，quebaotayixiazihuomaosanzhang，suihouxiuleni！

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 yidanxifurentichuguile，tamentongchangdoubunengjiena，danruguoshilaogongjingshenchugui，tamenjinguanyebushufu，keshikuanrongdeyexuhuoshifeichanggaode。

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 jingshenchuguidenvrennengwanhuima？ruguoniganjuelaogongjingshenchuguimeishashijixingnantishi，youchaoyiri，yexushiyouyuyigejihui，yexushiyouyuyijianxiaoshi，henkenengjiufazhanweirentichuguile。zheierzhe，yuanbenjiujinyouyixianzhige。