女人出轨时到底在想什么？现在女人出轨普遍么

 juedaduoshurendaoneiyangyigehuanjie，tongchanghuitiaoxuanhelingyibanzhengchaohuoshilengbaoli，nvrenchuguiyicihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？yiqiuhuanlingyifangdeguanxinheai，keshini，yeyouxierenhuitiaoxuanlijixiangwaisuoquwennuanheguanai，dongjiebianshiguishuyuhoumianyizhong。xianzainvrenchuguipubianme？

 zaiwojingshourendeganqingwanhuianzhong，youdenvhaiziyeshixiangsizhuangkuang。zheiyidianrutonghulianwangshangchangshuode：chuguinanrentongchangshiweilegenghaodixing，danchuguinvrentongchangshiweileai。keshi，hehulianwangshangguandianbuyiyangdeshi，xuduochuguinvren，yiranqidaizishennenggouzhongguijiazhong。

danwaiyuyishikeguanshishi，laogongyeyilejie，neiyangdehunyinshenghuogairuhewanhui？shi：zhangfupeibupeizhewodounenggou

yinci，hunyinshenghuozhongnvxingganjuegudujimoleng，buquanshizhangfudeguo。

 bingqie，laidaowaiyuzheiyibu，wulunwaiyudeyuanyinshishenme，laogongcaisuanshishiqinglideshouhairen。bixupeilidaoqianhechengrencuowudeyidingshinvxing。

 jinyouzhenzhenzhengzhengjinxingzheiyixiangrenzhinengli，zaizhihoudegoutongjiaoliulicaiburongyiyiweidiyongtuixiezerenhechizedexingshiquyingduilingyiban，juedelingyifangcaisuanshirangzishenwaiyudeyuangu。

·重新构建夫妻感情的舒适度

woyizhizhuzhong，yiduanguanlianlaidaoliekai，daduoshushiyouyushushiduliekai，erwaiyudaozhideyeshishushiduliekai。

wanliuzhongzuixiangzuodeshiqingyeshifujianxianghuzhijiandeshushidu。neizheileishushiduyaozenyangfujianni？

zuixianyaonenghuanweisikaolingyifangdetihui，xiangyixiangruguoshiniyingduilingyibanwaiyu，zuiyaoxiangdeshisha？

yidingshiyigezaisandezhiqian+yigehelixingdebiaoshu。

zheiyibiaoshunengshuodeguoqujiukeyile，jiangniwaiyudeyuanyinqianqiandedaiyiwang，bieshencengciliao，liaodaoyueduolingyifangyuefazenghen。

lingyifangtingwannidejieduhou，yibanyeyouerzhonggailv：

 tashiyigexiangduixinglixingderen，yingdanghuitiaoxuanliyi。nixuyaozuodebianshi，yunxuliyi，shitadejuedehaoguoxie，nengzaiguanlianzhongdedaoyixieshushidu。

 tashiyigemeiyouneimalixingderen，henyoukenenghuicunyoushibao、mazanghua、duobi……zheizhongquanshifaxieqingxudefangfa，shitaxuanxie，biaocengshang，takanshangqushifenkongbu，dantazhenzhengdexinlixiangshengshi：wozhendexuyaodekuanwei，xiangyaonidelejie！！

 wulunyiliyihuoshixuanyongqitafangfafaxieqingxu，zaixuanxiequanguochengzhong，tayexuhuiyunifaxieqingxu，dajiachengzheileifaxieqingxudefangfawei"feiwuceshi"，erfeiwuceshiyibanyou2zhong，jijifeicehechuyubeidongfeice。

·积极废测

jijifeicebianshixiangnifaxienuqi，huimani，"niyoumeiyoushenmelianlaizhaowoliao？""woyibeizidoubuxiwangjiandaonini。"

 nixuyaozuodebianshihelixingniyiqiandegerenxingwei，danbubijinjinjixieshebeidijiyuanyin，biaoshuwanyihou，yaoxushutarendetouru，haowuyiwentarendetouru，suihoubiaoshuwoshixintengnide，woshiainide。

 lirukeyishuo："womingbaiwoyiqianzuodebudui，wozhendeshiyishihulihutu。niyizhizaiyiduanqingganlitourulexuduo，womingbaileyinweiwokandaole，woqueshimeiyouxiangshanghuiwanquansheqiyiduanqingganlikaini。"

danneiyangdejijifeice，peitaliangbojiuhaole，shieryierzaijiukeyile，zaiersanjiubianweijiuchanbuqingle。

·处于被动废测

chuyubeidongfeicebianshiduobi、jianmo，huoshilijijiangnijiaruheimingdan。

 ninengdadianhuajita，jiarutajianchibuxiebujie，ninengkaolvdaofaxinxijitamen，faxinxidezhuyaoneirongcanzhaoyingduijijifeicedefangshi，jiarutahuoshibujiena，niyejiuzhiyouhetalingjulile。keshiyaojilao，zaizheigequanguochengli，bixuzengjiayidingdefudanjilingyifang，shitaganshoudaonishijiaoqueshijiuxing，biemengdejiushadaotasuozaidanweiqunaole，zheijiuguodule。

 feicecongtouzhiweibixutongguohaoduogefanfudequanguocheng，tadeganhuohexintaicainenggoubeijianjiandijiejue。zheiyihuanjiebixuduozhangshijianzaiyubierendexintai，danzhengtieryanzaiyigeyueyinei。xianzainvrenchuguipubianme？

 feicewanbihou，nimenxianghujianzaoyinenggouyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliule，zheishi，nimenkenengshichuzailiangdifenjudeqingkuang，yehenyoukenengzaiyigefangyanxiabianpengmiandanjinyouhenshaodegoutonghegoutongjiaoliu。

ninengmeiguo3-5tianjijihetalianluoyici，jitamenyixiezhengfangxiangzaijingshenshangdexinxigongxiang。

 jilao，yidingshizhengfangxiangxintaideneirong，youyucongshehuixinlixuedefangmianeryan，xintaishijubeichuandixingde，nidezhengmianxintaijiukeyichuansongjitamen，tahenyoukenengbukenengyouhuiyingkeshihuibazheixiexintaijizaixinzhong，zheizhenduinimenshihouzaicizaiyiqishiyoujijiazhutuide。

·深交，使用价值展现重新构建诱惑力

 zaijinxingchuqidefeicehou，niyuniqiannanyoudelianxijiujinrule"yibanpengyouguanlian"huanjie，nidexinmeirirenwubianshirangbierenzaicibeinixiyinzhu，zaizaicixiyinzhutadeyucitongshi，nixuyaozhaojiyujiangzishenwaiyudeyuangu、zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdebugou，jiqilingyifangzaihunyinshenghuozhongdebugoutanchengxiangjiandibiaoming，erqiededaotaderenke。xianzainvrenchuguipubianme？

zheiyiquanguochengshunlidehua，ninyouhuiyixiatihui：

 yishinimenhuikandaonimenhunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidebuzu，zheigewentihenyoukenengshinimenyiqiantiaoxuanduobide，yeshiyoukenengshinimenyiqiangenbenmeichajuede，faxianwentihou，nimenhuiyiqiquyingdui，jinercongyuantoushangbimianlezaiyiciwaiyudegailv，chanshenghunyinshenghuozhongaodexinlaigan；

 ershinimenliangrenzhongxinlejiedaolingyifangzaiziyishengmingzhongdebiyaoxing，nimenqingganyehuijiarudaoyizhongxindegaokuanbi，yuelaiyuegengjialaogu。

 xiezaizuizhong，woyizhidouxiangxinneimeyigekeguanshishi，qingganshishifengerendeshier，buyiyangrenzhenduiqinggandejuedetianrangzhibie。

 nvrenchuguiyicihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？shifoutiaoxuanwanliuyiduannirenweifeichangzhidedeqinggan，jiushinizishenyigerendeshier，biexiangdetaiduo，gengweibielaoxiangtarenzenmejiang，richangshenghuoheriziquanshinizishenzaiguo，yiqieyeyingdangyounizuozhu。